My Mom Sick Now

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I posted a while back because I am ill post found here, my mom has had mental illness since I was 17, I am 26 now, I stress of me being sick and the toll it has taken on money has made her ill, she talks to herself now and things our neighbors are after her, she ins angry toward me, and instead of the loving mom that has been taking care of me I have one that is full of anger and says I cause all her pain.

on top of all this my 87 year old grandma is living here, she has heart problems cant walk, and is frail, up until now, my mom has taken care of us both since im ill with eyesight issues and swallow issues and my gran…im afraid of if she is ill and im in hospital ill who will take care of my gran who can hardly speak any english?

I am full of dispare…i fear for my grandma then me, she wouldnt know how to take care and since she is old suffers from a bit of what my mom has…why does god punish me, i just want to be normal and have my full sight to keep my family safe, i have nobody else just my gran and my mom, in the living world, i have no real friends to turn to since most moved away…i am alone,

i ask for prayer, but i dont know what else to do…i am on my knees crying, i just finished crying as i write this, my site is bad but enough so i can write this so someone will listen, before it was about me, but i rather have my family safe healthy and alive…then me being unable to care for them. i dont even have the money to hire anyone, i used my last dime to pay for this months mortgage, i didnt pay hydro or anything because it thought my mom would work out something… dont know what to do, i cant really leave the house, or work,

i been since much of my life…and when i first got sick with a minor version of whatever i have my mom had the same issues because of stress…

i admit here i fell to my knees and asked god why forsake me and why he did this, jesus himself asked this question…but he had a reason, am i unworthy of a normal life, to have children to have a wife, to have the basics that so many i the world take for granted…i would vow to god grant me healing power but i dont know what else i have other then my life, and im just strong enough that i dont want to go to hell because its the only thing i have left is that i have a chance at heaven…

pray for us…i tried holy water, cross in front of her commanding any evil,im a modern cahtolic but i have no hope left…god be thankful shes not suicidal or angry where she wants to hurt me or gran forcing me to put her in hospital…i dont know if any of this makes sense since im very upset crying…i wish jesus would come…start the new world…as selfish as it sounds…bless you all for listening
 
Our Father, Who art in heaven,
Hallowed be Thy Name.
Thy Kingdom come.
Thy Will be done, on earth as it is in Heaven. Give us this day our daily bread.
And forgive us our trespasses,
as we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil.

Amen.

Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of death.

Amen.

Glory be to the Father,
and to the Son,
and to the Holy Spirit.
As it was in the beginning,
is now,
and ever shall be,
world without end.

Amen.
 
I don’t know what the doctors say about your mother’s illness, but if she has bee a kind and loving mother previously, I imagine it is her illness that is causing her mood and nature changes.
I am concerned that you have no support, hopefully there is some available.
You are not unworthy, but feeling the burden of carrying your mother and grandmother in their illnesses. If you have a bible and read Matthew 25, verses 31-46, you will see what Jesus says about all the care you take of your sick family members.
Jesus spoke of how He judges us when we die,
‘Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world. 35 For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, 36 I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.’ 37 “Then the righteous will answer him, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? 38 When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? 39 When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?’
40 “The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’

So what you are doing for your mother and grandmother you are also doing for Jesus.

Jesus please accept everything that Mar endures and does for his mother and grandmother, as kindness done to You.
Please help him carry his cross as he is broken-hearted and very tired.
Please give him kindness and support.

Lord please ensure that Mar’s mother and grandmother are properly diagnosed if not already,
and please ensure whatever support and treatment may be needed.
 
bless you, sadly its me and my mom that are ill and most of the ills of my grandmother is of old age, but i understand and thank you for your prayer from the heart. all of you give me some comfort in knowing someone cares about me and my family
 
Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women and
blessed is the Fruit of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners
now and at the hour of our death. Amen.
 
My friend, my heart goes out to you. You have a cross to carry but know that you are not alone. I would say that you are also desperate and desperate times call for desperate measures. Although it seems that God is punishing you, know that God does not operate that way. Our God is a good God who only wants to bless you, but the way to get through this situation is to start walking out in faith.

I have found in times of trial that miracles happen when I operate by faith (take some kind of action) and prayer. For example, in your situation I would (by faith), call upon family and friends to see if anyone could offer some kind of support. I would also reach out to my church and maybe even look into some sort of state assistance for your mom and grandmother. After you have taken every kind of action possible, then turn to God in prayer and ask Him to bless your endeavors as you’re looking for help for your mother, grandmother and yourself.

When you cry out to God, He hears your prayers, but when you activate your faith (by action), mountains (your situation) will move. In regards to prayer, Jesus said, “Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks, receives; and the one who seeks, finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened.” (Matthew 7,7-8).

I have also found that, during the worst of times, when you TURN TO GOD IN PRAISE and start thanking Him for all things, good and bad–then blessings will begin to manifest. It is almost as if your act of faith (in the face of trying circumstances), is rewarded. Whatever happens, please don’t give up. God is there to help you, but you must do your part by asking those around you for help and then (by turning to God in prayer) He can release His blessings upon you and your family.

God Bless
 
May our Lord give you the strength and graces you need to carry your cross heroically. May you find a good priest to be your spiritual director so you can get some spiritual support. May you know that God never abandons us unless we abandon him first, and keep praying and trusting in him. May our Lady, through her loving intercession, lighten your burden and help you to persevere in faith. Amen.
 
Jesus please accept everything that Mar endures and does for his mother and grandmother, as kindness done to You.
Please help him carry his cross as he is broken-hearted and very tired.
Please give him kindness and support.

Lord please ensure that Mar’s mother and grandmother are properly diagnosed if not already,
and please ensure whatever support and treatment may be needed.
Lord have mercy.
 
You, your mother and Gran our in my prayers. I will offer mass up for you and your family on Sunday.

I am not certain to which Province you live in, however the Provincial Governent is similar in health care assistance.
Make an appointment with your Doctor and explain your situation in detail. He should set you up with a Social Worker. They will come to your home and assess the situation, make reccomendations and provide home health care for free. (up to 30 hours a week).
They should also provide you with another worker in regards to your illness and living situation.

Canada has large Polish community pockets everywhere.
We,( I have Polish, American and Itailan in me) LOVE to help. They will be their for your family somehow or someway. Usually through the Church or polish Alliance, etc…

If you P.M. me with the area you live in, I will resarch and provide more information.

There will be a healing. God did not bring you this far, just to leave you alone.
Andrea
 
In prayer for Mar’s family

Our Father who art in heaven, hallowed be Thy Name.
Thy Kingdom come.
Thy Will be done, on earth as it is in Heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread.
Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. Amen
 
O God who in Thy ineffable goodness hast rendered blessed Raphael the conductor of thy faithful in their journeys, we humbly implore Thee that we may be conducted by him in the way of salvation, and experience his help in the maladies of our souls. Through Jesus Christ, Our Lord. Amen.
 
Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of our death.
Amen.
 
A Prayer for Healing
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Lord, You invite all who are burdened to come to You, allow Your healing hand to heal us. Touch our souls with Your compassion for others. Touch our hearts with Your courage and infinite love for all. Touch our minds with Your wisdom, that our mouths may always proclaim Your praise. Teach us to reach out to You in my need, and help us to lead others to You by our example. Most HOLY FACE OF JESUS bring us health in body and spirit that we may serve You with all our strength. Touch us gently this life which You have created, now and forever. Amen.
 
Hail Mary, full of grace.
the Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou amongst women,
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb,
Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God,
pray for us sinners,
now and at the hour of our death.
Amen.
 
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