I know what you’re going through. Unfortunately, my husband reacts the same way with bad news: anger and alcohol. Now, my husband is an alcoholic but is on the wagon except for those times. When one of those times come around, he goes on a horrible, horrible binge. The last time that happened I had to take him to the ER because of severe withdrawal symptoms. I have always asked St. Joseph for help in this regard and he has always heard my prayers.
O St. Joseph, whose protection is so great, so strong, so prompt before the throne of God, I place in thee all 105lynne’s interests and desires. O St. Joseph, assist her by thy powerful intercession and obtain for her all spiritual blessings through thy foster Son, Jesus Christ Our Lord, so that, having engaged here below thy heavenly power, she may offer thee her thanksgiving and homage.
O St. Joseph, I never weary contemplating thee and Jesus asleep in thine arms. I dare not approach while He reposes near thy heart. Press Him in my name and kiss His fine head for me, and ask Him to return the kiss when I draw my dying breath. Amen.
St. Joseph, pray for us!