Hi Hesychios. Thank-you for your reply. But from what you have wrote, and I thought I wrote

I do not see where we are that different at all.
I mean don’t get me wrong, when we confess a sin and walk out of confession, thats it, it over and we are forgiven.
But what I mean is for some that sin can be over and done and easily avoided the rest of ones life. And that’s good, confess, repent, it’s over.
But what I mean for some the act of not commiting that sin can be a repentance. And for some a life sentence repentance. Do you see what I mean? It may be a struggle until the day they die. And many can walk out and fight that URGE the rest of their life and win. They CAN do this. It is promised to us from God. There is no sin that we cannot overcome with his aid, That is written in the bible actually.
So in a sense we do disagree there. I do believe that sin can be overcome in this life. But for the ones who have not accomplished this URGE we will call it is where Purgatory comes into play. It takes away that urge and you are completely perfected in Christ.
Now I do not mean that because a certain sin can be overcome, I do not mean that all sin is overcome. I agree none of us are perfect and we all have sin. But when I said we can overcome sin, I mean certain sins that are haunting us at this moment. We all have sin and will always have sin. But we can overcome that sin.
But like I am trying to say some sin is a life long walk and struggle with God and can be beaten. But for some its a struggle every single day. That is why I said that repentance is not over in confession for some. It is that suffering and struggle that can be seen as a special repenting with you and God alone and a walk through life.
I always have a hard time explaining the difference. Its like yes you repent, you confess and you are sorry. But the hard part comes now, its like you living in a constant repentance and what that constant repentance is for you is to fight that urge, fight that sin. ANd you can and must, But God is there with you each step of the way, and it can be done in this life. It really can.
But to me that repentance (walking with God) is a repentance that is not asked of us, Its our Thank-you to God. It is our way of saying I will do my best to not let you down for having this unconditional Love and forgiveness for me that I in no way deserve.
Its a self-repentance program that we are put on. Does that makes sense to you? And do we fail? Possibly. Can we fail? Absolutely! But as long as we are indeed truly on the program God knows that because he is with us if we continue to ask for his help. That program is what I call true repentance. That is just the way I was taught it.