btw, the situations that this personis talking about are so rare that this person either hangs out with the most unfortunate group of people, or she is lying to you.
The first argument Didi puts forth is probably your best choice in such a case. You can also try to reach a common consensus on what constitutes human life and try to make sure it includes fetus from conception onwards.
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