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need advice on my struggles with negativity toward my husband. I want to falsly blame or accuse him when he has done nothing wrong - constantly looking for him to cheat or ??? I don’t know why I am suddenly dealing with this when I have never been a jealous person. Does this come with turning 30? or having a baby? or what??? I can’t seem to shake it. jealousy is a sin right? or is it a spirit… or is it even jealousy that I am dealing with?
 
You mention having a baby…Have you recently given birth? It could be related to this, some sort of chemical imbalance. Check with your doctor.

Yes Jealosy is a sin, but if this is something that has come on suddenly with no history of it, I suspect some other cause.

Pray for peace and guidance.

Peace
James
 
aladams said:
need advice on my struggles with negativity toward my husband. I want to falsly blame or accuse him when he has done nothing wrong - constantly looking for him to cheat or ??? I don’t know why I am suddenly dealing with this when I have never been a jealous person. Does this come with turning 30? or having a baby? or what??? I can’t seem to shake it. jealousy is a sin right? or is it a spirit… or is it even jealousy that I am dealing with?
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HI and welcome to CAF! It is difficult from the little you have written to know what exactly is happening in your life right now.It certainly appears there is more to it than you just falsely blaming your husband for things.I suspect you have a lot of stress in your life right now and are feeling like you have a lot on your plate.My suggestion would be to have a chat with your doctor and see if there is anything he/she can help you with.It could be a whole range of different things are happening in your life right now.We don’t need to know all your private details but I will keep you in my prayers.You asked for scripture so here are a few.May God bless you.

Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight. (Proverbs 3:5-6)

The name of the Lord is a strong tower; the righteous run into it and are safe. (Proverbs 18:10)

Those of steadfast mind you keep in peace—because they trust in you. Trust in the Lord forever, for in the Lord God you have an everlasting rock. (Isaiah 26: 3-4)

Do you not know? Have you not heard? The Lord is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. He will not grow tired or weary, and his understanding no one can fathom. He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak. Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall; but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint. (Isaiah 40:28-31)

So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. (Isaiah 41:10)

You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart. (Jeremiah 29:13)

A wonderful prayer for you to pray

O Christ Jesus,
when all is darkness
and we feel our weakness and helplessness,
give us the sense of Your presence,
Your love, and Your strength.
Help us to have perfect trust
in Your protecting love
and strengthening power,
so that nothing may frighten or worry us,
for, living close to You,
we shall see Your hand,
Your purpose, Your will through all things.

By Saint Ignatius of Loyola
 
Here is your Bible verse for the day from today’s Liturgy of the Hours:

Short reading (Colossians 1:23) ©
Persevere and stand firm on the solid base of the faith. Never let yourselves drift away from the hope promised by the Good News, which you have heard, which has been preached to every created thing under Heaven.

And a short prayer for you:

Prayers and Intercessions
In joyful devotion to Christ, light of the nations and joy of all that lives, we pray:
– Lord, give us light, and peace, and salvation.

:blessyou:
 
aladams said:
need advice on my struggles with negativity toward my husband. I want to falsly blame or accuse him when he has done nothing wrong - constantly looking for him to cheat or ??? I don’t know why I am suddenly dealing with this when I have never been a jealous person. Does this come with turning 30? or having a baby? or what??? I can’t seem to shake it. jealousy is a sin right? or is it a spirit… or is it even jealousy that I am dealing with?
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id recommended asking the holy souls to help you, through their prayers and intercessions they can totally turn the situation around if you would be willing to pray for their relief and release

check out this link

missionbell.homestead.com/Afavourgrantedbytheholysouls.html
 
forgive me, i am not familiar with the holy souls. is there information in the bible about praying to them?
 
aladams said:
forgive me, i am not familiar with the holy souls. is there information in the bible about praying to them?
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The Holy Souls basically refers to the Church triumphant which includes both the saints (those already in heaven) and those undergoing purification in Purgatory.
I believe Paul speaks about the faithful praying with and for each other. Asking (praying) for the intercession of the holy souls and the saints is in this same vein.

Praying to those who are members of the Church Triumphant is the same as asking your neighbor to pray for you. Of course teh advantage of praying to those members who have already passed on is that they are nearer to, if not already in, the beatific presence and fully conformed to God’s will. Thus their prayers of intercession have great effect.

Peace
James
 
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