ND Church I’ve Been Considering

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get your armbands on and cross the Tiber too, mr 😉 heehee
Patience is a virtue. So is maintaining a healthy marriage. I’m leaning towards Rome, but I’m not going anywhere until I’m absolutely convinced that it’s the right thing to do. Plus I need to take enough time to be sure I’m not just being impulsive.
 
That’s also true but still she needs to stay within the church really.
 
I’m only kidding 🙂 you know I support you. Just you remind me so much of myself at a similar point in my journey 🙂
 
Your more refined pastors don’t. This one may have been trying to show those present that he was “with it,” “on the same level” as them.
That’s what I think he was doing. He’s 40+ years old and I think he’s just trying to be hip and happening. Not just with his language, but in everything. And yeah, in retrospect I should’ve walked out but the whole thing didn’t really sink in until later, after talking with my husband, and later still, talking with my daughter.
 
I do think it’s important to visit different churches and see how the other half live.
 
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Where’s the meat? Sounds like all dessert.
Yes. But to be quite honest, the loud music and hip atmosphere I’d attract me, which I guess is their whole point.
I get it, though I’m the exact opposite. To me, a calm liturgy is an escape from the frenzy of the outside world. Maybe it’s because I live in DC. Or maybe it’s just related to being the kind of person who enjoys reading John Henry Newman in his spare time. I dunno; I’m an odd duck.

Point is, you get your meat and potatoes in mass. Then you can find your dessert in the form of your private devotions, or by falling in with a group of Catholics who share your tastes while maintaining catholicity of doctrine and practice.
 
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I agree. She should. But she needs to know they aren’t all like the one she encountered. It’s sad to have such negative memories based on one bad apple. That pastor needs prayer.
 
Pray for him, @Hope1960. One can show they’re hip and happening without resorting to derogatory or as I call it, gutter language.
 
Now, I’ve never been to a priestly ordination, but the ordination I did go to, at the ND church, left me wondering (as I sometime do after services), ”that’s it?” I really expected more to it than a brief talk held by the pastor and each elder, then putting their hands on his shoulder/back and saying a prayer.
A priestly ordination is very beautiful. Try to check one out some day :).
An episcopal consecration (ordination of a bishop) even more so…I’ve been to one and it was amazing. When the archbishop poured (literally poured and then massaged/worked into the hair and scalp) sacred chrism onto the bishop-elect’s head, I felt like I was watching the anointing of King David right out of Scripture.
 
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I do think it’s important to visit different churches and see how the other half live.
I do, too. People can tell you what they’re like but until you experience it for yourself, you really don’t fully understand what goes on there.
 
Pray for him, @Hope1960. One can show they’re hip and happening without resorting to derogatory or as I call it, gutter language.
He does need prayer. Then again, after I emailed my honest assessment of the class, he might be praying for me, lol.
 
I’ve also (through my work) been able to visit a synagogue and gurdwara. God is there too. He wouldn’t want to leave any of us alone. Stay in the church tho. Seems like you know in your heart this man isn’t giving a good public witness
 
A priestly ordination is very beautiful. Try to check one out some day :).
An episcopal consecration (ordination of a bishop) even more so…I’ve been to one and it was amazing. When the archbishop poured (literally poured and then massaged/worked into the hair and scalp) sacred chrism onto the bishop-elect’s head, I felt like I was watching the anointing of King David right out of Scripture.
Approx. how long is a priestly ordination? I assume it takes place along with a Mass, right?
 
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I’ve also (through my work) been able to visit a synagogue and gurdwara. God is there too. He wouldn’t want to leave any of us alone. Stay in the church tho. Seems like you know in your heart this man isn’t giving a good public witness
I plan on staying put for now. In fact not counting a funeral Mass I went to in December, I haven’t been to Mass since, I think, October. I’m going to Confession first.
 
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Depending upon the number of candidates, about 2-3 hours. It occurs during Mass. After the Gospel is read, but before the homily, the candidates are called forward. Then, a priest, usually the vocations director, addresses the Bishop and asks that he ordain the candidates. The Bishop asks if they are worthy, and the priest responds “after inquiry among the people of God and those responsible, I attest that they are worthy.” The Bishop affirms their worthiness, and then delivers a homily directed mainly at them. Afterward, the candidates come forward and the Bishop questions them as to their willingness to undertake the office of priesthood, and asks them to promise respect and obedience to him. After this, they lie prostrate while the Litany of Saints is sung. At the conclusion of the Litany, the Bishop lays hands on each, and then all the other priests presents do the same. After this, the Bishop sings the prayer of ordination over the candidates (I still get chills at thinking of the words Draw near being entoned at the beginning). They are then vested in the stole and chasuble of a priest, and then approach the Bishop, who anoints their hands with chrism. The hands are bound in a linen cloth for wiping away the chrism. After they have washed their hands, they approach the Bishop again, who hands over the chalice full of wine, topped with a paten holding a host, as a sign of the office handed on to them. Finally, they exchange the greeting of peace with the Bishop and with all the other priests present. Mass continues as normal, with the newly ordained concelebrating with the Bishop.

As I said, it’s usually 2-3 hours, and a lot of that is due to the huge number of people who show up and who go through the communion line. It’s a very powerful ceremony, and one worth witnessing. Every time I go to another one, I am renewed and reminded of the joy of my ministry.

-Fr ACEGC
 
As I said, it’s usually 2-3 hours, and a lot of that is due to the huge number of people who show up and who go through the communion line. It’s a very powerful ceremony, and one worth witnessing. Every time I go to another one, I am renewed and reminded of the joy of my ministry.
Thanks for telling us that. I hope I get to go to see one, someday.
 
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