My reservations about Catholicism

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I am a life long protestant, who finds something lacking in my religion. I don’t like the doctrinal pandemonium characteristic in my religion and apostolic succession makes sense to me.

My son converted to Catholicism several years ago. We have had many conversations about it and I have thought seriously about converting.

Here are a couple of things I still have problems with. I apologize if any of this appears disrespectful. I don’t intend it that way. I’m honestly seeking clarification.
  1. The veneration of Mary. I don’t see this in scripture. Jesus wasn’t particularly deferential toward his mother. The Apostles didn’t seem to be either.
  2. The bad popes- We all know there have been popes who were scoundrels. It is no secret. There has been at least one incestuous pope. Popes have bought and sold the papacy.
    If the Holy Spirit chooses the pope as Christ’s Vicar on earth, how could some of these people have been chosen?
 
Hello BillB2 and a warm welcome to CAF. Your in the right place to ask your questions. I’m not well versed in church history for your secound question. On the first question, I do belive an angel appeared to Mary.

Luke 1:2 NLV

26 In the sixth month of Elizabeth’s pregnancy, God sent the angel Gabriel to Nazareth, a town in Galilee, 27 to a virgin pledged to be married to a man named Joseph, a descendant of David. The virgin’s name was Mary. 28 The angel went to her and said, “Greetings, you who are highly favored! The Lord is with you.”
29 Mary was greatly troubled at his words and wondered what kind of greeting this might be. 30 But the angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary; you have found favor with God. 31 You will conceive and give birth to a son, and you are to call him Jesus. 32 He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High. The Lord God will give him the throne of his father David, 33 and he will reign over Jacob’s descendants forever; his kingdom will never end.”

34 “How will this be,” Mary asked the angel, “since I am a virgin?”

35 The angel answered, “The Holy Spirit will come on you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you. So the holy one to be born will be called** the Son of God. 36 Even Elizabeth your relative is going to have a child in her old age, and she who was said to be unable to conceive is in her sixth month. 37 For no word from God will ever fail.”

38 “I am the Lord’s servant,” Mary answered. “May your word to me be fulfilled.” Then the angel left her.

This is actually one of my favorite reading in the bible.
I hope this was a little help.
May the Holy Spirit guide on your journey to the Cathiolic Church.

God bless

jesus g**
 
As someone who struggled with your second question about bad popes, my answer was found in the reality that Jesus chose Judas as one of His 12.

Judas was about as much as an insider as anyone could be. And he did much damage.

Just recently the Benedict XVI made the comment that what Catholics need to fear isnt those who oppose the Church nearly as much as they need to fear the sins of those within Her. (paraphrase)

I think Judas is a reminder of there will also be evil within the Church as well, and that including those “chosen” by God. It was from the very beginning.
 
I am a life long protestant, who finds something lacking in my religion. I don’t like the doctrinal pandemonium characteristic in my religion and apostolic succession makes sense to me.

My son converted to Catholicism several years ago. We have had many conversations about it and I have thought seriously about converting.

Here are a couple of things I still have problems with. I apologize if any of this appears disrespectful. I don’t intend it that way. I’m honestly seeking clarification.
  1. The veneration of Mary. I don’t see this in scripture. Jesus wasn’t particularly deferential toward his mother. The Apostles didn’t seem to be either.
  2. The bad popes- We all know there have been popes who were scoundrels. It is no secret. There has been at least one incestuous pope. Popes have bought and sold the papacy.
    If the Holy Spirit chooses the pope as Christ’s Vicar on earth, how could some of these people have been chosen?
About the bad popes…

The Holy Spirit does infact choose the pope just like we can be chosen by the Holy Spirit to do something else. There is one problem; the Holy Spirit cannot stop us from sinning, which is caused by Satan not God. The Holy Spirit can guide us and the pope away from sin but cannot stop us.

Consider this… :hmmm:

One of the Priests at my parish told me that the “path to hell is made by the bodies of corrupt priests” :eek:

This basically says that even those considered to live a Holy Life can sin and even possibly go to Hell. 😦

God Bless 😃
 
I am a life long protestant, who finds something lacking in my religion. I don’t like the doctrinal pandemonium characteristic in my religion and apostolic succession makes sense to me.

My son converted to Catholicism several years ago. We have had many conversations about it and I have thought seriously about converting.

Here are a couple of things I still have problems with. I apologize if any of this appears disrespectful. I don’t intend it that way. I’m honestly seeking clarification.
  1. The veneration of Mary. I don’t see this in scripture. Jesus wasn’t particularly deferential toward his mother. The Apostles didn’t seem to be either.
  2. The bad popes- We all know there have been popes who were scoundrels. It is no secret. There has been at least one incestuous pope. Popes have bought and sold the papacy.
    If the Holy Spirit chooses the pope as Christ’s Vicar on earth, how could some of these people have been chosen?
I think the Bible tends to hint at it more than specifically define it, as for example, when Mary said that “all generations shall call me blessed” or when Christ turns to John and says “behold your mother.” That being said, there isn’t much on the Holy Trinity either, but the Bible hints at that as well.

With regards to the papacy, I don’t see the issue, personally. What Catholics believe is that the Church will be prevented from teaching error, not from its individual members being sinful. After all, the Old Testament priesthood, headed by the King was also filled with sinners.

The Church might be a holy institution, but it is a holy institution on Earth, run by men. And that is significant. Additionally, context is also important with regards to many of the bad popes. The Catholic Church in history has often been in chaotic circumstances - facing constant heresies, incessant invasions by barbarians, overthrows by enemy kings, rival claimants, and cataclysmic plagues. It’s not surprising that one or two popes ended up being corrupt. But the promise of the faith has never wavered. And that, in the end, is what matters.
 
meh …there were ‘bad’ Popes that did great things. On the other hand there were pious, devout Popes that were eventually made into Saints that were poor administrators…and things went south.

But more than the ‘bad Popes’ the most voiced complaint of the Church I’ve heard over the years orbits around our Marian devotions. Being born and raised in the church that’s the real head scratcher for me.

It was a bunch of old ladies in the back of churches all over the world saying the Rosary that inspired the Lord to confound those Russian engineers and let that Chernoble plant go critical…and that ended the Soviet plan for world domination. All thanks to the Blessed Mother.
 
I am a life long protestant, who finds something lacking in my religion. I don’t like the doctrinal pandemonium characteristic in my religion and apostolic succession makes sense to me.

My son converted to Catholicism several years ago. We have had many conversations about it and I have thought seriously about converting.

Here are a couple of things I still have problems with. I apologize if any of this appears disrespectful. I don’t intend it that way. I’m honestly seeking clarification.
  1. The veneration of Mary. I don’t see this in scripture. Jesus wasn’t particularly deferential toward his mother. The Apostles didn’t seem to be either.
  2. The bad popes- We all know there have been popes who were scoundrels. It is no secret. There has been at least one incestuous pope. Popes have bought and sold the papacy.
    If the Holy Spirit chooses the pope as Christ’s Vicar on earth, how could some of these people have been chosen?
Do yourself a big favor and read “Catholicism and Fundamentalism: The Attack on ‘Romanism’ by 'Bible Christians” by Karl Keating. I always have people who are interested/curious in Catholicism read it. It has good chapters on Mary/the popes.
 
Bill,

The issue with which you are wrestling in the Protestant faith is causing you to realize that something is not right, to question and to look. JESUS taught us that “those who seek ME will find ME, all who seek find” - paraphrase.

Therefore, I suggest you jump in with both feet and join the local RCIA class in the nearest parish - your son can explain it to you - it is not a promise to join, it is a “seeking” to determine if the Catholic Church contains the presence of GOD.

To address your two questions:
  1. Mary is not GOD, and never was, and never will be. She is the MOTHER OF GOD, from whom and through whom JESUS entered the world. She was the Mother of the Holy Family, and through Her requests JESUS bestowed graces and gifts upon those whom She knew while She lived on earth - read story of wedding of Canna -. Now that She is in heaven, those graces and gifts are stll available to us, Her children on earth - if we pray and ask - not as if we are praying and asking from GOD, but as if we are asking from our own mother.
    So we do not venerate Her as GOD, we recognize She is GOD mother and our Mother and we go to Her as a Mother who only wishes the best for Her children.
  2. And as satan began to attack the church - through Judas and others - during the time of JESUS - read where Peter denies that JESUS will die and JESUS yells at him “Get behind ME satan”. satan continues to this day until the end of time to force his attack. The remaining 11 apostles preserved and survived, and thousands of martyrs died for the faith. “The gates of hell shall not prevail against it”, - paraphrase of JESUS (Mt 16 ) promising that although satan will attack and harm the church, the Catholic Church will one day break down the gates of hell and overcome evil. Maybe not in our life time, so then we need to be prepared as martyrs to die if necessary for our faith.
Pursue the RCIA and “seek” the Truth.
 
Thank you all for your kind and generous posts.

They have all been very helpful. I’m learning a lot.

Thanks again.

Bill
 
I am a life long protestant, who finds something lacking in my religion. I don’t like the doctrinal pandemonium characteristic in my religion and apostolic succession makes sense to me.

My son converted to Catholicism several years ago. We have had many conversations about it and I have thought seriously about converting.

Here are a couple of things I still have problems with. I apologize if any of this appears disrespectful. I don’t intend it that way. I’m honestly seeking clarification.
  1. The veneration of Mary. I don’t see this in scripture. Jesus wasn’t particularly deferential toward his mother. The Apostles didn’t seem to be either.
  2. The bad popes- We all know there have been popes who were scoundrels. It is no secret. There has been at least one incestuous pope. Popes have bought and sold the papacy.
    If the Holy Spirit chooses the pope as Christ’s Vicar on earth, how could some of these people have been chosen?
Jesus thought so highly of His mother that He granted her rquest, even though He told her it wasn’t His time. (Wedding at Cana) He still can’t say no, which is why I don’t hesitate to go to Mary for help. We know where that help comes from. The Bible doesn’t say how the Apostles thought of Mary. That wasn’t the point of the Good News. They had to observe how Jesus treated her, though. Would they not highly respect and love her, too?

Regarding the bad popes. There has never been an error in faith taught by any pope. Clearly the Holy Spirit is keeping His part of the Covenant.

Good luck in your search for truth. God bless.
 
Regarding Mary, while

-an inanimate box that held inanimate slabs of stone detailing God’s word was regarded with honor in the OT, what of the living creature who CHOSE to hold the LIVING word of God? Jesus didn’t have a wife, Mary was the only other human who was ever made one with him.

-Mary was a living creature who CHOSE to give up her life/dreams at 15 to become the “Mother of God”. After “how can this be?” no questions asked.

-“Mother” here doesn’t mean origin, or life-source, but its true meaning, namely, “slave”. Ask any mother, they’ll agree-motherhood is consensual slavery. She was the first Christian, to fully give up her life for Christ.

-After 33 years of raising Jesus she stood by him and watched as her son, her baby boy, her little two year old, was tortured, mutilated and murdered right before her eyes. She was only 48. The pain she must have gone through is unimaginable. The Sacrifice was HIS, no argument there. HE bought our Salvation, but she was there. After Him, she suffered more than anyone else there.

-Christ was a Davidic King. Just like Solomon, who had by his right hand Bethsheba, Christ would have by his side his own Queen Mother. What do you call the Queen Mother of the King of Kings?

-We are called to imitate Christ. Christ loved his mother. He also followed all commandments. Remember “Honor Thy Mother?” No matter deeply our affections grow for her, we’ll never be able to love Christ’s mother as much as he did.

-Jesus taught in parables of words. The Father teaches in parables of flesh. Consider all the lessons we can learn from the events detailed of Mary’s life in Luke. That’s what the Rosary is about. If you’ve ever read the bible and imagined yourself in the crowd as Jesus was teaching, why wouldn’t you want to experience those events from the best seat in the house?

Forgive me is any of this is brash, I don’t have much time and I’m sure others can add more. There’s more than a lifetime’s worth that’s been written regarding her, all much more eloquent than what I’ve written here. I hope any of this helped.

-Sally
 
I am a life long protestant, who finds something lacking in my religion. I don’t like the doctrinal pandemonium characteristic in my religion and apostolic succession makes sense to me.

My son converted to Catholicism several years ago. We have had many conversations about it and I have thought seriously about converting.
Welcome to the Forums. I’m sure you will receive much help here as you move forward on your spiritual journey.
Here are a couple of things I still have problems with. I apologize if any of this appears disrespectful. I don’t intend it that way. I’m honestly seeking clarification.
  1. The veneration of Mary. I don’t see this in scripture. Jesus wasn’t particularly deferential toward his mother. The Apostles didn’t seem to be either.
A quick search on this matter will turn up many discussions and I don’t really have anything to add to it.
  1. The bad popes- We all know there have been popes who were scoundrels. It is no secret. There has been at least one incestuous pope. Popes have bought and sold the papacy.
    If the Holy Spirit chooses the pope as Christ’s Vicar on earth, how could some of these people have been chosen?
This can be a difficult thing to wrap one’s head around - so please be patient with us as we try to explain and also be patient with yourself as you try to understand.

The whole “bad popes” issue is extremely complex and we need to recognize some underlying issues and assumptions in order to get to a better understanding.

First - lets look at ourselves. Sinners. Sinners before our conversions and sinners still. Yet - even within our sinful natures we know what is right and, by the guidance of the Holy Spirit, we can give good advice to others. The old saying “Do as I say, not as I do” jumps to mind. Jesus addressed this point in Mt 23:1-3 when he upheld the authority of the Pharisees in spite of their sinful ways.
Likewise, in our own lives, we give advice to our children even though we are not perfect. As an obvious example, a parent who smokes may well plead with his child not to smoke.

Now - we can apply this same idea to the clergy and to the papal office. The Pope, as a man, can be a sinner, and yet still dispense good, sound, Spirit Guided, advice. Thus a sinful pope can still dispense sound teaching.
Now - to address the very sinful and worldly men who held the papal office…These men were simply not interested in spiritual matters and so they did not try to change teaching. Those who were good spiritual men, promulgated only good teaching. See what I mean???

The other thing that one needs to see - and it all ties in together - is the dual role that the Pope had to deal with for many centuries. That of being both Temporal King and Spiritual Leader. This unfortunate circumstance developed with the fall of the western Roman Empire. The Church, as the only really steady and coherent authority stepped into the “Power vacuum” and the anarchy of the time. I’m sure it seemed like a good fit at the time - and opportunity to build the “Kingdom of God”. Unfortunately, the Church ran into the age old political problems of idealism vs pragmatism…and this cause no end of problems.
Just as one example…Consider the oft discussed matter of “persecutions” etc of heretics. In technical point of fact, we can say that the Church never put anyone to death. That it was the civil authority who did this and usually the charge was treason. Of course in those days before “Freedom of Religion”, to deny or contest the faith of the king and country, was to deny the king and that was a capital offense.
NOW, and here is where the problem comes in…at various times and places…clergymen would also be office holders of the civil government. Thus, a bishop might sign and order for an execution, not as bishop, but as governor. It’s enough to make one’s head spin…:whacky::hypno:

I know that in the above, I am painting with a broad brush and over a very long period of time, but I hope that these “ideas” help to give you an insight into the matter of how teh Church managed to survive with her teachings intact.
That is - in a nutshell - a “corrupt” politician pope had no interest in “teaching” and those who were interested in “teaching” were not corrupt (at least not seriously so)

Peace
James
 
First, I would like to open with a quote:

“She is full of grace, proclaimed to be entirely without sin- something exceedingly great. For God’s grace fills her with everything good and makes her devoid of all evil.”
-Martin Luther’s “Little Prayer Book”, 1522
🙂
Veneration of Mary was practiced by the early Protestant churches as well as Catholics. Unfortunately, most have abandoned the practice.

I don’t know if this has been addressed, but I just wanted to add a couple of things about the Blessed Virgin.

I too, am a convert, so did not grow up venerating or thinking about her at all, but now have a great love for her.

Did you know that we here on Earth have the ability to fulfill a Biblical prophecy, every day (every minute) of our lives? Mary prophesied when she sang the Magnificat, “Henceforth, all generations shall call me blessed.”

Every time we pray a Hail Mary or venerate Mary, we are fulfilling a Biblical prophecy and helping to form the heel that will crush Satan! How amazing is that? When the Holy Spirit filled Mary and caused her to say these words, God was giving us an incredible opportunity to fulfill a prophecy for all generations.

Also, think about this. Picture a young couple who are so in love. They want to be married. The boy says to the girl, “I love you so much. I want to spend my life with you. I am so head over heels crazy about you, you complete me. But as for your mom, I don’t want to talk to her. I don’t want to meet her. I don’t care about getting to know your family or friends. I want to stay totally 100% focused on you.”

Wouldn’t we say that is ridiculous? But this is what Christians do when they focus on “me and Jesus” and ignore the Saints and His Blessed mother! The Saints and Mary do not take away from the glory of Jesus, they ADD to it!

I suggest you get a copy of the Rosary cd from the Mary Foundation, they talk about the origins of the Rosary and our veneration of Mary, and that is where I got these stories.
 
From my perspective, I don’t see how one could be a Christian and not venerate Mary, Mother of God. She is the only mortal person who lived a life free of sin, including the original sin. Recall that veneration is not the same as worship. Saints are also venerated. Who is more worthy of veneration than the Blessed Virgin? If one is to apply a little logic, it becomes readily apparent that there is no reason to be uncomfortable with the veneration of Mary. In fact, the lack of veneration that Protestants show towards Mary is disconcerting to say the least.

As to the bad popes, I think this is something of a red herring issue. Even popes can sin. Indeed, Peter, the first pope, denied Christ. What can be worse than denying Christ? Does that make Peter a “bad pope”?
 
It seems to me that the Adoration of Mary is easily explained. The question of the so called bad Popes…consider this:

God chose David. He was the youngest and presumedly weakest of his brothers. His father didn’t even see fit to present him for consideration. I can’t quote specifically, but doesn’t the scripture say that God does not see as Man sees. Didn’t David send the husband of the object of his lust to certain death in order to have her? God repeatedly chooses deeply flawed and thoroughly human people to do his work.

God chose Moses. He was a murderer of his own people which is why he flees in the first place.

The apostle Paul? He literally persecuted Christ! I realize that this line of argument has flaws, but all I’m trying to point out is that God chooses flawed people to do his works. We can’t know why he might allow these Popes to be “bad”. His ways are inscrutible.

And, BTW, this is what gives me hope. God chose sinners. I am a sinner.

God bless and remember the doors of the Church swing open on welcome hinges for all God’s children.
 
It seems to me that the Adoration of Mary is easily explained. The question of the so called bad Popes…consider this:

God chose David. He was the youngest and presumedly weakest of his brothers. His father didn’t even see fit to present him for consideration. I can’t quote specifically, but doesn’t the scripture say that God does not see as Man sees. Didn’t David send the husband of the object of his lust to certain death in order to have her? God repeatedly chooses deeply flawed and thoroughly human people to do his work.

God chose Moses. He was a murderer of his own people which is why he flees in the first place.

The apostle Paul? He literally persecuted Christ! I realize that this line of argument has flaws, but all I’m trying to point out is that God chooses flawed people to do his works. We can’t know why he might allow these Popes to be “bad”. His ways are inscrutible.

And, BTW, this is what gives me hope. God chose sinners. I am a sinner.

God bless and remember the doors of the Church swing open on welcome hinges for all God’s children.
I’m sure you didn’t mean it this way, but “veneration” is the correct term, not “adoration.” Adoration is reserved for God alone.
 
I am a life long protestant, who finds something lacking in my religion. I don’t like the doctrinal pandemonium characteristic in my religion and apostolic succession makes sense to me.

My son converted to Catholicism several years ago. We have had many conversations about it and I have thought seriously about converting.

Here are a couple of things I still have problems with. I apologize if any of this appears disrespectful. I don’t intend it that way. I’m honestly seeking clarification.
  1. The veneration of Mary. I don’t see this in scripture. Jesus wasn’t particularly deferential toward his mother. The Apostles didn’t seem to be either.
  2. The bad popes- We all know there have been popes who were scoundrels. It is no secret. There has been at least one incestuous pope. Popes have bought and sold the papacy.
    If the Holy Spirit chooses the pope as Christ’s Vicar on earth, how could some of these people have been chosen?
How was Jesus not deferential to His Mother? He gave his mother to John at the Cross for her protection. As he was dying, he thought of someone to take care of his mother and gave his mother to John and to all of us.

**"When Jesus saw his mother and the disciple there whom he loved, he said to his mother, “Woman, behold, your son.” Then he said to the disciple, “Behold, your mother.” And from that hour the disciple took her into his home. (John 19:26, 27) This tender scene speaks to us of the depth of the Love which inspires, informs and transforms all human love, the Love Incarnate who gives us His Mother. **

Popes. The Church has had a long and sometimes colorful history. It’s a 2,000 year history. Even those corrupt Popes are only infused with the Holy Spirit when speaking ex Cathedra – on faith and morals. Popes are not without error and ex Cathedra is not that common. So, Popes are not always inspired by the Holy Spirit.

This was something in our homily today. How do we know that the priest saying Mass is not without sin? We don’t. Does that make us doubt the Mass? Do we now think that maybe we have attended many Masses that were invalid. No, because it is Christ who is present in the ONE Mass and He is without error. The fact that the priest is in error would not make the Mass invalid because we are assured of Christ’s presence.

Consequently, a Pope can err – and he is human. But when he officially speaks, and the Holy Spirit speaks through the Pope, it is then not the Pope speaking but the Holy Spirt working through the representative – the Pope. The same with the priest. He represents God when he hears confession and serves the Mass – but it is Christ who is present.

Those who elect the Pope take an oath that they believe this man is the right person to be Pope. And though the Vatican does speak about the Holy Spirit guiding the cardinals, it is a process with the most senior of the Cardinals, who may not be in consideration, being able to influence a coaltion for one man. They are human.

It does not create doubt in my mind, in fact in my lifetime I think we have been Blessed with some excellent Popes.
 
I am a life long protestant, who finds something lacking in my religion. I don’t like the doctrinal pandemonium characteristic in my religion and apostolic succession makes sense to me.
  1. The veneration of Mary. I don’t see this in scripture. Jesus wasn’t particularly deferential toward his mother. The Apostles didn’t seem to be either.
 
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