My testimony of following chastity

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I want to share with you guys the victories I had achieved by following the laws of chastity. There was this girl who I had to work with on a school project. I realize that with no more masturbation or sexual immorality I was able to see this woman as a human being. Before I would have judged her by saying she was stupid for being in the same school I was in. I would have said she had no future. I would have looked at her and the other girl I had to work with as annoying and looked at them as if their lives had no meaning. But now I look at these women as human beings who deserve love and respect and the best of God’s gifts. I have also got to appreciate the value of a woman. I notice they have intelligence, and so now I learn from their intelligence, their gifts and their graces instead of being the old me and saying they were stupid or nothing good can I learn from them without learning it myself first.

I even liked a girl and I told myself I’m happy as long as she is with somebody that makes her happy even if that guy isn’t me.

Is it normal for all this to happen after you start to live a chaste life?
 
That’s awesome! Yes, keep it up!

Your testimony illustrates well how even private sins have social consequences. Many in our society want to say that, if it happens in private behind closed doors, it’s not hurting anyone. Your experience reveals that prevailing sentiment to be false.

That’s why chastity and purity are so important. If we want an increase in people being treated with respect, that starts with ourselves and with our own minds. If we turn people into objects in our bedroom, we will treat them as ojects outside, too.

Thank you for sharing your testimony. It does me good to hear it.
 
realtiger said:
I want to share with you guys the victories I had achieved by following the laws of chastity. There was this girl who I had to work with on a school project. I realize that with no more masturbation or sexual immorality I was able to see this woman as a human being. Before I would have judged her by saying she was stupid for being in the same school I was in. I would have said she had no future. I would have looked at her and the other girl I had to work with as annoying and looked at them as if their lives had no meaning. But now I look at these women as human beings who deserve love and respect and the best of God’s gifts. I have also got to appreciate the value of a woman. I notice they have intelligence, and so now I learn from their intelligence, their gifts and their graces instead of being the old me and saying they were stupid or nothing good can I learn from them without learning it myself first.

I even liked a girl and I told myself I’m happy as long as she is with somebody that makes her happy even if that guy isn’t me.

Is it normal for all this to happen after you start to live a chaste life?
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👍:love::love::love:

You are looking at women as more than simply objects. What a wonderful testimony!

Keep it up!!!

One day, you will find the woman you want to marry, and she will be a lucky lady.
 
realtiger said:
I want to share with you guys the victories I had achieved by following the laws of chastity. There was this girl who I had to work with on a school project. I realize that with no more masturbation or sexual immorality I was able to see this woman as a human being. Before I would have judged her by saying she was stupid for being in the same school I was in. I would have said she had no future. I would have looked at her and the other girl I had to work with as annoying and looked at them as if their lives had no meaning. But now I look at these women as human beings who deserve love and respect and the best of God’s gifts. I have also got to appreciate the value of a woman. I notice they have intelligence, and so now I learn from their intelligence, their gifts and their graces instead of being the old me and saying they were stupid or nothing good can I learn from them without learning it myself first.

I even liked a girl and I told myself I’m happy as long as she is with somebody that makes her happy even if that guy isn’t me.

Is it normal for all this to happen after you start to live a chaste life?
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Well when a person stops objectifying people they (surprise) start to become people in that person’s eyes!😉

Good job:thumbsup:
 
realtiger said:
I want to share with you guys the victories I had achieved by following the laws of chastity. There was this girl who I had to work with on a school project. I realize that with no more masturbation or sexual immorality I was able to see this woman as a human being. Before I would have judged her by saying she was stupid for being in the same school I was in. I would have said she had no future. I would have looked at her and the other girl I had to work with as annoying and looked at them as if their lives had no meaning. But now I look at these women as human beings who deserve love and respect and the best of God’s gifts. I have also got to appreciate the value of a woman. I notice they have intelligence, and so now I learn from their intelligence, their gifts and their graces instead of being the old me and saying they were stupid or nothing good can I learn from them without learning it myself first.

I even liked a girl and I told myself I’m happy as long as she is with somebody that makes her happy even if that guy isn’t me.

Is it normal for all this to happen after you start to live a chaste life?
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That’s beautiful, and shows you have truly gone down the path of chastity well.
 
Its wonderful to hear this. I am so glad for you and the example you set. I have also have been able to do what you do now because I, also, have become more chaste, even as a female and how I view men. Females tend to have that same problem. I also have tried to become as modest as I can be and by doing so I have learned to truly appreciate my body more as a temple of God, in preserving it and not tempting my brothers in Christ.

I am happy to hear this and may God Bless you.
 
Thank you guys for all the emotional support. I love you guys.

This walk hasn’t been without trials… I’ve been turned down twice.

It’s definitely a lot harder. But I’ve decided to put more emphasis on God instead of trying to be in a relationship.

But thank you guys.
 
realtiger said:
Thank you guys for all the emotional support. I love you guys.

This walk hasn’t been without trials… I’ve been turned down twice.

It’s definitely a lot harder. But I’ve decided to put more emphasis on God instead of trying to be in a relationship.

But thank you guys.
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Enjoy your time as a single person. You can only do some things for God as a single person. In that time as well, God is preparing you for the life He planned for you and the people He wants you to meet. God will bring your future spouse, if that is His plan, into your life when the time is right. Focus on Loving God, for God is Love and you can’t truly love others without Him.

Beloved Father, prepare this person for the plans you have for them and have them comtinuely grow in live with you. Blessed Mother, prepare this person for God and his plans and guide them in their relationships with others. Amen.

Blessed be God forever! God Bless!
 
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