Need Help With Separation Issues From Those Who Have Wisdom In Such

[LSK]

sparkle:

What does the above mean? Did you have 5 abortions? Bless your heart. There is no condemnation here you know, ONLY support and love. At least on my part. I really would like to know what happened to your husband and baby daughter. You say they drowned. How?

P.S. Yes, we are presently in marriage counseling.

OH POOR SPARKLE!!!

No I did not have 5 abortions…what a funny question…why would you want to know that kind of stuff? What would that have to do with anything? You are such a funny, funny woman!

The fact is you have some real problems in your life and you seem determined to exacerbate them. Why do you suppose that is? I cannot imagine any reliable priest of counselor letting you continue this way so I sure hope you are not lying to us about counseling.

After all you are a daily influence on young people - your children - and I would hate to think they may end up causing a future spouse harm because of the chaos that has been allowed in their life.

If you have other personal questions about me or my past you are free to PM me. I have no reason to PM you - I am not the one asking for advice, remember?

And thank you, all the people who did PM me after the last post from Sparkle. There are some wonderfully healthy, loving and holy people on this forum. You leapt to my ‘defense’ and I thank you all.

 

[sparkle]

LSK:

OH POOR SPARKLE!!!

No I did not have 5 abortions…what a funny question…why would you want to know that kind of stuff? What would that have to do with anything? You are such a funny, funny woman!

Well pardon me for inquiring LSK. Really it was only out of compassion that I was asking. You said your husband and baby are in heaven, and that quote: “I am the mother of five children and all of them are waiting for me in heaven”. I took this to mean you have been a physical mom to 5 kids, and they had all died and are in heaven. Perhaps I totally misunderstood this very weird statement you made then. I just felt so sorry for you. Of course you don’t have to tell anyone your personal life Leslie, but please don’t blame me for caring.

 

[LSK]

sparkle:

Well pardon me for inquiring LSK. Really it was only out of compassion that I was asking. You said your husband and baby are in heaven, and that quote: “I am the mother of five children and all of them are waiting for me in heaven”. I took this to mean you have been a physical mom to 5 kids, and they had all died and are in heaven. Perhaps I totally misunderstood this very weird statement you made then. I just felt so sorry for you. Of course you don’t have to tell anyone your personal life Leslie, but please don’t blame me for caring.

You are not being blamed for ‘caring’ - you are being blamed for being presumptious, there is a difference. You are also throwing attention on me, rather than the situation YOU requested help with by starting this thread. My statement was not weird…your reaction to it was; and a proper apology to this type of situation is not a variation of “Gee, I sure am sorry YOU made ME act like a goofball”.

You are, however, forgiven as the responses to your comments have shown me that I am not over-reacting, being overly sensitive or out of line. Again, I appreciate the incredible love shown to me by members posting on this thread. You people are true Catholic Christians.

There is an old saying: Do not try to teach a pig to sing opera; it frustrates you and makes the pig angry. I have decided to take my own advice and stop offering singing :banghead: lessons.

 

[La_Chiara]

LSK:

There is an old saying: Do not try to teach a pig to sing opera; it frustrates you and makes the pig angry. I have decided to take my own advice and stop offering singing :banghead: lessons.

Leslie–Some of us may be tone deaf, but you are a great voice coach!:tiphat:

 

[sparkle]

LSK:

You are not being blamed for ‘caring’ - you are being blamed for being presumptious, there is a difference. You are also throwing attention on me, rather than the situation YOU requested help with by starting this thread. My statement was not weird…your reaction to it was; and a proper apology to this type of situation is not a variation of “Gee, I sure am sorry YOU made ME act like a goofball”.

I apologize if you see my confusion from what you said in this thread as being “presumptious”. I don’t think I was, sorry if I in any way offended you. It was nothing more than wondering what in the world you could be talking about when you said quote:"Sparkle asked me if I have other children. I lived a pretty wild life with drinking and using, and like most people who live immorally, made some “choices” that drove me further and further from the throne of Peter. Because of this, I am the mother of five children, all of them have names and all are waiting for me in heaven."

Sure beats me LSK what you mean above. I’m glad you have gotten some sympathy from others here as you declare, over my apparent “presumptiousness”. Good for you.

 

[Fitz]

Sparkle, I will be praying for you this weekend. Marriage Encounter weekends are really very special. I will pray that it begins a new dialogue that counseling alone does not do. You will have a whole weekend to talk and to just spend time getting to know each other again.

 

[LSK]

sparkle:

Sure beats me LSK what you mean above. I’m glad you have gotten some sympathy from others here as you declare, over my apparent “presumptiousness”. Good for you.

The statement speaks for itself.