Need help in dealing with this

[cyberwolf001]

Three years ago I was living with friends in Charleston, South Carolina. My friends (For this story will call them Chris and Jill) and I where preparing to get our own apartment, we where staying with one of my Jill’s Mother, then in time I’d get my own.

Things where going great I was making friends enjoying a good job and preparing to return to college.

Then it all went wrong. Jill broke her ankle. Chris who was never one to get sick suddenly got very sick and showed no sign of getting well for some long time. All my friends there suddenly stopped talking to me and Jill and Chris ended up getting kicked out due to reasons that are not mine to disclose. But her mother had voices telling her just when are where to find them breaking rules of the house together and seperatly. (Jill’s mom is a cultish Protestant. We all got banned from the computer for an article I was reading on Pre-Christian Ireland written by a modern Druid. At the time I read it for historical reasons as it was emailed to me by a fellow Irish history enthusiast.)

I was forced to return home and I dated a girl named Edith. Over time I learned she caused all of this to happen with witchcraft she’d learned from her friends.

She then dumped me for converting to Catholicism. This past Easter she was Baptised in the Episcopal Church in her hometown of Dunellen New Jersey.

She all but boasted that now it might as well never have happened and she can’t and wont try to undo what she did to me with witchcraft.

It still angers me to this very day. She ruined my life and got away with it and really no one seems to care.

It’s obvious that every witch, god (yes right now including Jesus in my eyes) is utterly incapable of undoing what was done. Sure I’ve heard the coup out of but you might get something better.

That’s like me stealing your car and people going but you might get a better car.

Yes I am bitter and angry over this?

 

[wardrandolph]

I don’t mean to be uncharitable,but how can you be a neo-druid and a Catholic?The CCC is very clear in its teaching on occult practices.There is only One God in three Persons.God the Father,God the Son and God the Holy Spirit.This is the mystery of the Holy Trinity.If you play around with this(occult),you are opening yourself up to a lot harm.

 

[Gara3987]

Three years ago I was living with friends in Charleston, South Carolina. My friends (For this story will call them Chris and Jill) and I where preparing to get our own apartment, we where staying with one of my Jill’s Mother, then in time I’d get my own.

Things where going great I was making friends enjoying a good job and preparing to return to college.

Then it all went wrong. Jill broke her ankle. Chris who was never one to get sick suddenly got very sick and showed no sign of getting well for some long time. All my friends there suddenly stopped talking to me and Jill and Chris ended up getting kicked out due to reasons that are not mine to disclose. But her mother had voices telling her just when are where to find them breaking rules of the house together and seperatly. (Jill’s mom is a cultish Protestant. We all got banned from the computer for an article I was reading on Pre-Christian Ireland written by a modern Druid. At the time I read it for historical reasons as it was emailed to me by a fellow Irish history enthusiast.)

I was forced to return home and I dated a girl named Edith. Over time I learned she caused all of this to happen with witchcraft she’d learned from her friends.

She then dumped me for converting to Catholicism. This past Easter she was Baptised in the Episcopal Church in her hometown of Dunellen New Jersey.

She all but boasted that now it might as well never have happened and she can’t and wont try to undo what she did to me with witchcraft.

It still angers me to this very day. She ruined my life and got away with it and really no one seems to care.

It’s obvious that every witch, god (yes right now including Jesus in my eyes) is utterly incapable of undoing what was done. Sure I’ve heard the coup out of but you might get something better.

That’s like me stealing your car and people going but you might get a better car.

Yes I am bitter and angry over this?

Occults are very dangerous, so I suggest that you completely stay away from them, and completely stay away from this person of which you speak. It is a shame that there are people out there who a just plain evil, nothing may happen to her in this life time but believe me you she has something coming to her in on her judgment day. Revenge is for God alone to take, so you should just leave it in His hands and He will take care of you. We must remember that God may allow certain things to take place, but He has His reasons. We are truly unable to comprehend God’s will, for instance; St. Teresa of Avila was walking on a second story, to make a long story short the devil pushed her down the stairs and she broke both her legs. When she asked Our Lord why He allowed it, Christ answered her “I did not, he (Lucifer) wanted to kill you, I only allow for him to break your legs.” St. Teresa replied “no wonder you have so many enemies look at what you do to your friends” (in a sarcastic manner of which meaning no offense to Our Lord).

cyberwolf001:

It’s obvious that every witch, god (yes right now including Jesus in my eyes) is utterly incapable of undoing what was done.

Do not let the devil sway you away from our Lord, for you to say this show your self love, or the First Capital Sin; the first sin ever committed Pride. You should pray to Saint Michael to protect you against the evil spirits of pride (including Lucifer) and all evil spirits in general, you should also pray to Saint Uriel the Archangel for protection against the evil spirits of wrath (whenever you begin to feel angry) and protection against evil People. Keep in mind that Our Heavenly Father has willed this to happen (for reason that we would be unable to comprehend), and remember that God will never give you something that you will be unable to handle. The way I look at things are if your life is perfect without you having any problems, there is something wrong for the devil attacks those that he does not have in his clutches, and gives everything to those that he already has (to keep them from getting away). I suggest that you look into some books done by St. Teresa of Avila, she wrote about things that are similar to what I brought up (About God’s Will), and I believe that you will understand things better that way.

I hope that this helps

Take Care and God Bless.

PS I suggest you heed wardrandolph warnings as well.

 

[Danuska]

Read the book of Job, see what happened to that guy, and how he took it. See that God not only did restore everything to him, but in fact, he was better off than before.
Read also Romans chapter 8 - God can turn everything into your favour, and everything works for the good of those who love Him. Now you need to forgive everyone, and God including - for letting it happen to you - pray for those who worked against you and bless them, and let God take care of you.

 

[Tietjen]

She all but boasted that now it might as well never have happened and she can’t and wont try to undo what she did to me with witchcraft.

What did she do to you that needs to be changed? She dumped you… I’m sorry, but people go through that all the time. A friend broke her ankle. Umm, again that happens as does a friend becoming ill. I’m at a lose understanding what exactly you expect should be done. Time travel perhaps? Certainly your friend is not still suffering from a broken ankle.

It still angers me to this very day. She ruined my life and got away with it and really no one seems to care.

Perhaps it’s because no one sees this as life shattering and there is nothing you have stated which suggests the supernatural was used to attack you.

It’s obvious that every witch, god (yes right now including Jesus in my eyes) is utterly incapable of undoing what was done. Sure I’ve heard the coup out of but you might get something better.

Wolf, I’m having a difficult time understanding you. What does “heard the coup” mean? Also, Christ is not a witch so including Him as such, certainly will not make things better.

That’s like me stealing your car and people going but you might get a better car.

Yes I am bitter and angry over this?

Perhaps then you should speak to those trained to help you manage your anger and fears better. I’ll say a prayer for you.

 

[Lapell]

Can’t a priest (one who is especially authorized to perform exorcisms) free you?

 

[Veronica_Anne]

Wow. Well, whatever happens is always in God’s will. What helps is to realize that God wills things in one way or the other. Either He wills it because it’s His PREFERRED Will – OR – because it’s His PERMITTED Will.

Why is that so? Because He in His infivnite Love has given everybody free will because, of course, He chooses not to force anybody to love or to act in love.

If He permitted this to happen in your life, then KNOW for SURE that nothing but GOOD will come from it, even if not right now, yet for certain at least eventually. He has something that He is asking for YOU to do, even now… and especially now… that the person or people have caused you this harm. He wants to you talk to Him about it.

There is only ONE God. HE, alone is God.

This is not a “cop out.” It is the Truth. Only Jesus is the Way, the Truth, and the Life.

Also, realize that there are people around in your life, if not right now, but at least in your future, who if you ask them they willl provide you with the answers that God wishes for you to hear… if not directly from Him telling you in your prayer to Him, but that He is providing for them to provide to you as HIS method of telling you what His answer is. You merely need to ask. And that, you have already done, I’m sure. You have asked here on this Forum. Continue to ask. He will provide your answer.

What comes to my mind to answer your question for what to do is simply do this –

– Forgive everyone in the situation who has harmed you. Not just once, not just seven, but seventy times seven times forgive them. Forgive them every time you remember or are reminded of the very real injuires they have caused in you and your life.

I’m speaking this from personal experience. Believe me – I have great need to forgive someone in my life who has caused much emotional pain as well as pain in my financial life. Forgiveness is not, by the way, saying that it was ever okay for them to have harmed you, which they certainly have. It was never “okay” for them to have done what they did – nor will it ever be “okay” for them to do it in the future. Also, forgiving them does NOT mean that you will let them be in your life.

Forgiveness is choosing to decide that if they passed you on the street, then you would wish them well.

I’m praying that God will increase the gift of Courage in you. The courage to bring you to forgive. It was by my making an intellectual assent to choose to forgive the person who hurt me so very deeply that I became free. That might not make sense to you right now… yet, still… it’s true.

 

[AgnosTheist]

Its all just coincidence. There is no evidence for the supernatural.

 

[cyberwolf001]

I don’t mean to be uncharitable,but how can you be a neo-druid and a Catholic?The CCC is very clear in its teaching on occult practices.There is only One God in three Persons.God the Father,God the Son and God the Holy Spirit.This is the mystery of the Holy Trinity.If you play around with this(occult),you are opening yourself up to a lot harm.

I quite being Catholic to become a Druid. Hope that clears that up.

What did she do to you that needs to be changed? She dumped you… I’m sorry, but people go through that all the time. A friend broke her ankle. Umm, again that happens as does a friend becoming ill. I’m at a lose understanding what exactly you expect should be done. Time travel perhaps? Certainly your friend is not still suffering from a broken ankle.

I guess it’ll help to bring more background info for you. The break up doesn’t bother me the spells do.

Do people break there ankles standing up not walking around or anything? A friend that has never been sick in there entire life suddenly falling ill. The voices telling a friends mother to toss her Children out?

The friends just vanishing from my life.

To give you more background information. This all happened over a course of two weeks.

Perhaps it’s because no one sees this as life shattering and there is nothing you have stated which suggests the supernatural was used to attack you.

To give more background information I should have at the start. I have asked witches and Christians that use to be into the occult but now are involved in spiritual warfare.

They all claim it sounds like a text book case of a love/lust spell and magical attack (except for the group of pagans the occult can never ever hurt anyone even if you want to hurt people with it).

But most pagans seem to feel you have to be weak for a spell to affect you. Most Christians shrug and talk about a chance for redemptive suffering.

Wolf, I’m having a difficult time understanding you. What does “heard the coup” mean? Also, Christ is not a witch so including Him as such, certainly will not make things better.

‘heard the coup out’ pronounced cop out. An I stated any witch or God. Did you read my post or just skim it?

To be charitable I made a typo and put a ‘,’ where I meant to put an ‘or’.

Can’t a priest (one who is especially authorized to perform exorcisms) free you?

This all happened a year ago. I’m just still ‘enjoying’ the fall out from it. One good example being no jobs in my area while in Charleston there was plenty of work opportunities.

 

[ibkc]

If you want a pagan/witch perspective on this, and that seems like it’d be a no-brainer since you’ve decided to join ADF and be a druid, then you’re in the wrong place. The public ADF mailing list, ADF-Druidry, has plenty of people participating who can help you from that POV.

If you’re here because you think you might still want to stay Catholic, then great - this is, after all, Catholic Answers.

So what kind of help are you looking for: pagan or Christian?

 

[cyberwolf001]

You know you got a point. I’ve gotten use to coming here for advice

Off to pagan lists I go!

 

[LaMar]

I was forced to return home and I dated a girl named Edith. Over time I learned she caused all of this to happen with witchcraft she’d learned from her friends.

Tellyawhat… Why don’t you have Edith’s friends curse me to break my ankle, the same way they broke Jill’s. If it works, I’ll pay the sorcerer 1000 dollars, acknowledge his or her power and authority here in public, and convert to whatever spookshow Witchcraft/Satanism/Pagan religion they proselytize for. Sound good?

I don’t deny it worked in your case. It’s called the placebo effect. Someone says they curse you, you waste time believing it, and you have a lousy couple of days. That’s the secret behind all this nonsense.

It doesn’t work, if you don’t believe it!

Stop believing it, and quit hanging out with the silly people who take this nonsense seriously. It’s all lies.

 

[Daniel_Marsh]

Walk in the spirit and no one can put a curse on you.

 

[AgnosTheist]

many people had tried to curse me for years…from catholics to wiccans. none worked so far. reason is my shield.

 

[Mirdath]

So cyberwolf, why don’t I buy you lunch and you tell me everything good that’s happened to you so I can claim responsibility for having magicked it up? I’ll even pull out my tarot cards and draw pentagrams if that’ll help

Broken ankle? These things happen. Sickness? Happens to the healthiest of us – it’s not that he’d never be sick, it’s that he’d managed to dodge a bunch of bullets up to that point. Mom’s omniscience? Mothers are sneaky and cunning, I mean, you had one right? That’s about par for the course! Mine had me believing she had an invisible third eye in the back of her head for years – caught me red-handed by a reflection in glass and worked it for all it was worth.

Sorry, it isn’t witchcraft. It’s a few incidents of misfortune tied together by someone who wants you to think she holds power over you, no more.

 

[1ke]

Please get some professional help. You seem to be very susceptible to the idea of witches, curses, hexes, and such.

It’s the power of suggestion.

 

[catheflower]

I’d say get out of the ADF. The pagan gods (nothing or demons) can’t help you. Go to a Catholic spiritual warfare site. Start praying all sorts of healing prayers. You can ask to be healed and protected from witches. But, you can also ask to be healed of anxiety, which is what I think you have.

Perhaps you know Neopaganism was wrong all along and so you attributed your situation to curses.

Your ex-gf is simply not a nice person. She’ll have to answer to GOD for whatever she did, even if she was just messing with your head. (no curses)