This won’t be a satisfactory response, but perhaps it will be some food for thought.
Until the latter part of the 19th century, women were attended to in childbirth by other women who were experienced in helping them through the process. They were free to move about in labor and get themselves into a position of most comfort when it came time to deliver. Sure, they went without an epidural, but because they could work with nature, instead of against it, the pain was likely more tolerable than it is for most women today. Why? Well, for the past 100+ years in North America, childbirth has fallen under the domain of medical professionals, many of whom have never and will never give birth simply because their gender doesn’t have a uterus.** They have taken the natural act of giving birth and turned it into a potential medical disaster **which necessitates a woman being stuck in bed, hooked up to monitors, and unable to move about or get into a position optimal for delivery of a baby; instead being stuck on her back because it’s more convenient for the doctor. When that happens, she’s unable to deal with the pain in a way that generations of women before her did- by working with the pain to birth the baby. Therefore, it’s become almost necessary for a women to have some kind of anesthesia for childbirth, simply because it has now became a medical procedure (inductions which bring on stronger and more painful contractions than those without artificial enhancement, episiotomies, constant monitoring, routine IV’s, C-section, etc), instead of a natural act in which God intended. Childbirth in the hospital today can save lives, which is awesome, but the level of medical care that is involved equals that of an appendectomy. Which of course, no one, male or female, would be expected to endure without anesthesia. That’s my take on it.