Need help in dating from the married

[Asonglaw]

I find myself losing interest in a female when I realize we can’t really “bond” at a deeper level, irrespective of the physical attractiveness. Of course the fault may be mine (& it usually is). well my point is, I think feelings could always come once there is a bond. I find physical attraction so volatile that only a deeper/maybe intellectual bond could keep and cultivate it.
But don’t we all look for more? I mean something deeper?.

 

[AdamP88]

But briefly its about getting married to someone you dont have physical attraction for . Thanks !

As a married man, my advice would be…don’t.

It’s hard enough to be married when you think your wife is the sexiest creature that ever walked the earth.

I think there are probably some people who don’t see physical attraction as a big deal and get married and that’s fine. But the fact that you’re asking this makes me think it’s something that bothers you. If it bothers you now it’s going to bother you after you marry. So don’t marry.