Need prayer going through divorce

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Memorare ( Prayer to Our Lady )

Remember , O most gracious Virgin Mary ,
that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection ,
implored your help , or sought your intercession , was left unaided .
Inspired by this confidence , I fly unto you , O Virgin of virgins , my Mother .
To you do I come , before you I stand , sinful and sorrowful .
O Mother of the Word Incarnate , despise not my petitions ,
but in your mercy , hear and answer me .
Amen .

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Thank you for prayers which give me peace in my heart.

I am phisically ecxausted, because I have to work more hors because I have to pay bills.
My husbands salary is about 12 times more then mine, but nowdays beliefs and banks take money from his bank account.

He even dont pay for daughters and wants me to pay his bills(really!!!).
I know it is the addiction which causes that he has another not real life…

Christmas time was very difficult, because our two daugther had to choose with who spent Christmas time One wanted with me and younger wanted with daddy.

It is difficult because Christams time is the time of peace and joy- people forgive in families and join . My husband doesnt want to speak with me, he sent me sms when he wanted to tell me he took daughter to his family.

I dont understand this situation, I know God has got his plan. But It is very difficult to live in every day strong stress- day by day there is something difficult. I try to entrust to God, but I think something wrong is with me, because I feell I cant do that completly.

I go to to church to Holy Mass, I go to conffession and Holy Communnion , I read Holy Bible , and i read many catholic books and listen to many catholic religious mp3 . It gives me peace.

But maybe I do too much, I dont know, I try to “touched the hem of his garment”( Mt 9,20)
Now I have to change my spiritual director because the old one had a lot of work in his parish.
On Friday morning I have the meeting with the priest in my new parish. I hope he will agree, because many of priests when i ask they honestly tell me- they can pray for me, but they are not good prepared to help in such a difficult sittuation to be my spiritual director.

Poppy
 
Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
Memorare ( Prayer to Our Lady )

Remember , O most gracious Virgin Mary ,
that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection ,
implored your help , or sought your intercession , was left unaided .
Inspired by this confidence , I fly unto you , O Virgin of virgins , my Mother .
To you do I come , before you I stand , sinful and sorrowful .
O Mother of the Word Incarnate , despise not my petitions ,
but in your mercy , hear and answer me .
Amen .

:highprayer::signofcross:
 
Memorare ( Prayer to Our Lady )

Remember , O most gracious Virgin Mary ,
that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection ,
implored your help , or sought your intercession , was left unaided .
Inspired by this confidence , I fly unto you , O Virgin of virgins , my Mother .
To you do I come , before you I stand , sinful and sorrowful .
O Mother of the Word Incarnate , despise not my petitions ,
but in your mercy , hear and answer me .
Amen .

:highprayer::signofcross:
 
Tomorrow 03.01.2012 at 5 p.m. I have the mediations with my husband. I know he wants only sell our old flat to pay his be and force me to give my permission. He also want to divorce.

Jesu- have mercy on me, my husband, my marriage and my family ( especially our daughters).
Give me the strength of faith, hope, and charity in all my , and my husband actions.
Give us all grace we need now

Let Your Will not mine be done

poppy
 
Memorare ( Prayer to Our Lady )

Remember , O most gracious Virgin Mary ,
that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection ,
implored your help , or sought your intercession , was left unaided .
Inspired by this confidence , I fly unto you , O Virgin of virgins , my Mother .
To you do I come , before you I stand , sinful and sorrowful .
O Mother of the Word Incarnate , despise not my petitions ,
but in your mercy , hear and answer me .
Amen .

:highprayer::signofcross:
 
Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
Memorare ( Prayer to Our Lady )

Remember , O most gracious Virgin Mary ,
that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection ,
implored your help , or sought your intercession , was left unaided .
Inspired by this confidence , I fly unto you , O Virgin of virgins , my Mother .
To you do I come , before you I stand , sinful and sorrowful .
O Mother of the Word Incarnate , despise not my petitions ,
but in your mercy , hear and answer me .
Amen .

:highprayer::signofcross:
 
Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
Memorare ( Prayer to Our Lady )

Remember , O most gracious Virgin Mary ,
that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection ,
implored your help , or sought your intercession , was left unaided .
Inspired by this confidence , I fly unto you , O Virgin of virgins , my Mother .
To you do I come , before you I stand , sinful and sorrowful .
O Mother of the Word Incarnate , despise not my petitions ,
but in your mercy , hear and answer me .
Amen .

:highprayer::signofcross:
 
Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
Hail, Holy Queen, Mother of Mercy,
our Life, our Sweetness, and our Hope.
To Thee do we cry, poor banished children of Eve.
To Thee do we send up our sighs mourning
and weeping in this valley of tears.
Turn then, most gracious Advocate,
Thine Eyes of Mercy toward us,
and after this our exile show us the
Blessed Fruit of thy Womb, Jesus.
O clement, O loving, O sweet Virgin Mary.
Pray for us O Holy Mother of God
That we may be made worthy of the promises of Christ.
Amen.

Memorare ( Prayer to Our Lady )

Remember , O most gracious Virgin Mary ,
that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection ,
implored your help , or sought your intercession , was left unaided .
Inspired by this confidence , I fly unto you , O Virgin of virgins , my Mother .
To you do I come , before you I stand , sinful and sorrowful .
O Mother of the Word Incarnate , despise not my petitions ,
but in your mercy , hear and answer me .
Amen .

:highprayer::signofcross:
 
Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
Hail, Holy Queen, Mother of Mercy,
our Life, our Sweetness, and our Hope.
To Thee do we cry, poor banished children of Eve.
To Thee do we send up our sighs mourning
and weeping in this valley of tears.
Turn then, most gracious Advocate,
Thine Eyes of Mercy toward us,
and after this our exile show us the
Blessed Fruit of thy Womb, Jesus.
O clement, O loving, O sweet Virgin Mary.
Pray for us O Holy Mother of God
That we may be made worthy of the promises of Christ.
Amen.

Memorare ( Prayer to Our Lady )

Remember , O most gracious Virgin Mary ,
that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection ,
implored your help , or sought your intercession , was left unaided .
Inspired by this confidence , I fly unto you , O Virgin of virgins , my Mother .
To you do I come , before you I stand , sinful and sorrowful .
O Mother of the Word Incarnate , despise not my petitions ,
but in your mercy , hear and answer me .
Amen .

:highprayer::signofcross:
 
Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of death
Amen.
 
Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
Hail, Holy Queen, Mother of Mercy,
our Life, our Sweetness, and our Hope.
To Thee do we cry, poor banished children of Eve.
To Thee do we send up our sighs mourning
and weeping in this valley of tears.
Turn then, most gracious Advocate,
Thine Eyes of Mercy toward us,
and after this our exile show us the
Blessed Fruit of thy Womb, Jesus.
O clement, O loving, O sweet Virgin Mary.
Pray for us O Holy Mother of God
That we may be made worthy of the promises of Christ.
Amen.

Memorare ( Prayer to Our Lady )

Remember , O most gracious Virgin Mary ,
that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection ,
implored your help , or sought your intercession , was left unaided .
Inspired by this confidence , I fly unto you , O Virgin of virgins , my Mother .
To you do I come , before you I stand , sinful and sorrowful .
O Mother of the Word Incarnate , despise not my petitions ,
but in your mercy , hear and answer me .
Amen .

:highprayer::signofcross:
 
Memorare (Prayer to Our Lady)
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help, or sought your intercession, was left unaided.
Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto you, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To you do I come, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in your mercy, hear and answer me. Amen
 
Tomorrow afternoon Im going to have the second part of mediation with my husband.
Even my husband
see he is not getting his way he have to threaten and blame me , i think mediation will not change anything.
The first part of mediation was about children, tomorrow it will be about our finantial sittuation.
But my husband wants me to pay his bills and debts, he told me hi is not gambling now, and he is not addicted
But I was told by the therapist- it is possible he is not playing know, but it is obvious he has changed his addiction to something else we dont know.

He tells he believes in God , but he cant live with me because I am “mentally ill”- I know he has got his own life, but I am very sorry he doesnt want to go to make his diagnosis about addiction.

I pray for him everyday.
I klnow God has got His plan, but something is inside me, that I cant entrust to God completely.
It is probably ( I was talking about that with the priest) - because I ahve ACoA ( Adult Child of Alcoholi) syndrome,
I had to do everything myself and I jugde myself very seriously and now it is very difficult to me to “Let go LEt GOD”

Please pray for me I want to entrust everything, I cry everyday because I dont know what it is what cant let me entrust completly.

The mediation we have tomorrow afteroon I “invite” Jesus to the mediation.

If you now any part of the Holy Bible which can help me in my sittuation to have to stregthen my hope please let me know

( Sorry for my English when I am very stressful I have many problems with speaking in fopreign languages)
Poppy
 
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