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Cupcake143
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I met a guy last summer at a bar, but I lost him in the crowd and we never exchanged numbers. It didn’t bother me though because I don’t remember being too crazy about him. Anyway, on NYE i saw him again. I didn’t recogonize him right away, but when he said his ethnicity (he’s mixed - 50% of his mixture is the same as my ethnicity so I remembered). I remembered him and asked if he remembered who I was, and he said he did. He was hanging out the rest of the night with me, my friend and another guy I saw there from high school. as the night went on, I was really liking him this time around. He’s Catholic, goes to church, cute, VERY respectful, friendly and nice to everyone around us and overall just great personality. He was looking out for my friend (who was really drunk) more than I was. I got his number early on in the night , because at first I jut thought he would be a great friend to come along in a group when me and my friend go out. My friend thought he liked me, and I did too from the way he was talking to me and he was touchy (not in a disrespectful way though). And he asked what if I was working and what I was doing the next day (new year’s day). But he didn’t ask to go out.
That weekend on Saturday night I ended up texting him and asking what he was doing that night. He texted and told me he was going to meet up his brother and brother’s friend at some ‘dive’ bar and he invited me. I didn’t have plans and so I said that I would come by. When I got to the parking lot, I told him I was there and he came out to meet me and he had this huge smile on his face and hugged me. I met his brother and friend who wee really nice but the whole time he kept talking to me and we weren’t really interacting much with his brother and brother’s friend. He was looking into my eyes, smiling and asking mature questions. He mentioned he’s looking for someone who he can see himself in the future with, etc. he kept complimenting me and telling me I was pretty and he loved my smile. We ended up meeting my friend (the one he met on NYE with me) that was in the same town with other friends, and anyway the rest of the night went great. We texted when I got home and he told me he liked me and that he hadn’t felt that way in forever, and I told him felt the same way.
Not to go too much into detail again, but I texted him on a different Saturday during the day and we were chatting a bit and he asked what my plans were later … And then I asked if he wanted to do a double date and he said yea. My other friend and her boyfriend came too, so it was basically a triple date. This time around didn’t go so well, and it was my fault in a way. I didn’t show him affection at all really, and when pulled out his arm so we could lock arms I didn’t, I told him I don’t trust anyone except family , and basically kind of not really showing him I liked him. I don’t know why because I actually like him more than I’ve liked any guy before and it’s rare for me anyway to like a guy a lot. He kind of got mad at me towards end of the night… don’t want to go in detail because my post will be too long lol, but I did say ‘come on let’s go’ and He said why do I talk to him like a kid and that he doesn’t deserve that, and said 'I guess nice guys finish last. I think he probably just thought I wasn’t being affectionate toward him or whatever and he blew up. Basically the night did not go great for us.
I texted him at night and apologized and told him he was a perfect gentlemen, and he said I didn’t have to apologize. And we just both texted good night. On Monday morning I texted him that I was getting my car (told him about a new car I was getting), and he replied back and he seemed normal. But, then another day in the week I texted him just saying hi and how are you , and he didn’t reply back. I didn’t hear from him the rest of the week after that Monday about my car. I texted him Saturday and he didn’t respond again. Now he’s ignoring me and I haven’t heard from him.
What are some of your thoughts about what happened and why he would totally ignore me now and not talk to me when it seemed he really was into me. I’m really heart broken now, even thought I haven’t even known him that long it seemed like I knew him forever.
That weekend on Saturday night I ended up texting him and asking what he was doing that night. He texted and told me he was going to meet up his brother and brother’s friend at some ‘dive’ bar and he invited me. I didn’t have plans and so I said that I would come by. When I got to the parking lot, I told him I was there and he came out to meet me and he had this huge smile on his face and hugged me. I met his brother and friend who wee really nice but the whole time he kept talking to me and we weren’t really interacting much with his brother and brother’s friend. He was looking into my eyes, smiling and asking mature questions. He mentioned he’s looking for someone who he can see himself in the future with, etc. he kept complimenting me and telling me I was pretty and he loved my smile. We ended up meeting my friend (the one he met on NYE with me) that was in the same town with other friends, and anyway the rest of the night went great. We texted when I got home and he told me he liked me and that he hadn’t felt that way in forever, and I told him felt the same way.
Not to go too much into detail again, but I texted him on a different Saturday during the day and we were chatting a bit and he asked what my plans were later … And then I asked if he wanted to do a double date and he said yea. My other friend and her boyfriend came too, so it was basically a triple date. This time around didn’t go so well, and it was my fault in a way. I didn’t show him affection at all really, and when pulled out his arm so we could lock arms I didn’t, I told him I don’t trust anyone except family , and basically kind of not really showing him I liked him. I don’t know why because I actually like him more than I’ve liked any guy before and it’s rare for me anyway to like a guy a lot. He kind of got mad at me towards end of the night… don’t want to go in detail because my post will be too long lol, but I did say ‘come on let’s go’ and He said why do I talk to him like a kid and that he doesn’t deserve that, and said 'I guess nice guys finish last. I think he probably just thought I wasn’t being affectionate toward him or whatever and he blew up. Basically the night did not go great for us.
I texted him at night and apologized and told him he was a perfect gentlemen, and he said I didn’t have to apologize. And we just both texted good night. On Monday morning I texted him that I was getting my car (told him about a new car I was getting), and he replied back and he seemed normal. But, then another day in the week I texted him just saying hi and how are you , and he didn’t reply back. I didn’t hear from him the rest of the week after that Monday about my car. I texted him Saturday and he didn’t respond again. Now he’s ignoring me and I haven’t heard from him.
What are some of your thoughts about what happened and why he would totally ignore me now and not talk to me when it seemed he really was into me. I’m really heart broken now, even thought I haven’t even known him that long it seemed like I knew him forever.
Maybe you are sending mixed messages and he doesnt want to have to work so hard to figure you out.