The only thing I will say about the “Christian” remarks is how humorous is the irony of condemning a guest for not being a christian.
You are not condemned, alaris. Just the heresies that have been espoused. It is not true love to confirm anyone in error.
It may not be possible for any Catholic to have a dialogue with you about the Angel of the Lord. This is because we have such a divergent frame of reference. The Catholic understanding of angels, people, and God have come from the Apostles, not the Book of Mormon. Since there is such a wide gap between what Mormons accept as doctrine, and what the Apostles believed and taught, there is little foundation upon which a productive dialogue can be built.
There are times when hospitality is important, but there are equally times when closing the door is appropriate.
Galatians 1:8 But even if we, or an angel from heaven, should preach to you a gospel contrary to that which we preached to you, let him be accursed.
Galatians 1:9 As we have said before, so now I say again, If any one is preaching to you a gospel contrary to that which you received, let him be accursed.
You see, Catholics understand the Mormon “gospel” as different than what was handed down to us from the Apostles.
We are bound by the Apostolic command:
2 John 1:10 If any one comes to you and does not bring this doctrine, do not receive him into the house or give him any greeting;
I realize a slammed door may seem “rude” by today’s politically correct manners, but the Apostles do not want us to fall into the way of heresies. To receive a person who espouses and tries to spread them is very dangerous.
And what a silly way to engage a fellow christian for we are defined by following the teachings of Jesus Christ and not in how we understand His personage.
No, Catholics see no distinction between the person of Jesus, and the teachings of Jesus.
There is so much common ground to be built upon! And I truly believe God would have us find that rather than contend over differences!
I agree that it is not productive to contend over our differences (which is why the doors get closed). Instead, we are contend for the Faith:
Jude 1:3 Beloved, being very eager to write to you of our common salvation, I found it necessary to write appealing to you to contend for the faith which was once for all delivered to the saints.
Catholics accept this Apostolic teaching that the public revelation of God was delivered “once for all” to the saints. There is no further public revelation (such as the Book of Mormon).