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Please keep me and my husband in your prayers. He works out of town and he has lately been texting/talking to a neighbors wife. They are constantly texting/talking to each other. I confronted him after seeing them flirt on Facebook while I was at Bible study. When I checked the phone logs I couldn’t believe it. He denies that anything has happened. Says he doesn’t know why he did it. Loves the faily, loves their kid. I thought it would end and it still hasn’t. I’m going crazy. He won’t stop after I told him that this was hurting our marriage. Told me I was insecure. I even text the girl and asked her nicely to stop…she hasn’t. I am so scared and confused. We have been married for 13 yrs. 😦
 
That is a very hard thing to deal with. You are in my prayers.
 
This is when technology is used for bad, because if there were no cell phones/texting they would have to meet and it would be physically obvious, but with texting “oh it’s innocent” that’s what people think.

My husband does the same, he has messages from ex-girlfriends, even his mom he talks to many times a day and never grows up because he’s still at home in his mind, basically.

This is all possible via the internet/technology. Otherwise men would have to have responsibility for their families.

You can move out, but don’t be surprised if that doesn’t do anything, or make him feel like the “victim.”

Men in porn addiction often lose marriages, choses the porn over their families.

Prayer and fasting, mass and adoration.
 
He’s telling you you’re insecure to make it your issue, not his. It’s a way for him to avoid responsibility and keep abusing.
 
Do all, and I mean ALL, you can do to get the message through to your husband. Pray that the Spirit guides your efforts, enlist the Church, family and friends; but, do everything you can to assist your husband with seeing the reality of the matter.

My situation is a bit different, I had taken my wife for granted, for longer than she could bear. When she finally left me, it became all too clear to me. By then, it was too little, too late. Before either you reach that koint of no return, please give it all you have.

You are in my prayers.
 
Remembering you and your husband in my daily prayers. God bless!
 
You will be remembered in my daily prayer. May God help you to persevere in Faith. May you carry your cross courageously and receive assistance from the Blessed Virgin Mary. Amen.
 
Thank u everyone, pls keep praying for us. lily20 we don’t live together. He works in northern CA. I live in southern CA. The neighbor lives next door in No. CA. He comes home once a month. I have had a very rough week. I haven’t slept or eaten much. God bless all of u.
 
Please keep praying. It is not getting any better. I found out that he is drinking heavily everyday. I asked him to just please come home. He won’t do it because we have bills.
 
Lord God, please hear our prayers and please for ceebee’s marriage. Please otuch the heart, mind, and soul of her husband. Remind him of the vows he made to her, his&her families, their community and to You on their wedding day. Please touch the heart, mind and soul of the neighbor that she may realize that her flirting, whether her intentions are pure or not, are hurting a wife and family. Please ease the pain and suffering of ceebee, Lord God. Give her peace and calm, strength and comfort. Amen.
 
Please keep me and my husband in your prayers. He says it is over but I still have doubt.
 
I was going through my old posts and decided to give an update. It has been a year now since we have talked to each other. I am going to file for divorce. He lost his job because of his drinking problem. The woman he was cheating with is now pregnant and she also contiunes to drink. She doesn’t want the baby. She wanted to “get rid of it” but it’s to late. Now she doesn’t want to be w/him anymore because he hit her. SHe has been going out w/her husband still to trips. He told her to get rid of the baby and is very angry that she is pregnant w/my husbands baby. I feel like I’m stuck in a soap opera. Anyways Thanks for the prayers. Please continue praying for that unborn child.
 
Hail Mary,
full of grace,
the Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb Jesus.

Holy Mary,
mother of God,
pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.
 
I will pray that God will give you the strength and wisdom to make through each day. God bless.
 
Hail Mary,
full of grace,
the Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb Jesus.

Holy Mary,
mother of God,
pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death.

Amen.
 
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