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Maracuya
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Hello everyone,
Im going through very difficult times… Here is the story.
I got divorce 2yrs ago after we both agreed to this, we have a girl she is 3yrs and as you can imagine she is everything. She has been in a relationship with a person that from the beginning i did not like but what could i do is her life and she deserves to move on right? the reason i did not like him back then was due to his actions, he drinks every night, was found with marijuana possession around 3 years ago and put in probation until just before they met, and he got fired from his past job 3 months ago for insulting a manager and a client (he is a waiter). This person does not help her with anything in the house financially or physically, he just seats there and wait for the mother of my child to serve him, the only thing he takes home is alcohol… I got inform by his mom that they are planning to get marry this coming January and her mother is really worry about this. i started to noticed that my daugther was acting different and one day she told me that this individual had spanked her and that he yells at her often, so i decided to talk to my daughter’s mom about it but she denied everything and said that she was making it up… after she was telling me several times the same thing i decided to tell my ex that i wanted to talk to him about it and she said ok… while i talked to this person he gave me just answers of ok and did not even looked at me while again was just seating on the couch washing football and my ex served him… At the end we agreed that this could not keep going and he say ok i got it. After a few days my daughter mentioned the same thing again and that if she did not do what he says mom comes and spank her. So here i was again talking, this time just to my ex again she denied everything this was 3 days ago, the same day after that conversation her mom called me and said that she wanted to talk to me about something serious that she was specting my ex to tell me after the last conversation and she did not. What she did not tell me and i was completely unaware of was that my daughter told and showed my ex mother in law and ex sister in law that this individual had touched my daughter and tickle her down there and the neck and they opened a case reporting him to the authorities! i asked why i was not informed of this before and she said that everyone was afraid of my reaction and in fact i reacted not in the best way but i control myself and decided to act using the law.
The same day after she told me this in the evening i got a call from my ex sister in law husband telling me in a really desperate way “I need you to come to my ex place right now, but when i say now is now!!” so i was oh god what now, so i head there as fast i could, while driving he called me again and he said “where in the f”*** are you, this man is inside one of the room locked up with my daughter!!" I that moment i lost my head and started to think the worse… When i got there my ex had blood on her face and my ex sister in law trying to hurt her, i got extremely **** and at that moment i just felt like a needed to get my daighter right away but they stopped me afraid that will hurt this man, so i could not open the door and my clothes were all in pieces, i told my ex different things and things i never touhgt i would tell her… After several minutes police came to the place and took control over the whole situation and this idiot came out with my daughter saying i was protecting her from these crazy people when in reality before i got there they asked him in a nice way to take her out and he refused… Police asked my ex who she wanted to stay in the house and she said that just her fiance so we got kicked out and the cop said that he could take us all of us cause it was her property and she was bleeding due to her sister’s punches… He checked the case and they said that it is still in investigation but that nothing had been found, not when they did the physical nor psychological exam. The coo recommended me and the rest to stay distance from her place if we did not want to get in trouble… Now i dont know what to do, im going monday to talk to a lawyer but this situation came in the worse time im unemployed and living out of my savings… As i told my ex she deserved much better than this individual, they are going to get marry and she has paid for everything since he does not makes much, he cant provide was her excused?.. Anyways, i feel stoked in a cube and dont know how to act, afraid that something happens to my daughter… If somebody can help me, please please do…
God bless you all.
Im going through very difficult times… Here is the story.
I got divorce 2yrs ago after we both agreed to this, we have a girl she is 3yrs and as you can imagine she is everything. She has been in a relationship with a person that from the beginning i did not like but what could i do is her life and she deserves to move on right? the reason i did not like him back then was due to his actions, he drinks every night, was found with marijuana possession around 3 years ago and put in probation until just before they met, and he got fired from his past job 3 months ago for insulting a manager and a client (he is a waiter). This person does not help her with anything in the house financially or physically, he just seats there and wait for the mother of my child to serve him, the only thing he takes home is alcohol… I got inform by his mom that they are planning to get marry this coming January and her mother is really worry about this. i started to noticed that my daugther was acting different and one day she told me that this individual had spanked her and that he yells at her often, so i decided to talk to my daughter’s mom about it but she denied everything and said that she was making it up… after she was telling me several times the same thing i decided to tell my ex that i wanted to talk to him about it and she said ok… while i talked to this person he gave me just answers of ok and did not even looked at me while again was just seating on the couch washing football and my ex served him… At the end we agreed that this could not keep going and he say ok i got it. After a few days my daughter mentioned the same thing again and that if she did not do what he says mom comes and spank her. So here i was again talking, this time just to my ex again she denied everything this was 3 days ago, the same day after that conversation her mom called me and said that she wanted to talk to me about something serious that she was specting my ex to tell me after the last conversation and she did not. What she did not tell me and i was completely unaware of was that my daughter told and showed my ex mother in law and ex sister in law that this individual had touched my daughter and tickle her down there and the neck and they opened a case reporting him to the authorities! i asked why i was not informed of this before and she said that everyone was afraid of my reaction and in fact i reacted not in the best way but i control myself and decided to act using the law.
The same day after she told me this in the evening i got a call from my ex sister in law husband telling me in a really desperate way “I need you to come to my ex place right now, but when i say now is now!!” so i was oh god what now, so i head there as fast i could, while driving he called me again and he said “where in the f”*** are you, this man is inside one of the room locked up with my daughter!!" I that moment i lost my head and started to think the worse… When i got there my ex had blood on her face and my ex sister in law trying to hurt her, i got extremely **** and at that moment i just felt like a needed to get my daighter right away but they stopped me afraid that will hurt this man, so i could not open the door and my clothes were all in pieces, i told my ex different things and things i never touhgt i would tell her… After several minutes police came to the place and took control over the whole situation and this idiot came out with my daughter saying i was protecting her from these crazy people when in reality before i got there they asked him in a nice way to take her out and he refused… Police asked my ex who she wanted to stay in the house and she said that just her fiance so we got kicked out and the cop said that he could take us all of us cause it was her property and she was bleeding due to her sister’s punches… He checked the case and they said that it is still in investigation but that nothing had been found, not when they did the physical nor psychological exam. The coo recommended me and the rest to stay distance from her place if we did not want to get in trouble… Now i dont know what to do, im going monday to talk to a lawyer but this situation came in the worse time im unemployed and living out of my savings… As i told my ex she deserved much better than this individual, they are going to get marry and she has paid for everything since he does not makes much, he cant provide was her excused?.. Anyways, i feel stoked in a cube and dont know how to act, afraid that something happens to my daughter… If somebody can help me, please please do…
God bless you all.
