I’m going to start with the most important thing first. First is to determine if you have any unconfessed mortal sin in your life. How do you determine that?
“For a sin to be mortal, three conditions must together be met: ‘Mortal sin is sin whose object is grave matter and which is also committed with full knowledge and deliberate consent.’” (CCC 1857)
For example, if you know it’s wrong to rob a bank but you go out and rob a bank, that’s a mortal sin. BUT if you know it’s wrong to rob a bank and someone puts a gun to your head and MAKES you rob a bank, it’s not a mortal sin.
If you determine you do have unconfessed mortal sin in your life, please, I beg you, do not receive Communion until you have been to confession. To receive when not in a state of grace (with unconfessed mortal sin) is to commit the sin of sacriledge, which is a mortal sin.
Second, begin to learn your faith. Start small. At
flocknote.com you can sign up to receive daily readings of the Catechism by email. They take less than 5 minutes to read. Reading the Catechism is kind of like reading a “how to” book. It’s the descriptions of not just what the Church teaches, but also why. Do the daily readings listed in the church bulletin. Again, it only takes about 5 minutes to read. Think especially about what you read in the Gospel. The Gospel readings introduce you to Jesus.
Say a prayer. If you are comfortable praying a decade of the rosary, that’s a good place to start. Just type “the rosary” in your search box and you can pick any one of a dozen sites that will lead you through it. Again, about 5 minutes of your time.
Before you go to bed at night, and any other time during the day, just simply say, “I love you, God.” Or, “I love you, Jesus.”
It’s not about doing a bunch of stuff, (though I’ve listed a bunch of stuff) it’s about building a relationship with Jesus. The deeper you love him, the more you will want to know him, and the more you know him, the deeper you love him. That’s why the New Evangelization. To help people know and love Jesus. With all of their heart, all of their soul, all of their mind and all of their strength.
May we all reach the point where everything is only all about Jesus.
Kris