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That is wonderful!
Welcome home to the both of you! I pray that you will be strengthened and that she will find joy and love. 


Fortunately, I no longer live in the Mormon Culture Region and donāt have to navigate Utah-ness on a day-to-day basis. My move out of Mormonism has been gradualāitās taken about a decade since I realized that I didnāt fit too well. I think the gradual movement has kept any bitterness from festering. My wife and I really are āmoving on,ā so to speak.**This is my 1st post. Iāll post in the meet & greet soon.I love pink, so I pink my posts. =) Iām a practicing Roman Catholic from Ohio, who moved to Utah 4 + years ago. You really need to live in Utah & be LDS to understand the āshunningā. I am the only Catholic (along w/ our family) I know of, in our neighborhood. I really donāt care. Mormonism/LDS is a whole āway of lifeā here in Utah. I know of many who have been shunned by their families because they broke out of that faith.
Congrats to you & your wife for actually having a brain & using it to think.There is a big lack of that here. =P Most just follow what they are told.**
God bless Sunstoneā¦Fortunately, I no longer live in the Mormon Culture Region and donāt have to navigate Utah-ness on a day-to-day basis. My move out of Mormonism has been gradualāitās taken about a decade since I realized that I didnāt fit too well. I think the gradual movement has kept any bitterness from festering. My wife and I really are āmoving on,ā so to speak.
Iāve been informally studying Catholicism for several years too, and have been well prepared for RCIA. For the record, I think Raymond E. Brownās an *Introduction to the New Testament *is a spiritually powerful commentary.
My wife and I are both wondering how well we will fit in culturally. I have several Catholic colleagues (professors) who are elated and who are a built in support system. Politically, my wife and I are pro-life Democrats.
I have āauditedā RCIA this year. I should have been more bold, but alas, slow movement seems to be my creedo. My wife and I will both officially enroll this Fall, so Iām looking forward to Easter, 2012!God bless Sunstoneā¦
Are you already in RCIA? And will be received this Easter? As some have stated, you and your wifeās conversion story would be awesome to hear or read.
You may want to post it here: The Coming Home Network.
No doubt what you say is true. I guess I feel like Iād be implying that the LDS Church has some sort of legitimate authority. Itās just a business.Yes, I believe your wifeās reasoning here is good. The break with the LDS church is clean and final with an official resignation.
Welcome home both of you!!!in the move from Mormonism to the Roman Catholic Church.
This wonāt be easy on her in terms of her parents and siblings, but way she tells it is:
āThe more I learn about Mormonism, the more I feel like it is wrong. With Catholicism, itās just the opposite.ā
**Welcome home to both of youā¦you are both very brave since her family will be heartbroken with her choiceā¦but the two of you together can do this.in the move from Mormonism to the Roman Catholic Church.
This wonāt be easy on her in terms of her parents and siblings, but way she tells it is:
āThe more I learn about Mormonism, the more I feel like it is wrong. With Catholicism, itās just the opposite.ā
Leaving Mormonism can be very difficult for most people. However, with the length of time that you have taken to disengage, it seems to simplify the process for you. I also realize how difficult it will be for your families to see you leave this group. In some ways the closeness that Catholics feel, the bond, is also experienced within Mormonism. If I place myself in their shoes, I can empathize with what their feelings might be.in the move from Mormonism to the Roman Catholic Church.
This wonāt be easy on her in terms of her parents and siblings, but way she tells it is:
āThe more I learn about Mormonism, the more I feel like it is wrong. With Catholicism, itās just the opposite.ā
Iāve spent more time thinking about what weāll tell our families than I have about an exit letter to the LDS Church. I donāt believe any relationships will be severed, and I hope to get things off on the right foot.Leaving Mormonism can be very difficult for most people. However, with the length of time that you have taken to disengage, it seems to simplify the process for you. I also realize how difficult it will be for your families to see you leave this group. In some ways the closeness that Catholics feel, the bond, is also experienced within Mormonism. If I place myself in their shoes, I can empathize with what their feelings might be.
Mormons talk in terms of Joyā¦man is that he might have joy. To facilitate the process, it may be wise to share the joy of Catholicism with your families; the joy you now find in the truth you have found here. In seeing your joy your families may find the āseperationā more easy to accept.
You are not the first ones to leave Mormonism for Catholicism and you certainly will not be the last. The world will become more beautiful for you and your wife. Enjoy the Holy Spirit and the Peace of Eucharistic adoration.
I believe this is a great idea. That way everyone has all the facts the way you want them understood. No one can inform the others of your plans by prejudicing the facts as they see fit.Iāve spent more time thinking about what weāll tell our families than I have about an exit letter to the LDS Church. I donāt believe any relationships will be severed, and I hope to get things off on the right foot.
Weāve considered writing a letter to family members so that: 1) We can control our message and 2) Some time can pass before we visit and our families can āsettle inā to our new beliefs without a dramatic, in-the-heat-of-the-moment confrontation.