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aprilmayjune
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Hello all,
I’m new to this forum, and I wanted a place where fellow Catholics will pray for me without judgment.
Long story short, my husband and I have been married a little over two months and we found out a few days after our wedding night that I have a certain condition with my reproductive system. It’s a condition where a group of muscles contract subconsciously and I have to retrain them in order to engage in the marital act. I was a virgin when we got married, so we had no idea I had this condition until we went to the doctor.
I would just like to ask you all for prayers that I can have the strength to carry on with my daily exercises. There are days where I have success, but there are lots of days of failure and it’s quite discouraging. What’s more is that people keep asking me when I’m having kids or if I’m pregnant yet and my husband and I wanted kids right away, but having to just say, “Whenever God wants it to happen” or “We’ll let you know” but not being able to explain why hurts me so deep inside because I can’t really talk to anyone about this.
There’s a related support group forum through the official website, but I’m wary about joining it in case there’s some anti-Catholic mentality. Thank you and God bless.
I’m new to this forum, and I wanted a place where fellow Catholics will pray for me without judgment.
Long story short, my husband and I have been married a little over two months and we found out a few days after our wedding night that I have a certain condition with my reproductive system. It’s a condition where a group of muscles contract subconsciously and I have to retrain them in order to engage in the marital act. I was a virgin when we got married, so we had no idea I had this condition until we went to the doctor.
I would just like to ask you all for prayers that I can have the strength to carry on with my daily exercises. There are days where I have success, but there are lots of days of failure and it’s quite discouraging. What’s more is that people keep asking me when I’m having kids or if I’m pregnant yet and my husband and I wanted kids right away, but having to just say, “Whenever God wants it to happen” or “We’ll let you know” but not being able to explain why hurts me so deep inside because I can’t really talk to anyone about this.
There’s a related support group forum through the official website, but I’m wary about joining it in case there’s some anti-Catholic mentality. Thank you and God bless.
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