My husband wants a divorce. Help to pray save our marriage

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Im almost give up, losing hope, losing my mind. Husband wants a divorce/separation a day after my bday. He dont know how to continue his life with me anymore. we got married 3 yrs back n gifted with 1 son. I know i’ve been worried and controlled him most of d time which make him feels that i dont trust him at all. The issue keep on repeating all over again as we didnt really bother to talk bt it and now had become worst. I’m willing to change for him and i hope that there’s a chance for both of us to start all over again and compromised. He said hedont love me anymore but i believe there is still love in him. i dont want because of this will ruin my son’s future. He is just 2 yrs plus and he dont know anythg. Please help me to pray together to God to save our marriage and pray that he will soften his heart and lead him back to me n our son. just now i went to confession to confess bt what i’ve done to him all d while. Forgive me for i have sin. I love my husband and i want spend d rest of my life with him. just him. we even went to see priest personally but end up pries told me that he did his best already. my husband juat refused to listen n we may need to away for a couple of weeks n keep on praying that he will change his mind one day. it’s been 3 weeks plus we r like this. and yest he evn told me not to use his name as my husband in anythg. please help me.

desperate n hopeless.
 
Hi puppy d,
It is very hard when your spouse wants something like this. I will be praying that your husband and you will give it another try. I suggest counseling. Perhaps your priest can recommend a marriage counselor in your area. My husband and I go to one who is a Christian counselor (though not Catholic) and he has helped us very much.

Dear Father, please bless this couple with a greater compassion and care for one another, and a desire to try again. Please put a desire within their hearts to follow Your guidance. Amen
 
pkrjenkins said:
Hi puppy d,
It is very hard when your spouse wants something like this. I will be praying that your husband and you will give it another try. I suggest counseling. Perhaps your priest can recommend a marriage counselor in your area. My husband and I go to one who is a Christian counselor (though not Catholic) and he has helped us very much.

Dear Father, please bless this couple with a greater compassion and care for one another, and a desire to try again. Please put a desire within their hearts to follow Your guidance. Amen
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Hi there,
The thing is he said that we dont need a marriage counsellor, he cant see the things that we can continue anymore 😦 i feels hopeless how to persuade him. 3 weeks plus we didnt really talk like husband and wife, it’s like strangers, i can see him hate me that much.
 
Lord, you are the healer of all wounds. Please touch with your healing hand, these tried and tired hearts, that they may find healing, and that the embrace the sacrament which you instated. Send ministering angels to help with this cause. Mary, pray with us. Amen. :gopray2:
 
Glory be to The Father, The Son and The Holy Spirit
As it was in the beginning, is now and ever shall be
World without end
Amen
 
Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of death
Amen.
 
***Our Father, Who art in heaven, hallowed be Thy name; Thy kingdom come; Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread; and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. Amen.

Hail, Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee; blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death. Amen.
 
Our Lady, please remember that it has never been heard that anyone who implored your most kind intercession was left unaided. O Most beautiful flower of Mount Carmel, fruitful vine, splendor of Heaven, Blessed Mother of the Son of God, Immaculate Virgin, assist her in this necessity. O Star of the Sea, help her and show her herein You are her Mother.

“Yet not what I want, but what you want.”

Oh, St. Joseph, whose protection is so great, so strong, so prompt before the throne of God. I dare to pray to you in intercession for her husband. Oh, St. Joseph, do assist him by your powerful intercession, and obtain for him from your divine Son all spiritual blessings, through Jesus Christ, our Lord. So that, having engaged here below your heavenly power, we may offer my thanksgiving and homage to the most loving of Fathers.

Oh, St. Joseph, I never weary of contemplating you, and Jesus asleep in your arms; I dare not approach while He reposes near your heart. Press Him in the name of the son of our sister, and kiss His fine head for him.

Lord Beloved, kindness incarnate, one tiny light, Lord, we beg.
 
Praying for you.

Hang in there, nothing is lost yet. Trust God and keep praying. He will send help your way and will never leave your side.
 
Will be praying for you and your husband, Lord hear our Prayers
 
Pray the rosary daily and ask Mother Mary for her intercession and ask God for the healing and conversion of your marriage.

Try not to focus on your relationship so much but focus on your relationship with God. Failed marriages usually occur when one of the couple did not follow God’s commandmend which is to Love God with all your heart and Love your neighbor as you love yourself.

If you really want to have your marriage restored, these are the steps on how to do it : (I got this from a Catholic Ministry which dedicates in restoring marriages. Their website however is in Spanish )
  1. Your own conversion - Pray, Pray and Pray. Marriage today is under attack from the evil one. Separations and divorces are destroying the basic unit of society which is the family. Jesus is calling you. Through this pain and suffering you are going through, abandon yourself to Him. Lord I offer everything to you. I love you and I entrust my marriage and family to you. Pray for your spouse. No matter what hurtful thing he has said to you, pray for him and bless him. Pray the rosary. Pray the divine mercy chaplet (in a song) daily for the restoration of your marriage.Pray the St. Michael the archangel prayer. Visit Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament. Jesus will give you the strength in the trial.
Stop fighting with your husband. Just leave everything to God. In time of desperation, say an Our father , Hail Mary and a Glory Be…Don’t go after your husband. Go after God and be assured that God will touch your husband’s heart.
  1. Your spouse’s conversion
  2. Continued conversion for both spouses within the marriage
 
***Our Father, Who art in heaven, hallowed be Thy name; Thy kingdom come; Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread; and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. Amen.

Hail, Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee; blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death. Amen.
 
Mayita30 said:
Pray the rosary daily and ask Mother Mary for her intercession and ask God for the healing and conversion of your marriage.

Try not to focus on your relationship so much but focus on your relationship with God. Failed marriages usually occur when one of the couple did not follow God’s commandmend which is to Love God with all your heart and Love your neighbor as you love yourself.

If you really want to have your marriage restored, these are the steps on how to do it : (I got this from a Catholic Ministry which dedicates in restoring marriages. Their website however is in Spanish )
  1. Your own conversion - Pray, Pray and Pray. Marriage today is under attack from the evil one. Separations and divorces are destroying the basic unit of society which is the family. Jesus is calling you. Through this pain and suffering you are going through, abandon yourself to Him. Lord I offer everything to you. I love you and I entrust my marriage and family to you. Pray for your spouse. No matter what hurtful thing he has said to you, pray for him and bless him. Pray the rosary. Pray the divine mercy chaplet (in a song) daily for the restoration of your marriage.Pray the St. Michael the archangel prayer. Visit Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament. Jesus will give you the strength in the trial.
Stop fighting with your husband. Just leave everything to God. In time of desperation, say an Our father , Hail Mary and a Glory Be…Don’t go after your husband. Go after God and be assured that God will touch your husband’s heart.
  1. Your spouse’s conversion
  2. Continued conversion for both spouses within the marriage
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Thank you. Appreciate those advise. I will take note and do my best as mentioned above. Right now, I’m trying my best to put myself back to the track for our son despite all the issues that we are having right now.

Peace be with you. God bless.

Amen.
 
I’m so sorry to hear about your situation. I would pray to St. Jude and St. Anthony, and St. Monica and Rita. Also chaplet of Divine Mercy, and Adoration. Rosary, read from Medjugorje Mary’s messages. I’m talking from experience 🙂
Also pilgrimage to holy place is very good. healing.

Let GOD be in contol of your husband’s heart. Do nothing, let him go off-- you can’t bring him back. He will go and go until HE is changed and right now God has hardened his heart towards you. Read Daniel. This has helped me in trial.

Work on yourself, and take care of your son and be joyful. Be happy. There’s not much else you can do. When it’s time God will either soften/change his heart or the situation. Remember, God is in control.

Love,
Lily
 
***Our Father, Who art in heaven, hallowed be Thy name; Thy kingdom come; Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread; and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. Amen.

Hail, Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee; blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death. Amen.
 
***Our Father, Who art in heaven, hallowed be Thy name; Thy kingdom come; Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread; and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. Amen.

Hail, Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee; blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death. Amen.
 
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