TarAshley is learning from her mistakes… the mistakes of giving advice and taking control when neither was asked for. Almost all of us do it, and as often as not we have the very opposite effect of what we intended, which is why we so admire those who know how to bite their tongues until the time is right.
It seems a shame to waste all that wisdom, I know, but unsolicited wisdom usually just adds to the mess.
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