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Nessie86
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Short story: our priest has asked us (my husband and I who do the music) not to sing in Latin! Long story below:
My husband and I do the music liturgy for one of the masses at our very small parish. I cantor, he plays piano. I am a convert, having joined the church Easter 2009. I first started singing in the Catholic church in the parish of my hometown, which had a very conservative, wonderful priest and congregation. Mass there was so reverent! The music director there became a close friend, and he did a wonderful job. For lent and advent, we would sing latin mass parts, and incorporated Latin throughout the year.
My husband and I have been doing the music at our parish for a little less than a year now, and it’s been a struggle the whole time. At the parish in my hometown, everyone loved me and supported me, and miss me now that I’ve moved. Here, I have never felt welcomed, and I still don’t feel part of the parish. In addition, we have had problems with the priest. Mind you, he’s a young priest, and seems to have a knack for stepping on people’s toes and not handling things well. Many families have left the parish because of him, and my husband’s family would go too if we weren’t doing the music. We’ve had several incidents where our priest has frustrated us. There are two other gentlemen who do the music at other masses, and they each have their own style; one is folksy, with a guitar, and the other is more contemporary in his style and choice of music. My husband and I are the most traditional in our styles and tastes, as we’re both classically trained musicians, and we fully appreciate the musical traditions of the church. We feel that it’s a good thing all the musicians at this parish are so different; if gives the parishoners a choice of what “style” they would like to experience. So, at our mass, we try to bring out some of the rich, wonderful music of our church, sometimes exposing them to music they may not be familiar with. This has caused trouble; apparently people complain straight to the priest if we do ONE “new” song, instead of talking to us. And in response, the preist simply tells us not to do whatever was complained about. No requests, no discussion, no support. No opportunity for us to explain our choices. We have had to really cut back, and do the same songs over and over again. We tried doing the latin mass parts, with the priest’s permission, last year, and apparently no one in that church had ever heard them. Could they have learned them after a couple weeks? Probabaly. But once again, people complained, and the priest told us we couldn’t do that again. Fine, we said. So most of the time, we do the songs they know, and we stick to English. But there are just some occasions which call for Latin, so every once in a while, we will do a song, or even just a verse, in Latin. This past Easter season, we chose a beautiful “Gloria” from a mass we often did at my hometown parish, in which just the refain is in Latin; very simple latin that mose people know, from Christmas carols if nothing else. We did it all through the Easter season, the parish learned it, and we didn’t get any complaints. Well, the last Sunday of Easter, our deacon was at mass (he usually isn’t there, as we have the 7:30 mass and it’s too early for him). We sang the Gloria like we had been doing all Easter. A few days later, we got an email from our priest, asking us not to sing Latin songs any more. He said the deacon complained, and said the congregation is not able to participate when we sing in Latin. Now, sometimes, this is true, they don’t know the song or the Latin (though most don’t even TRY, they just stare blankly). But in this case, the only “song” we did in Latin that week was the refrain of the Gloria, and EVERYONE was singing it, as they had all learned it. I suspect that the deacon complained because HE didn’t know the refrain, as he usually is not at our mass, and I suspect that for some reason, he just doesn’t like Latin in the first place.
Now, this latest email from the priest bothers me for several reasons. First, I honestly don’t think that any Catholic priest has the right to say that Latin is not allowed. I just can’t imagine that’s ok; I’m wondering if anyone knows of any documents I can cite to him to point this out, in a nice way? Second, I really don’t think it’s appropriate to let a complaint like this become the rule. The deacon does not have the authority here. I just don’t understand it. Third, once again, he doesn’t even discuss it with us. It’s a short email with a command. We are trying really hard to give this parish a rich music liturgy, and I feel like our preist does not trust or support us, and keeps shutting the door in our face. Course, this is the same priest who prides himself on 45 minute masses…
I just don’t feel like we can just sit and take this latest “request”. I think that eliminating Latin entirely is just wrong. Am I right? Or am I in the wrong here? I want to write our priest a letter expressing our intent in our music choices, and explaining why we feel Latin is so important to include occasionally. We’re honestly about done with this whole situation… if we didn’t need the small amount of money we get, we would probably go to another church. I don’t believe in church shopping, and I think that folks should stick with their own parish… but there has just been such a long line of problems in every possible area at this parish, that we’re fed up.
Any advice, especially official documents, etc, on the topic would be appreciated!
My husband and I do the music liturgy for one of the masses at our very small parish. I cantor, he plays piano. I am a convert, having joined the church Easter 2009. I first started singing in the Catholic church in the parish of my hometown, which had a very conservative, wonderful priest and congregation. Mass there was so reverent! The music director there became a close friend, and he did a wonderful job. For lent and advent, we would sing latin mass parts, and incorporated Latin throughout the year.
My husband and I have been doing the music at our parish for a little less than a year now, and it’s been a struggle the whole time. At the parish in my hometown, everyone loved me and supported me, and miss me now that I’ve moved. Here, I have never felt welcomed, and I still don’t feel part of the parish. In addition, we have had problems with the priest. Mind you, he’s a young priest, and seems to have a knack for stepping on people’s toes and not handling things well. Many families have left the parish because of him, and my husband’s family would go too if we weren’t doing the music. We’ve had several incidents where our priest has frustrated us. There are two other gentlemen who do the music at other masses, and they each have their own style; one is folksy, with a guitar, and the other is more contemporary in his style and choice of music. My husband and I are the most traditional in our styles and tastes, as we’re both classically trained musicians, and we fully appreciate the musical traditions of the church. We feel that it’s a good thing all the musicians at this parish are so different; if gives the parishoners a choice of what “style” they would like to experience. So, at our mass, we try to bring out some of the rich, wonderful music of our church, sometimes exposing them to music they may not be familiar with. This has caused trouble; apparently people complain straight to the priest if we do ONE “new” song, instead of talking to us. And in response, the preist simply tells us not to do whatever was complained about. No requests, no discussion, no support. No opportunity for us to explain our choices. We have had to really cut back, and do the same songs over and over again. We tried doing the latin mass parts, with the priest’s permission, last year, and apparently no one in that church had ever heard them. Could they have learned them after a couple weeks? Probabaly. But once again, people complained, and the priest told us we couldn’t do that again. Fine, we said. So most of the time, we do the songs they know, and we stick to English. But there are just some occasions which call for Latin, so every once in a while, we will do a song, or even just a verse, in Latin. This past Easter season, we chose a beautiful “Gloria” from a mass we often did at my hometown parish, in which just the refain is in Latin; very simple latin that mose people know, from Christmas carols if nothing else. We did it all through the Easter season, the parish learned it, and we didn’t get any complaints. Well, the last Sunday of Easter, our deacon was at mass (he usually isn’t there, as we have the 7:30 mass and it’s too early for him). We sang the Gloria like we had been doing all Easter. A few days later, we got an email from our priest, asking us not to sing Latin songs any more. He said the deacon complained, and said the congregation is not able to participate when we sing in Latin. Now, sometimes, this is true, they don’t know the song or the Latin (though most don’t even TRY, they just stare blankly). But in this case, the only “song” we did in Latin that week was the refrain of the Gloria, and EVERYONE was singing it, as they had all learned it. I suspect that the deacon complained because HE didn’t know the refrain, as he usually is not at our mass, and I suspect that for some reason, he just doesn’t like Latin in the first place.
Now, this latest email from the priest bothers me for several reasons. First, I honestly don’t think that any Catholic priest has the right to say that Latin is not allowed. I just can’t imagine that’s ok; I’m wondering if anyone knows of any documents I can cite to him to point this out, in a nice way? Second, I really don’t think it’s appropriate to let a complaint like this become the rule. The deacon does not have the authority here. I just don’t understand it. Third, once again, he doesn’t even discuss it with us. It’s a short email with a command. We are trying really hard to give this parish a rich music liturgy, and I feel like our preist does not trust or support us, and keeps shutting the door in our face. Course, this is the same priest who prides himself on 45 minute masses…
I just don’t feel like we can just sit and take this latest “request”. I think that eliminating Latin entirely is just wrong. Am I right? Or am I in the wrong here? I want to write our priest a letter expressing our intent in our music choices, and explaining why we feel Latin is so important to include occasionally. We’re honestly about done with this whole situation… if we didn’t need the small amount of money we get, we would probably go to another church. I don’t believe in church shopping, and I think that folks should stick with their own parish… but there has just been such a long line of problems in every possible area at this parish, that we’re fed up.
Any advice, especially official documents, etc, on the topic would be appreciated!