I think you’ve been getting some good advice. Do you expect to talk with him again some time soon? I hope so, as it sounds like a great opportunity to challenge both your knowledge and his understanding of the Church.
I would strongly recommend that you read the book “
Catholicism and Fundamentalism” by Karl Keating. I read it a few years ago and found it covered these issues quite nicely.
There are also a couple of other books out there that I haven’t yet gotten but which I’m interested in eventually getting. One is “
Radio Replies” or something like that, which is a compilation of an answers to questions put together by Tim Staples. You can find some excerpts at Ghttp://www.newadvent.org/library/almanac_rumble.htm.
Another resource I don’t have, but would like to get are a series of answers a sidewalk apologist back in the early 20th century compiled. Unfortunately, I no longer remember his name or the name of his book(s). (
anyone out there know what I’m referring to?)
Do you have the
Catholic Answers Bible yet? If not, know that they’ve got a new addition, called the New Catholic Answers Bible, that in addition to having a complete Catholic Bible, has pages that answer the common questions you may encounter with non-Catholic Christians who don’t understand how Catholics come to their understanding of the Faith Christ gave us.
For me, when I’ve had this kind of encounter I’ve prayed to the Holy Spirit for guidance. It’s often a good idea to ask the other person if we can start by agreeing that we love God and choose to do His will. Once we agree that this is our common motivation in life, I then ask if we can begin our discussion with an agreement that we seek to serve God and that we desire that our discussions lead us to the truth as given by God through Christ Jesus and that we are willing to follow this truth, regardless of where it might lead. And finally I ask that we begin further discussion with a prayer asking God for guidance so that we might remember at all times that He is our goal, not winning of any discussion but rather seeking His will.
Then, try to limit the scope of the discussion to one item at a time. If he tries to change the subject, try to keep it on one item at a time. If you are finally backed into a corner for which you have no answer, relax. You know that you have the Church covering your back. Therefore, while you may not know how to defend the Truth, you know that the defense exists and you can come here to find it. Simply tell him you’ll get the answer and get back to him. But then, do get back to him. This provides you with an excellent opportunity to better know Catholicism and to help him learn that there is more to being Christian than Fundamentalism provides.
This reminds me, there are a bunch of excellent tapes available on Catholic Apologetics put together by John Matinoni, available for FREE from
www.biblechristiansociety.com.
Heck, the return to sacrifice is what we already have in the Catholic Church. The Church is the new Jerusalem.
I wish you all the best as you talk further with him or others regarding your path into Catholicism.
God Bless