My "little sister" is heading down a bad road

[robwar]

I think all the detail you have gone into about these events shows how much you are enjoying the drama. Sorry if that seems harsh, but sadly, the drama can consume a persons thoughts. One way to battle that drama is to think about the early life of the Holy family, where Joseph and Mary kept their heads down and focused on what they needed to do.

So for you, think about how you can work on your own life and steer clear from getting overly involved with others. I realize that we all need our friends and want to be needed, but the energy you’re putting into this drama needs to be refocused into something productive, like school and volunteering.

That has been the concern with a number of Op’s posts. She is getting almost the same advice from different posters not only in this situation but a number of others Op has brought up as questions in looking for advice. She has already been told by posters to drop this situation. Being a babysitter for this 16 year old is suspicious at best. I am not sure how someone that had to drop out of school due to stomach ailments that the Dr’s couldn’t diagnosis yet is healthy enough and lacking total common sense go somewhere with a 16 year old and her on line boyfriend to be flirted with and touched. Plus the ongoing drama at home with dad, school, Indian boyfriend etc and so. Then there is the past assault not reported etc. All these things don’t add up and almost abuse this forum system of good will of posters that have tried to help you and give sincere advise that repeated get ignored. Either you have over dramatized what is reality or you are one of the best trolls ever. Work with your therapist or find a new one, go back to school and finish it and stay away from babysitting 16 years old and on-line boyfriends.

 

[Sereta]

What does she see in this guy and why do her parents like him?
Usually if a girl likes a “bad boy” she either has an absent or bad boy father or she’s trying to rebel against her parents who disapprove.
This situation seems odd as her parents “approve” and like him.
Are her parents naive or is he showing a different side to them etc?

 

[lovedance4ever]

Thank you to all who have responded so far.

I just quit babysitting. Eight years of friendships all down the drain now. I feel like ****, but I know it was the right thing to do.

Thanks again,

God bless

 

[Maine52]

Thank you to all who have responded so far.

I just quit babysitting. Eight years of friendships all down the drain now. I feel like ****, but I know it was the right thing to do.

Thanks again,

God bless

Good decision. Peace be with you.

 

[Hoosier_Daddy]

Thank you to all who have responded so far.

I just quit babysitting. Eight years of friendships all down the drain now. I feel like ****, but I know it was the right thing to do.

Thanks again,

God bless

Good for you.

Now stick with it.

It is only “down the drain” if you did not learn from and grow as a person through this.

 

[Blue_Goose]

Thank you to all who have responded so far.

I just quit babysitting. Eight years of friendships all down the drain now. I feel like ****, but I know it was the right thing to do.

Thanks again,

God bless

Good Decision!