Amen brother Amen…
The key in what you say is “praying within the Lord’s Will”, for truly that is what we need to seek. To conform ourselves to the Lord…to God for we are told that we need to be perfect (in Love) as our Heavenly Father is perfect. (Mt 5:48)
The more we conform to God’s will, the more our prayers will fit with His desires for us and the more likely that we will get precisely what we pray for.
Peace
James
Hmmmmm … again.
If I recall correctly, in the Diary of St. Faustina Our Lord tells Faustina that when we pray for the conversion of sinners (How could the conversion of sinners be anything other than God’s Holy Will?) it is a prayer that is always heard. Soooo… should we be able to assure ourselves that The Lord will ‘save’ the person we pray for?
Should we not be granted a degree of confidence (assurance) from heaven? ( A prayer that never fails

)
Of course the conundrum is that the conversion of any particular (or general for that matter) sinner is also contingent upon the will of the sinner.
Hmmmmmmmmm…
Yet the prayer is “heard”…yes? We do not choose God - He chooses us - right? So the sinner(s) we pray for
should be saved. Yes? How…
circular.
Hmmmmmm…
Like praying for a personal healing of own selves. I have known people to pray for years upon years to be healed. So **when **is the answer to a prayer for a self healing a “No?” Is it a “No” just because it has not happened (the healing) in say, 20 years?
Methinks not. Why? Because St. Paul prayed for a healing and did not stop until he
got an answer. A literal answer. A definite - “No” from heaven - not only a “No” but
also a reason as to why the answer is “No”.
Soooooooooooo… Methinks no prayer is wasted. At the very least it refines the person on some level or other while praying.
But the Big question for
me is … how can I pray with -what was it called(?) expectant Faith(?), with
confidence, if I
always have to add “if it is heaven’s will?” Of
course the conversion of sinners
is Heaven’s will - yes? At what point do I stop praying for a particular sinner and
actually rely on Heaven (confidence) to grant the prayer of the conversion of a sinner?
I
guess… I stop when I am actually** told **to stop, by
heaven - much like when St. Paul was told why he was not healed.
I just know that, in the battlefield of prayer, I am
also so very capable of mistaking ‘feelings’ for an answer from Heaven. Self delusion is a very scary thing.

All this confusion is compounded of course, by having grown up in the sixties…
Deeeeeeppp Sighhhhhhh…