Some people are scrupulous and some people suffer from OCD and confession fills them with doubts and anxiety. Some people constantly worry if they completed their confession ’ just right’ in order to receive absolution.
You would not believe the stress, anxiety and worry some people have over the tiniest detail regarding confession and the aftermath of confession.
In my opinion any advice about confession should come from a priest or a valid church document. Just imagine the stress someone would feel if they were given the wrong information regarding confession and the salvation of their souls…that would further their stress…
This is precicsely what I was trying to say. We get so wound up in the tiniest details we forget what we are here for. What I have found is that those who
Coder, you were worrying about whether or not you heard the priest use the word ’ I ', …you are not alone, lots of people worry about things of that nature.
I came across a fantastic resource for people who stress over the details of confession, published by
mission.liguori.org/
" All of our products are educational and pastoral in nature. Probably our most well known publication is the Liguorian magazine, one of America 's leading Catholic periodicals."
They publish Scrupulous anonymous and you can find tonnes of questions answered by a priest. Even you aren’t scrupulous, you will find all sorts of information…I highly recommend reading the 10 commandments of the scrupulous, found at the bottom of this post.
The archives are here:
mission.liguori.org/newsletters/archives.htm#SA
Here is the ten commandments for the scrupulous:
mission.liguori.org/newsletters/scrupulosity.htm