My son just told me this

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Many of you know my story. I’m the bread winner. Living away from family.
Marital problems are large…
My 8 year just told me that he was talking to his dad about moving to HIS parents town (across the country).

I am flabbergasted. He said they were talking about moving because they have extreme allergies.

What is proper protocol here? I would like to strangle my DH.
 
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Many of you know my story. I’m the bread winner. Living away from family.
Marital problems are large…
My 8 year just told me that he was talking to his dad about moving to HIS parents town (across the country).

I am flabbergasted. He said they were talking about moving because they have extreme allergies.

What is proper protocol here? I would like to strangle my DH.
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First, I would praise Jesus for your son telling you. Next, after reading the other problems you have been dealing with, I would talk to an attorney and discuss your options for obtaining custody of your son and protecting your assets. Now is the time for action
 
DH just told me that he and son were talking about ALL of us moving there and only of I got a job there.

He said “obviously we couldn’t go unless you had a job there to live…”
 
I still stand by my advice after seeing you other posts. Things are not going to change unless you take action.
 
Understood.

I guess I deny the obvious. Is there ANY way that could have been innocent conversation?
 
Yes. I will. On Monday.

My husband says they were just talking about how we could move near grandma and grandpa someday, so he wouldn’t have such severe allergies.

I can see how the conversation could begin. But I have never said I would move to his home town and I have never interviewed for any jobs there.

I can see how it COULD be harmless. But yes, I am skeptical.
 
So am I a complete moron for believing that this was a harmless conversation between husband and son?

My DH says that he did not say we were moving there, but that it just came up because son wanted to leave near his Grandparents.

Husband said they would never move without me and definitely without me having that breadwinner job…

I told him that I would prefer they don’t have those conversations without me and DH talking first.

DH didn’t respond. He just changed the subject.
 
Please, please speak to an attorney. I have been where you are–you need to take some steps to protect yourself legally in case your husband decides to move without you.
 
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