Whoa… I take a few days off to get some Christmas shopping done and things take on a life of their own!
As stated before, I most certainly HAVE done some research… perhaps I didn’t make it clear but I have read books on different denominations… few made any reference to actual practices, like the things I’m trying to find out about (not that I had a ton of books to research from… the local library isn’t that big). And again, I am NOT making the CofC the antagonist. The pastor isn’t necessarily “the bad guy” because he’s anti-Catholic… his motivation for discouraging the relationship is the fact that his granddaughter, the apple of his eye, has set her cap for the young man in the story. If you will, if he has anything against Catholics, it’s most likely the fact that the young man in the story fell for one instead of his granddaughter!
I chose this particular church for the following reason: the person who is the model for the young man in the story is a member of the CofC. Now, you have to realize, in spite of the fact that the nearest town has a population of 30K, there are 5 (count 'em, FIVE) Churches of Christ there. I happen to know people who belong to three of them (having worked with them in the past when I used to live in that town)… none of them know each other. Depending on who you ask, you’ll get a variety of answers on different topics. For instance, the friend who’s the model for the character in the story? Okay, his family doesn’t own a TV or have much use for doctors (Baby No. 9’s delivery was a do-it-yourself home project) and is very family oriented–I mean, just about everything they do is as a family. Mom stays at home and all the kids have been homeschooled. They celebrate Halloween and all the kids (of the 9 who are old enough to read) have read the Harry Potter books. Another lady I used to work with owned a TV (with cable), was a hypochodriac who never met a doctor she didn’t like, decided two kids was enough, believes women should prepare for a career “just in case” and thinks homeschooling stunts children, but she abhors Halloween as “training children to worship the devil” and wouldn’t let her kids watch “The Wizard of Oz”, much less read Harry Potter (she even had a problem with Scooby-Doo, all right?)
Both belong to the Church of Christ… obviously not the same one. As I said, they don’t even know each other. So to ask them: Preacher, Pastor, Brother? Depends on who you ask. The Lord’s supper? Either every week or every second and fourth Sunday. Wednesday Bible study? Either “Mandatory” or “gee, I have to do my nails”. I may as well be here on the boards, where everything is written down and I can make an outline!
The main point of the whole story isn’t “CofC bad, Catholic Church good”. The point is, there is a lot of opposition to this relationship and yes, some of it relates to religious differences. The fact that my character falls for a girl from a different religious background won’t make for an interesting conflict if his church/family/pastor feels there is no problem with that. There would be no conflict if HER parents didn’t care that she was giving up discerning a vocation to the religious life for a NON-Catholic (especially since there IS a Catholic man in the offing–her dad’s boss’s son, to be exact.) Among many other conflicts I’ve alluded to and some I am valiantly trying to keep secret. And I admit, I am writing it from a Catholic perspective and, if you haven’t figured it out by now, the young man will eventually come to embrace the faith… maybe (depends on how the the story progresses… I don’t plot out every detail, I let the characters take the story wherever they want to go!)
I refused to take the “easy” way out by making the young man a “heathen” who finds love and salvation with a young woman who “saves” his soul and mends his heart. Blech. Too many writers of “inspirational” fiction and Christian romance have done that to death. The religious differences do create conflict, conflict that could either end or strengthen the relationship.
And thank you, flameburns, for the encouragement. Not that negativity has ever stopped me

. After all, you know the patron saint of authors is St. Paul, don’t you? His critics not only blasted his writing, they chopped his head off… and yet his work is about the most widely read and revered.
Nah. I don’t think a little negativity will bother me!
Peace to all and if I don’t hit the keyboard before then, a blessed Christmas to all!
BlueRose