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Thank you, I didn’t know that.If you are referring to holding hands during the Our Father, the Church discourages this practice.
I should have mentioned the Kiss of Peace (handshake, but some hug).
Thank you, I didn’t know that.If you are referring to holding hands during the Our Father, the Church discourages this practice.
Okay that makes it easy haha! Which version of the Bible do you guys use when you read the Bible on your own?
I downloaded the Ignatius Press/Lighthouse Media Bible App onto my phone and use that.It seems like the douay-rheims is popular? I think the New American Bible might be what I will use. I really like the NIV version, so something similar would be best. Reading my Bible is really important to me, so it might seem weird to me if a lot of other people don’t read their Bibles on their own, but I like the idea of the entire Bible being read every 3 years in mass. The churches I’ve gone to pick and choose random verses each week, so even though I read my Bible a lot, I think there are still a lot of passages I have never read.
That’s awesome! God bless you and your journey!I did end up going to mass today and absolutely loved it! It was pretty small since it was a Monday mass and also on a holiday, but it felt completely right to me. I have really felt God leading me in that direction and I felt like I had such a strong connection with God today while I was in mass. I’m probably going to keep going to mass for a couple more months and get used to it, and then I will look into finding an RCIA class. I’m really excited to keep going to mass and learn more about Catholicism.
But…but…but…**Right–we don’t use Bibles during Mass. ** Which is probably where the stereotype that Catholics don’t read the Bible comes from.![]()
May God bless you in your search.I did end up going to mass today and absolutely loved it! It was pretty small since it was a Monday mass and also on a holiday, but it felt completely right to me. I have really felt God leading me in that direction and I felt like I had such a strong connection with God today while I was in mass. I’m probably going to keep going to mass for a couple more months and get used to it, and then I will look into finding an RCIA class. I’m really excited to keep going to mass and learn more about Catholicism.
I am so happy for you.I did end up going to mass today and absolutely loved it! It was pretty small since it was a Monday mass and also on a holiday, but it felt completely right to me. I have really felt God leading me in that direction and I felt like I had such a strong connection with God today while I was in mass. I’m probably going to keep going to mass for a couple more months and get used to it, and then I will look into finding an RCIA class. I’m really excited to keep going to mass and learn more about Catholicism.
Holding Hands is Liturgical incorrect, this practise has not been discussed nor agreed upon from the Commission of Liturgy and Worship in Rome, by doing this gesture not approved you are bringing into Mass your own thing, In one Church I was at during Mass some woman grabbed my hand for “The Our Father” I took my hand back and told her not to be doing something that is not approved. We are meant to be Glorifying God during Mass we are not at a party holding hands and doing a sing along.If you are referring to holding hands during the Our Father, the Church discourages this practice.
But, does it glorify God to hurt someone’s feelings? And what if that person doesn’t know any better? This practice has been going on for 35 or 40 years! For some people it has been done all their lives. To suddenly tell the person next to you that it is not approved and take your hand back will certainly make them feel rebuffed and rebuked when they see everyone else doing it. It is up to the priest to tell the entire parish not to do it. I remember years ago, priests encouraged us to hold hands. I don’t think it is possible to clear up decades of being mislead but rudely taking your hand away when someone goes to hold it. All that does is make the other person sad. And do you even know what kind of hardship and rejection your neighbor has felt that week that your action may have touched?Holding Hands is Liturgical incorrect, this practise has not been discussed nor agreed upon from the Commission of Liturgy and Worship in Rome, by doing this gesture not approved you are bringing into Mass your own thing, In one Church I was at during Mass some woman grabbed my hand for “The Our Father” I took my hand back and told her not to be doing something that is not approved. We are meant to be Glorifying God during Mass we are not at a party holding hands and doing a sing along.
I don’t know how to get around that. Once at a retreat I attended one was chosen over another to do the readings for the day’s Mass. For the rest of the day they didn’t speak to each other. One asks someone else to dance, and another one gets offended. Maybe each of us should pray that others respect our decisions and not to expect too much? Grabbing someone’s hand without his/her consent is an invasion of space so let’s not sugarcoat it by saying something to the effect that “we always do it.”But, does it glorify God to hurt someone’s feelings?
Of course. And there are some 23 rites to select from in different languages. One can learn about different cultures within the Church as well.Okay everybody, I have another question. Do people ever go to mass more than once a week? Would it be okay if I went 3-4 times in a week? I feel like the more I go, the more I will get used to it and learn more about Catholicism.
You’re getting more into this than most lifelong Catholics do.Okay, I will definitely go more than once a week then. What are rites? I hardly know anything about Catholic terminology so far.