Need Advice for my problem

[JITHIN901]

I have decided not to marry because my family is in huge debt.Why should I spoil a girl’s dream by adding problems in her life by marrying me.Even if I have a job; but it not satisfying to run a family.Is my decision the right one according to God’s will?

 

[1ke]

Your family’s debts are not your debts.

Also, perhaps you should let a girl decide on her own whether she wants to take on a family situation, by, you know, discussing it with her.

 

[1Lord1Faith]

What country are you from?

 

[JITHIN901]

I am from India

 

[JITHIN901]

Sorry for your understanding…My family debts are my own debts…And we are in this situation for almost 30 years and only thing I have seen every time is increasing debt day by day.I don’t want to add one more person to suffer this.

 

[TechieGuy]

You don’t have to marry if you don’t want to…

 

[TheLittleLady]

Then make up your mind to get out from under the debt.

I am sure that the laws in India are different, but, there have to be legal ways to structure your debt and pay it down. A quick google search found this How to apply Dave Ramsey's 7 baby steps in India - Quora

 

[Roseeurekacross]

Have you spoken to your Catholic Priest in India? This must not be that uncommon