Nervous about receiving on the tongue

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Conjecture is just that – conjecture, and your’s means nothing to me.

First, could you please give me some sources for your comment “the vast numbers of Catholics today have no belief in the real presence?” I had hear that spewe********d a great deal and I actually did some digging and looked into the original Gallop poll on the matter. Maybe you have updated information from reputable sources? Jimmy Akin did a nice write-up on that infamous poll.

But far more important, I really don’t know what sort of world you live in but I have never seen anyone treat the Blessed Sacrament like a “potato chip.” Not once. To suggest that one treats the Blessed Sacrament like a “potato chip” because they receive in hand is not only ignorant, it’s inflammatory and just plain nasty.

I actually wonder what’s wrong in your life for that matte to even come into your head? Why would you even think of such a thing?
I have trouble concentrating at Mass so I like to sit in the front and sometimes I have trouble concentrating in prayer after I receive Communion. And I have seen the Sacred Host treated like a potato chip. I even saw one person nibble on the Host to consume it. If you do not believe me go to a big church especially one with guitars and drums during the liturgy, sit in the front pew and watch people receive Communion. You should see something of the sort within a month.
 
:gopray2: I recently returned to receiving on the tongue. For me, it is an added reverence for the Body of Christ that was missing by receiving on the hand. As a long-time catechist and recently retired DRE, I have to agree with Daprato about poor catechesis instruction. I would not, however, call it “horrid.” The period following Vatican II tossed out the old Baltimore and brought in texts that were more “acceptable” As part of that movement, I accept my share of responsibility. However, we are taking great pains to return to basic dogma (which never changed!) And the Church is reaching out now, more than ever, to adult education. If Dauphin feels the need (as I did) to return to receiving on the tongue, then do so. I choose to believe that all who aproach the table of the Lord do so with a reverent heart. :blessyou:
 
"Approaching therefore, do not come forward with the palms of the hands outstretched nor with the fingers apart, but making the left [hand] a throne for the right since this hand is about to receive the King. Making the palm hollow, receive the Body of Christ, adding ‘Amen’. …
-Saint Cyril of Jerusalem
4th Century Father and Doctor of the Church
From “Rethinking Communion in the Hand” by Jude Huntz:

A more rigorous study of the available evidence from Church History and from the writings of the Fathers does not support the assertion that Communion in the hand was a universal practice which was gradually supplanted and eventually replaced by the practice of Communion on the tongue.

Rather, the facts seem to point to a different conclusion.

Pope St. Leo the Great (440-461), already in the fifth century, is an early witness of the traditional practice. In his comments on the sixth chapter of the Gospel of John, he speaks of Communion in the mouth as the current usage: "One receives in the mouth what one believes by faith."2 The Pope does not speak as if he were introducing a novelty, but as if this were a well-established fact.

A century and a half later, but still three centuries before the practice (according to the popular account reviewed above) was supposedly introduced, Pope St. Gregory the Great (590-604) is another witness. In his dialogues (Roman 3, c. 3) he relates how Pope St. Agapito performed a miracle during the Mass, after having placed the Body of the Lord into someone’s mouth. We are also told by John the Deacon of this Pope’s manner of giving Holy Communion.

These witnesses are from the fifth and the sixth centuries. How can one reasonably say that Communion in the hand continued as the official practice until the tenth century? How can one claim that giving Communion on the tongue is a medieval invention?

…So St. Basil (330-379) says clearly that to receive Communion by one’s own hand is only permitted in times of persecution or, as was the case with monks in the desert, when no deacon or priest was available to give it. “It is not necessary to show that it does not constitute a grave fault for a person to communicate with his own hand in a time of persecution when there is no priest or deacon” (Letter 93, my emphasis). The text implies that to receive in the hand under other circumstances, outside of persecution, would be a grave fault.3 The saint based his opinion on the custom of the solitary monks, who reserved the Blessed Sacrament in their dwellings, and, in the absence of the priest or deacon, gave themselves Communion.

In his article on “Communion” in the Dictionaire d’Archeologie Chretienne, LeClerq declares that the peace of Constantine was bringing the practice of Communion in the hand to an end. This reaffirms for us the reasoning of St. Basil that it was persecution that created the alternative of either receiving by hand or not receiving at all.

…Thus the Council of Rouen, which met in 650, says, “Do not put the Eucharist in the hands of any layman or laywomen but only in their mouths.”

…Of course, the promoters of “Communion in the hand” generally make little mention of the evidence we have brought forward. They do, however, make constant use of the text attributed to St. Cyril of Jerusalem, who lived in the fourth century at the same time as St. Basil.

Henri LeClerq summarized things as follows: “Saint Cyril of Jerusalem recommended to the faithful that on presenting themselves to receive Communion, they should have the right hand extended, with their fingers together, supported by the left hand, and with the palm a little bit concave; and at the moment in which the Body of Christ was deposited in the hand, the communicant would say: Amen.”

There is more to this text than just the above, however. It also goes on to propose the following: “Sanctify your eyes with contact with the Holy Body . . . . When your lips are still wet, touch your hand to your lips, and then pass you hand over your eyes, your forehead and your other senses, to sanctify them.” This rather odd (or even superstitious? Irreverent?) recommendation has caused scholars to question the authenticity of this text. Some think that perhaps there has been an interpolation, or that it is really the saint’s successor who wrote it.

It is not impossible that the text is really the work of the Patriarch John, who succeeded Cyril in Jerusalem. But this John was of suspect orthodoxy. This we know from the correspondence of St. Epiphanius, St. Jerome, and St. Augustine. So, in favor of Communion in the hand we have a text of dubious origin and questionable content. And on the other hand, we have reliable witnesses, including two great popes, that placing the Sacred Host in the mouth of the communicant was already common and unremarkable in at least the fifth century.

catholic-pages.com/mass/inhand.asp
 
I receive on the tongue the first time today. It was horrible. 😦

I guess I didn’t stick my tongue out far enough or open my mouth wide enough, but I had to grab the host with my teeth. My memory probably exaggerates but I believe the priest gave me the most disgusted, assaulting look I’ve ever had in my entire life.
 
I agree with you. I’ve observed so many abuses. How about receiving in hand and walkin away holdin the Sacred Host and talkin to a friend. How about pieces of the Host fallin on the floor and trampled under foot? Yes it is unacceptable for me and I pray that it will be for many more. But the Census on Leading Catholic Indicators tells us that 50% or more Catholics (?) don’t believe in the real presence any way, so for many it’s a “so what’s the big deal” attitude.
 
Dauphin, don’t worry about receiving Our Lord in your hand.

When I was being trained to be a Eucharistic Minister we were told a bit about the early Church by the (very orthodox) priest who was put in charge of our training. In the early Church, it seems, people used to regularly take pieces of the consecrated bread home to their loved ones who were too sick to come to Mass. In a way, they were the first Eucharistic Ministers…bringing Holy Communion to the sick and dying. So, the priest explained that is was entirely o.k. if we received “on the hand”, as long as it was done reverently and correctly.

Personally, I don’t like to receive Holy Communion in the hand; I’m too afraid of any particles that might be accidentally left in my hand after I consume the consecrated host – and the disrespect that I might accidentally show to them if I don’t notice them right off. Maybe this concern is justified…maybe it is not. I just prefer to receive “on the tongue”, as I have for the 48 years since my First Holy Communion at 7 yrs. old.

Now, don’t worry about receiving on the tongue…how you should do it. Just get your heart in the right place, and the priest or Eucharistic Minister will do the rest.

And, of course, don’t forget to prepare yourself before Holy Communion with a little prayer to Jesus and/or Mother Mary…and don’t forget to spend a moment or two in thanksgiving afterward.
 
When I was being trained to be a Eucharistic Minister we were told a bit about the early Church by the (very orthodox) priest who was put in charge of our training. In the early Church, it seems, people used to regularly take pieces of the consecrated bread home to their loved ones who were too sick to come to Mass.
Yes, but in this line of reasoning you fail to realize that there were valid, theological, not to mention logical reasons why the early Church changed the practice from the hand to the tongue.
 
Have we forgotten that reception upon the tongue was actually an innovation as opposed to the Church’s longstanding Tradition.

The Church first received in the hands, then the tongue, and now hands again. Look into it for yourself, but don’t think we’re heathenously abandoning age-old tradition here!

A quote from the Holy Father’s book God Is Near Us:

In [Cyril of Jerusalem’s] catechetical homilies he tells the candidates for baptism what they should do at Communion. They should make a throne of their hands, laying the right upon the left to form a throne for the King, forming at the same time a cross. This symbolic gesture, so fine and so profound, is what concerns him: the hands of man form a cross, which becomes a throne, down into which the King inclines himself. The open, outstretched hand can thus become a sign of the way that a man offers himself to the Lord, opens his hands for him, that they may become an instrument of his presence and a throne of his mercies in this world."

Beautiful, no? Also, keep in mind that part of receiving on the tongue is based on the idea, “Well, with my hands I sin; I am not worthy to handle the Lord, so I shall do it alternately…” While this is a great demonstration of humility, it is logically flawed. First of all, what does one say before Communion? “Lord, I am not worthy to *receive *you…” Not “I am not worthy to touch or handle you” but “receive.” The Eucharist is distributed to the unworthy, who, at Christ’s command, are made ready for himself. The sins of the hands are many, but the sins of the tongue are more (read Jas. 3 for proof!). Thus, it is proper that we say we are unworthy to “receive” rather than merely “handle,” though both are true… but because the Eucharist is a gift–the ultimate grace–we may touch (and feel and welcome Our Lord) and may taste of his goodness (and fully receive him).

Understanding these things, hopefully it will become easier for you to feel confident in approaching the altar to handle and feel he who bore your sins. (What partner in a relationship doesn’t want to be touched, after all?)

Some things to think about…😉
 
i say amen, open my mouth, stick my tongue out a little past my lower lip, tilt my head upwards a little, raise my eyes up, and sometimes close them. then i wait to make sure his fingers are away from my mouth before closing. my hands are folded, but if there is someone assisting with the patten(?) under my chin, i lower them or flatten them on my chest so they’re not in the way.

i don’t kneel anymore when receiving because my bishop wants it that way in our diocese, at a novus ordo mass at least. i would prefer to kneel, but i see it as a sacrifice and i believe that would be being “poor in spirit” for the sake of others.
 
Have we forgotten that reception upon the tongue was actually an innovation as opposed to the Church’s longstanding Tradition.

The Church first received in the hands, then the tongue, and now hands again. Look into it for yourself, but don’t think we’re heathenously abandoning age-old tradition here!

A quote from the Holy Father’s book God Is Near Us:

In [Cyril of Jerusalem’s] catechetical homilies he tells the candidates for baptism what they should do at Communion. They should make a throne of their hands, laying the right upon the left to form a throne for the King, forming at the same time a cross. This symbolic gesture, so fine and so profound, is what concerns him: the hands of man form a cross, which becomes a throne, down into which the King inclines himself. The open, outstretched hand can thus become a sign of the way that a man offers himself to the Lord, opens his hands for him, that they may become an instrument of his presence and a throne of his mercies in this world."

Beautiful, no? Also, keep in mind that part of receiving on the tongue is based on the idea, “Well, with my hands I sin; I am not worthy to handle the Lord, so I shall do it alternately…” While this is a great demonstration of humility, it is logically flawed. First of all, what does one say before Communion? “Lord, I am not worthy to *receive *you…” Not “I am not worthy to touch or handle you” but “receive.” The Eucharist is distributed to the unworthy, who, at Christ’s command, are made ready for himself. The sins of the hands are many, but the sins of the tongue are more (read Jas. 3 for proof!). Thus, it is proper that we say we are unworthy to “receive” rather than merely “handle,” though both are true… but because the Eucharist is a gift–the ultimate grace–we may touch (and feel and welcome Our Lord) and may taste of his goodness (and fully receive him).

Understanding these things, hopefully it will become easier for you to feel confident in approaching the altar to handle and feel he who bore your sins. (What partner in a relationship doesn’t want to be touched, after all?)

Some things to think about…😉
Read the post directly above yours. Yes the practice was different in the early Church, but then they changed for very good reasons, reasons that were clearly ignored by Pope Paul VI.
 
Have we forgotten that reception upon the tongue was actually an innovation as opposed to the Church’s longstanding Tradition.

The Church first received in the hands, then the tongue, and now hands again. Look into it for yourself, but don’t think we’re heathenously abandoning age-old tradition here!

A quote from the Holy Father’s book God Is Near Us:

In [Cyril of Jerusalem’s] catechetical homilies he tells the candidates for baptism what they should do at Communion. They should make a throne of their hands, laying the right upon the left to form a throne for the King, forming at the same time a cross. This symbolic gesture, so fine and so profound, is what concerns him: the hands of man form a cross, which becomes a throne, down into which the King inclines himself. The open, outstretched hand can thus become a sign of the way that a man offers himself to the Lord, opens his hands for him, that they may become an instrument of his presence and a throne of his mercies in this world."

Beautiful, no? Also, keep in mind that part of receiving on the tongue is based on the idea, “Well, with my hands I sin; I am not worthy to handle the Lord, so I shall do it alternately…” While this is a great demonstration of humility, it is logically flawed. First of all, what does one say before Communion? “Lord, I am not worthy to *receive *you…” Not “I am not worthy to touch or handle you” but “receive.” The Eucharist is distributed to the unworthy, who, at Christ’s command, are made ready for himself. The sins of the hands are many, but the sins of the tongue are more (read Jas. 3 for proof!). Thus, it is proper that we say we are unworthy to “receive” rather than merely “handle,” though both are true… but because the Eucharist is a gift–the ultimate grace–we may touch (and feel and welcome Our Lord) and may taste of his goodness (and fully receive him).

Understanding these things, hopefully it will become easier for you to feel confident in approaching the altar to handle and feel he who bore your sins. (What partner in a relationship doesn’t want to be touched, after all?)

Some things to think about…😉
Also, please read post #103 forums.catholic-questions.org/showpost.php?p=2994223&postcount=103

which is five posts above yours. The article would have something to say regarding your presuppositions.
 
Gaudete Sunday will mark a year that I have received exclusively on the tongue. I have not found it more conducive to my state of reception nor less conducive, nor do I believe that it is inherently more reverent to receive on the tongue than in the hand (and I think everyone should be careful about making pronouncements that it is “wrong” to receive in the hand, since it is a discipline approved by the legitimate authority). Indeed, in my own sorrow state of sin, I find I offend against the Divine Majesty (and charity) far more with my tongue than I do with my hands. At any rate, I intend to continue to receive on the tongue as an act of reparation for the sad disunity that exists between Catholics. I recommend that we all concentrate on the state of our own souls when approaching the Most Sacred Body and the Most Precious Blood rather than on how others are recieving. The “right” way to receive Holy Communion is the way the Church permits you to receive it. If you’re receiving that way, then you’re OK.

To the OP: the only difficulty I’ve experienced is that sometimes EMHC’s seem a little confused. I assume they must be, though my eyes are closed, because there is a slight delay. I’ve never had any real problem, however, and I’ve never been questioned about it or corrected, nor have they fumbled it in such a way that the Most Sacred Body fell out of my mouth. My greatest initial difficulty was that I don’t really like anyone putting their hands in or near my mouth, but that passed, thankfully.
 
Gaudete Sunday will mark a year that I have received exclusively on the tongue. I have not found it more conducive to my state of reception nor less conducive, nor do I believe that it is inherently more reverent to receive on the tongue than in the hand (and I think everyone should be careful about making pronouncements that it is “wrong” to receive in the hand, since it is a discipline approved by the legitimate authority). Indeed, in my own sorrow state of sin, I find I offend against the Divine Majesty (and charity) far more with my tongue than I do with my hands. At any rate, I intend to continue to receive on the tongue as an act of reparation for the sad disunity that exists between Catholics. I recommend that we all concentrate on the state of our own souls when approaching the Most Sacred Body and the Most Precious Blood rather than on how others are recieving. The “right” way to receive Holy Communion is the way the Church permits you to receive it. If you’re receiving that way, then you’re OK.

To the OP: the only difficulty I’ve experienced is that sometimes EMHC’s seem a little confused. I assume they must be, though my eyes are closed, because there is a slight delay. I’ve never had any real problem, however, and I’ve never been questioned about it or corrected, nor have they fumbled it in such a way that the Most Sacred Body fell out of my mouth. My greatest initial difficulty was that I don’t really like anyone putting their hands in or near my mouth, but that passed, thankfully.
I think there is a much more pressing need in our church today and it is not about whether we recieve on our tongue or in our hand. God bless all those who go to communion. Unfortuneately the lines for the sacrament of reconcilliation are infinitely shorter than the lines for the Eucharist. Are we all saints or have we forgotten what sin is? We wash our hands before our meals in the secular world. Sadly we have stopped washing our souls in the infinite ocean of God’s mercy, the sacrament of reconcilliation.

Yes, the devil has convinced 8 out of 10 Catholics in North America that do not go to mass that this is not a sin. Over 50% of the faithful do not believe that taking the unborn child from its mother is a sin. An equal percentage of Catholics do not believe in the real presence. Yes , satan whispers in our ear: " These aren’t sins and we buy into his lies and the father of all lies, convinces us and have you noticed how short the lines to confession are?

We must win back souls for the devil is having a field day with the disunity, complacency and the disregard for the true teachings of our catholic and apostolic faith.

Alan
 
Interestingly, you mention the platen not being used. How true. - whether receiving on the tongue or in the hand (I prefer the old way) - the Host is still at risk of falling to the floor, perhaps even moreso if exchanging hands !

Makes you wonder, doesn’t it?

Conservative
 
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