My mom and abortion

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I just got a letter from my mom today and she told me if she had had an abortion with me I wouldn’t be able to have the life I have now, Meaning DH and kids and a stable life. She’s mad at me because to talk with her would trigger my Post Traumatic Stress Disorder and to be a good wife and mom, I don’t talk with her except holiday cards… It feels like she shoved a knife through my chest. I wrote her back and asked if that meant she had wanted to abort me… She had aborted my older sibling, and said the only reason she kept the rest of us (5 living) is because abortion was illegal at the time. I know she is mentally ill. I have a young sister still at home with her and I worry she’ll take her with in suicide. Please pray for mom and sister and me, to get over the pain of hearing mom talk like that about abortion and me… It hurts so bad.
 
Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary, mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death.
Amen.
 
Lord I think that writing her back was responding to the trigger of her intention to stir Kattrina to interact.
It worked. She has drawn blood and now she knows it. She will use whatever works, so Lord please strengthen Kattrina not to reply to any response now that her mother has found a chink to get her involved again, if interacting with Kattrina makes her ill and unable to concentrate on the peace of her own family.

To speak retrospectively of aborting her child and using that to get at her daughter is just not acceptable in a mother. It’s is the mother’s issue. It’s about her, her manipulation, it’s not about the daughter.

The daughter’s good life is the result of Her own choices, her own effects, and it is despite poor mothering, not as a benefit of it.

Lord if it is wise, please give Kattrina grace to close that avenue by ignoring it and by not succumbing, if the result would be to make her a less happy and peaceful wife and mother or a less effective one.

God bless you and each family member, including your young sister.
 
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I just got a letter from my mom today and she told me if she had had an abortion with me I wouldn’t be able to have the life I have now, Meaning DH and kids and a stable life. She’s mad at me because to talk with her would trigger my Post Traumatic Stress Disorder and to be a good wife and mom, I don’t talk with her except holiday cards… It feels like she shoved a knife through my chest. I wrote her back and asked if that meant she had wanted to abort me… She had aborted my older sibling, and said the only reason she kept the rest of us (5 living) is because abortion was illegal at the time. I know she is mentally ill. I have a young sister still at home with her and I worry she’ll take her with in suicide. Please pray for mom and sister and me, to get over the pain of hearing mom talk like that about abortion and me… It hurts so bad.
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I’m so sorry for the pain you are going through with your mother. You state that she is mentally ill so please find some counseling to help you deal with this if you haven’t already.

Your comment regarding your concern she will take your young sister with her in suicide
concerned me greatly; if i understand you correctly that you have some concern she is so mentally ill she could harm your sister with herself you need to take immediate action.

Prayers for your whole family.
Mary.

Mary.
 
Lord God, I pray for Katrina, whom you love and whose life you always meant to be. Please make up for the love her mother has been negligent in giving her. Also I pray for her sister, that you would always protect her and bring her closer to you. I pray for Katrina’s mother, that you would help to heal her mental illness and do whatever you need to change her heart that she may have eternal salvation through your Mercy and Grace. I ask this in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.
 
Hail, holy Queen, Mother of mercy,
our life, our sweetness, and our hope.
To you we cry, the children of Eve;
to you we send up our sighs,
mourning and weeping in this land of exile.
Turn, then, most gracious advocate,
your eyes of mercy toward us;
lead us home at last
and show us the blessed fruit of your womb, Jesus:
O clement, O loving, O sweet Virgin Mary. Amen.
 
Hail Mary, full of grace. Our Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death. Amen.
 
Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
Mother Mary, may Kattrina pray with your Son the words He spoke on the cross about His persecutors: “Father, forgive them for they know not what they do.” Kattrina’s mother really does not know what she is saying and seems/is mentally ill. Please ask Our Lord to shower both Kattrina and her mother with actual graces. Please help Kattrina to persevere in faith and in a state of grace and help her mother to convert and to be charitable. Help Kattrina to forgive her mother’s ugly words and move Kattrina to pray for her mother, who is in need of grace. Amen
 
Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
Hail, holy Queen, Mother of mercy,
our life, our sweetness, and our hope.
To you we cry, poor banished children of Eve,
to you we send up our sighs,
mourning and weeping in this valley of tears.
Turn, then, most gracious advocate,
your eyes of mercy toward us,
and after this our exile,
show us the blessed fruit of your womb, Jesus
O clement, O loving, O sweet Virgin Mary. Amen.
 
Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
St. Michael the Archangel,
defend us in battle.
Be our defense against the wickedness and snares of the Devil.
May God rebuke him, we humbly pray,
and do thou,
O Prince of the heavenly hosts,
by the power of God,
thrust into hell Satan,
and all the evil spirits,
who prowl about the world
seeking the ruin of souls. Amen.
 
Thank you everyone for praying for me and for healing. I never thought so many would take the time to pray for me. Thank you. I forgave mom the moment I read it, I knew she was mentally ill. However it was so painful to read the words, I’d never cried so much. And how ironic to get that letter on the feast of the Immaculate Conception. I offered up my pain for others in need.

I have called child pretection before, and talked with Mom’s therapists, all to no avail. Actaully the talks became hard on my own mental health and I have four of my own kids and a great marriage. I had to choose between Mom and sis, and my family.

I had to wirte to her because of a letter I got from my father. How could I sit back and not warn Mom that Dad was out of jail? I got no warning did that mean she didn’t either? So about Mom getting to me with her letter and her trying to drawa blood,… I stopped talking to her months before this and had to write this time. I also followed up with another letter telling her I forgave her and she said in reply she thought her abortion letter hadn’t gone through.
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Please keep praying for us. Thank you so much. Merry Christmas.
Hail Mary Mother of God pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death Amen.
 
Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
Our Father who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name.

Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread.

And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.

And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

Amen.
 
Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
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