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Alex337
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To save a child. Good man.Alex337:![]()
You realize that the priest risks hell for that, don’t you?I still think any priest who turns an abuser in is making a very fine sacrifice
To save a child. Good man.Alex337:![]()
You realize that the priest risks hell for that, don’t you?I still think any priest who turns an abuser in is making a very fine sacrifice
I think you may not have seen my future posts where I came down on the idea that a priest should have the same amount of privilege as a psychiatrist; if they believe the penitent is a risk to them self or others they should be able to speak.Alex337:![]()
It’s not the same thing at all. A priest can ENCOURAGE the person to turn himself in, but he cannot make turning oneself into the police the penance.I know when I confessed my priest told me to make amends to my parents to show actual contrition. Seems the same thing.
It’s basically the same reason why the priest cannot break the seal of confession
How old are you? I’ve read a few posts about what your Priest has said, and that sounds like something he would tell a child.yankeesouth:![]()
Well my priest always tells me to seek contrition with the wronged party. I’ve not broken the law but I suspect they would tell me to confess to that as well as part of my contrition. Otherwise I’m not contrite.So what other confessions should a priest break the seal for?
That would likely be because I’m recounting my conversations from when I was young. Since then I don’t often commit sins that would harm others. And when I do I try to be honest without encouragement from clergy.Alex337:![]()
How old are you? I’ve read a few posts about what your Priest has said, and that sounds like something he would tell a child.yankeesouth:![]()
Well my priest always tells me to seek contrition with the wronged party. I’ve not broken the law but I suspect they would tell me to confess to that as well as part of my contrition. Otherwise I’m not contrite.So what other confessions should a priest break the seal for?
Telling your family and friends that you are sorry for a sin you committed against them is EXTREALY different than a priest holding absolution for hostage only if you turn yourself into jail. When people go to prision, it doesn’t just affect the criminal, it also affects the family.
If a priest was allowed to hold absolution over someone’s head, it would be abused (though most likely unintentionally)
I think you may have missed the part where I said I thought a priest should have the same privilege a psychiatrist has; they need to report it if harm is going to happen again.Sorry seems I misunderstood what you wrote. People shouldn’t be avoiding confession for any other reason than not feeling sorry for their sins. If they’re avoiding for fear of civil authorities then something has gone horribly wrong with the Church.
But let’s say a priest has to report EVERY confession of sexual abuse, for instance. No matter how penitent the confessor is, he is reported to civil authorities. THAT is wrong, in my opinion. Would you agree with my statement that this is wrong?
Cool. I’ll always support the man who stops the murderer, rapist, torturer or paedophile more than the one who lets them do it though.Absolutely the priest should do nothing. To do otherwise would be to fall away from the faith. Canon law is very clear on what he can and cannot do. And he can’t do that.
No, you haven’t misunderstood. This has been a sub-theme of this thread.I’m fascinated by the focus on sexual abuse, too. Why would a priest only be bound to reveal that kind of law breaking? Why not robbery? Or murder? Have I mis-understood an emphasis somewhere?
Do you really think the right only brings up children when it doesn’t suit their purposes?JoyToTheWhirled:![]()
No, you haven’t misunderstood. This has been a sub-theme of this thread.I’m fascinated by the focus on sexual abuse, too. Why would a priest only be bound to reveal that kind of law breaking? Why not robbery? Or murder? Have I mis-understood an emphasis somewhere?
The focus on sexual abuse is just a product of the times.
Even the argument that this is about protecting children doesn’t hold water because there are other sins and crimes which damage children, which aren’t receiving a similar treatment. eg. drug taking, adultery (not now a crime, but has been in the past), pornography (ditto), parental neglect, perjury.
Many crimes can have a devestating effect on children. eg. white collar crimes which lead to poverty and unemployment, or permanent injury to children (thalidomide); perjury, where a parent ends up in jail.
As one poster mentioned, the left (and, I’m afraid this is from the left) only become precious about children when it suits there purpoises.
Most of our sins hurt other people in some way.
I honestly think that’s part of what I’ve been saying? I said earlier that if someone intends to sin then they’re not penitent.Actually going with how by you laid out the scenario, I think a penitent who asks for absolution for a crime that hasn’t yet been committed allows the priest to do something, because it’s not a valid confession.
Could be wrong though.
Cool. I disagree. They should totally try to save the person who would be murdered, tortured, raped, etc.If someone intends to commit or continue in sin and the priest knows this, the priest ought not absolve the sin. However, the Seal still holds.