Need advice - when is it ok to kiss?

[metcim]

I have searched through the forums and can’t find much help on when it is ok to give the first kiss.

Short background-
I have been dating this girl for a total of about 3 months. I have known her for almost 8 months now, and we dated for about 2 months, and then took a break for about 2.5 months so I could figure out my faith.

I have finally answered the calling that I have been ignoring, and our relationship is so much better now that I understand and believe the same as she does. She agrees 100%. I would like to share a kiss with her enjoy the bond we have, not sexually, but the feeling you get in your heart when you kiss someone that feels the same about you.

I don’t want to scare her in case she isn’t ready. And while I could ask her, I would prefer it to be more of a romantic thing than asking “May I kiss you?”

Should I wait for the moment and try, and if she turns her head apologize? Or would talking to her about it be the best bet, even if it isn’t as romantic?

Thanks for your advice and (name removed by moderator)ut.

 

[stefina]

you two are back together?.. well ask your girlfriend if she’s ready and okay with that… keep in mind also that kissing can lead to other things that can become sinful… I love kissing my boyfriend, its great. I know some people who wait to kiss till there married, if you want to share a kiss with your girlfriend and your worried about it, you should ask her opinion on it. Are you and your girlfriend open with each other?.. chances are your girlfriend is thinking the same thing, she is probably nervous too and doesnt want to freak you out or think its going too far… im sure everything will work out, talk to her about it though… and when it happens im sure it will be very special for you two!

Best of luck! hope this helps a little

 

[metcim]

Ok, I’ll do that, thanks for your response.

 

[onelife1]

I have searched through the forums and can’t find much help on when it is ok to give the first kiss.

Short background-
I have been dating this girl for a total of about 3 months. I have known her for almost 8 months now, and we dated for about 2 months, and then took a break for about 2.5 months so I could figure out my faith.

I have finally answered the calling that I have been ignoring, and our relationship is so much better now that I understand and believe the same as she does. She agrees 100%. I would like to share a kiss with her enjoy the bond we have, not sexually, but the feeling you get in your heart when you kiss someone that feels the same about you.

I don’t want to scare her in case she isn’t ready. And while I could ask her, I would prefer it to be more of a romantic thing than asking “May I kiss you?”

Should I wait for the moment and try, and if she turns her head apologize? Or would talking to her about it be the best bet, even if it isn’t as romantic?

Thanks for your advice and (name removed by moderator)ut.

I think you should plant one on her when she least expects it. Try the first kiss on the cheek…make sure to kiss her cheek a little firm…not too firm though…once you get her to get attention, now, you won’t be so ackward…and give her one nice smooch.

good luck

 

[stefina]

I think you should plant one on her when she least expects it. Try the first kiss on the cheek…make sure to kiss her cheek a little firm…not too firm though…once you get her to get attention, now, you won’t be so ackward…and give her one nice smooch.

good luck

That is a good idea too… good way to start to see what happens, you’ll know where to go from there for sure:thumbsup:

 

[Sea_Bass]

Do not ask her under any circumstances. Girls HATE that

Put yourself in that situation where a kiss is not expected, but a requirement. At the end of a date, when you drop her off, and it comes time for that awkward hug, just look her in the eyes, bring her in close, and plant one. You can tell if she wants to be kissed. You got it pal, just make sure you do it soon!

 

[Highwayhound]

I have searched through the forums and can’t find much help on when it is ok to give the first kiss.

Thanks for your advice and (name removed by moderator)ut.

When the girl’s father says it is okay…

What are your intentions with this young lady? Do her parents like and respect you?

I would say that if you have discussed a long term relationship (i.e. marriage) and are both of the same mind then you might proceed.

Do you ever have dinner at this young lady’s home? It might be interesting to ask her parents how they met and dated.

The reason I ask these questions is that what purpose does kissing this young lady serve (alright stop rolling the eyes people, I know the purpose), but does it serve a holy purpose or simply an earthly pleasure purpose?

I kissed a girl once and still remember it, but never married her. It left an indelible mark on my soul.

God bless

 

[metcim]

If things continue they route they are on, then I’m sure marriage will be down the road. We have not discussed it seriously, but we will often make little comments like “when we’re married, etc”

Her parents like and respect me as near as I can tell.

Thanks again for the replies.