NFP and contraception

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I also have to wonder that if a cheap, simple test were to come out that told a woman with a 100% accuracy level that she was not fertile, making NFP 100% accurate, cheap and easy(while greatly extending the window during which relations would be possible) and if 95% of women started using it like they do with ABC, would the Church still condone it? I highly doubt it.

The “virtue” of NFP is largely based on the extended periods of abstinence and its failure rate with average use. If it were much simpler, much less restrictive and much more effective for the average user, I think the Church would start to have a real problem with it and maybe come out and say that while we can chart mucous, we cannot use OPKS or other scientific tools to predict ovulation. Just speculation on my part though. As the science of this becomes ever more accurate, we will see.
 
Also, let’s say we have one of these women who has untreatable miscarriages and she decides to stop trying for pregnancy because of the emotional toll of multiple miscarriages. Wouldn’t NFP be the WORST possible choice morally speaking, considering the 22% greater chance she would have of embryonic abortion/miscarriage? Or is it just A.O.K. because it’s NFP?
 
Abu, if you read the data of the study, it states that there is a 1.8% higher chance of a woman miscarrying when she conceived at a non-optimal time (i.e.) using NFP. women who had experienced miscarriages before were 22% more likely to miscarry.
I don’t have time to read the study, but just wondering, what is defined as miscarriage in it?

I know it might sound as a strange question, but maybe study doesn’t accept the idea that life begins at conception, meaning it doesn’t count fertilized eggs as living beings if implantation did not occur.
 
I don’t have time to read the study, but just wondering, what is defined as miscarriage in it?

I know it might sound as a strange question, but maybe study doesn’t accept the idea that life begins at conception, meaning it doesn’t count fertilized eggs as living beings if implantation did not occur.
Good point. Since a pregnancy would not be detected before implantation without the use of ultrasounds, I’m guessingthat this study refers to fertilized eggs that had already implanted. It would be interesting to see how many failed to implant altogether if any and if the chances of this were also increased. They haven’t yet measured failure to implant rates with the pill either.
 
Also, I wanted to clarify an error. Among women who had had miscarriages, 7% miscarried when their pregnancy occurred at the optimal time vs. 22% during the fringes of fertility, a 15% increased chance of miscarriage/abortion through accidental conception due to a failure NFP, not 22%.
 
Good point. Since a pregnancy would not be detected before implantation without the use of ultrasounds, I’m guessingthat this study refers to fertilized eggs that had already implanted. It would be interesting to see how many failed to implant altogether if any and if the chances of this were also increased. They haven’t yet measured failure to implant rates with the pill either.
Pretty tricky stuff, huh? 🙂
 
This poster seems blissfully unaware that God has provided the infertile period; he is assuming that God doesn’t know what He is doing, implying that God didn’t know what He was doing in creating human nature, and implying that He didn’t know what He was doing in giving His Church His authority to teach infallibly on faith and morals.
Lots of misguided assumptions here.

The person quoting this is blissfully unaware that God provided us many things. One of those things is the ability to masturbate. According to your reasoning, that would be acceptable, otherwise God wouldn’t know what he was doing.

Do you really believe God provided women with an infertile period so that pregnancy can be avoided? Even the Church doesn’t believe that.
As sacredcello aptly made clear (post #792):
The data is grossly misrepresented in that article. Here are the conclusions in the abstract of the study:
CONCLUSIONS: Overall, there is no excess risk of spontaneous abortion among the pregnancies conceived during natural family planning use. However, among women with a history of pregnancy loss, there is an increased risk of spontaneous abortion associated with preovulatory or postovulatory delayed conceptions.
“Again, more information is better. If couples have one or more miscarriages, they can receive medical care to correct the problem. Even if they are trying to avoid a pregnancy, their medical treatments can improve their health (improve PMS symptoms, etc) as well as avoid the recurrence of another miscarriage.”
Your repeating something we all know. Is your point that there can only be one conclusion per study, and that all other conclusions are invalid, as well as the data it is based upon?

This is a truly preposterous proposition. I’m just stating something blatantly obvious from the dataset. And, in fact, given the belief system of the person doing the study, there is a tendency to bias against this conclusion, yet the data supports it anyway. This is so blatantly obvious that the only reason you wouldn’t be able to see it is that you don’t want to see it.
Christ’s Church has been empowered to define truths of faith and morals and thus to condemn contraception, and encourages science to discover the laws of God’s Creation.
One thing that obvious about the Church is they are generally carefully how they word things, and don’t ignore the obvious. You take a different approach.
 
Sorry- even if Augustine was referring generally about worldly things, the topic De Sales discusses is marital sexuality and nothing else. The context is very evident.
But even though he is talking about marital sexuality, St. Augustine’s original intent must still be understood. Marital sexuality, like other worldly things, cannot easily be distinguished between its use and its enjoyment. Someone could be “using” intercourse (for procreation only) and still enjoy it every time. My original position still stands.
This is fine, but people using NFP to space children are using the infertile period per se which is the crux of the matter why De Sales wouldn’t approve the practice.
To speculate on whether St. Francis de Sales would have approve NFP is useless. We simply don’t know as it did not exist in his time. He may have, but he may have not. I bet, however that he probably would have given the fact that the Church teaches it and St. Francis was a devout follower of the Magisterium. But of course it’s all irrelevant and something we won’t know (We’d be debating forever on something that can never be established).

I think it’s important to refresh ourselves of your original assertion (the true crux of the matter) and let us not lose sight of it. You originally stated that St. Augustine believed sex was solely for procreation and that the Church taught that up until the 1800’s. While I did not doubt that St. Augustine taught thus, I did doubt whether your belief that it was Church teaching was correct. At least St. Francis and St. Thomas taught differently and I know the latter would certainly not have dismissed anything the Fathers said if it really were a matter of doctrine.

That St. Francis de Sales is telling his audience that it’s okay (even holy) to have intercourse when it is known that the woman will not be able to conceive is a big step in favor of NFP, though it’s not exactly it. What he is obviously suggesting is that procreation is NOT the sole purpose of marriage of intercourse. In fact, he says explicitly that it is the “first” and “primary” end which indicates other ends as well. That in itself contradicts your original assertion that the Church has taught universally from its beginning to the mid-1800s
that sex was solely for procreation.
This is not false, but the main question is whether De Sales would call pregnant woman “sterile”. While she can’t beget a child during pregnancy, fertility is still part of her being.
The main idea is that St. Francis is saying that even when you know you can’t conceive, the marital act is still holy provided it be done in a certain way. That is the reason I posted the quote. It is clearly against your idea that sex is for procreation only.
For the purpose of augustinian “Marital debt”, ie. lowering the sexual tension.
You have established that St. Augustine believed, based on influence from sophism, that the “marital debt” was for procreation only. If that is true, couples in which the woman is barren cannot participate in the marital act without sin. If, however, you are now establishing that he taught otherwise, you would be contradicting your original premise. And if that is the case with couples where the woman happens to be barren, why is it not also the case where neither of the person in the couple are barren?
Only if the act occurs during infertile period because of “lack of control”. But seeking act during infertility specifically because it would be infertile is attempt to ejaculate without chance of generation.
Clearly in the case of a couple where the woman is either pregnant or sterile, having intercourse is without chance of generation and deliberate (they are fully aware that generation cannot result). But both St. Thomas and St. Francis say that it is not sinful in those cases. Neither of them adds a conditional clause that the couple must be “lacking in control” (I’m not sure what you mean exactly). That is something of your invention. :confused:

Your original assertion was that those couples that are having relations deliberately at times when they are infertile are sinning according to Church teaching prior to the mid-1800s. I have shown you that at least St. Thomas and St. Francis taught differently. Now you’re saying that they (St. Thomas and St. Francis included) taught that those couples that are having relations deliberately at times when they are infertile specifically because it is an infertile time are sinning according to past Church teaching. I will only say that they never said that. You are only trying to fill the gap between what they are saying and what you are asserting and as such you are claiming they are saying things they never said.
 
This will probably go to broaded discussion, but let’s try…
It is possible to say fertility is essential to woman, and sterility is accidental, since woman are by their nature fertile. In case of sterility, fertility still exists as essentiality of woman, but is voided by accident. (“Fertility is still there, but something happened to it.”)
This is important because it makes fertility cycle specific. The infertile period does not make woman “sterile”, it is part of her being fertile.
But since infertile period is essential for healthy natural fertility cycle, she doesn’t have to be fertile all the time. As a matter of fact, woman with non-stop fertility would be so only in case of accident.
As I said, one needs to see whether fertility was seen essential to womanhood. If you would take the fertility from a woman, she would still be woman, because *accident * took the fertility, not her nature.
I am going to end this discussion on essences and accidents because I want to focus on the crux of the matter at hand here: whether or not St. Francis and St. Thomas (who lived before the 1800s) taught that sex was for procreation only and whether they taught that sex during times when one knows one is infertile is sinful (these are things that you claimed were taught at the start of our discussion). I think it’s time to focus only on what is actually written and put to an end to speculations on what the writers might have believed (which are useless).
 
But even though he is talking about marital sexuality, St. Augustine’s original intent must still be understood. Marital sexuality, like other worldly things, cannot easily be distinguished between its use and its enjoyment.
However, in Augustine’s view, the procreation is easily distinguished as the only natural use of intercourse, while enjoyment is simply present. It is not even secondary end.
He may have, but he may have not. I bet, however that he probably would have given the fact that the Church teaches it and St. Francis was a devout follower of the Magisterium.
This is that tricky part of the discussion. If I am right, and Church mainstream taught up to 1800s that sex should be practiced only for procreation, it will be difficult to explain how Magisterium “works”. I mean, bishops of today would probably have a hard time explaining how this teaching fits in their theology of hierarchy.
I think it’s important to refresh ourselves of your original assertion (the true crux of the matter) and let us not lose sight of it. You originally stated that St. Augustine believed sex was solely for procreation and that the Church taught that up until the 1800’s. While I did not doubt that St. Augustine taught thus, I did doubt whether your belief that it was Church teaching was correct. At least St. Francis and St. Thomas taught differently and I know the latter would certainly not have dismissed anything the Fathers said if it really were a matter of doctrine.
So far I offered two quotes of St. Francis which suggest his belief was indeed so. Thomas, as I have stated long ago, is somewhat on his own on certain things.
That St. Francis de Sales is telling his audience that it’s okay (even holy) to have intercourse when it is known that the woman will not be able to conceive is a big step in favor of NFP, though it’s not exactly it. What he is obviously suggesting is that procreation is NOT the sole purpose of marriage of intercourse.
But this is following Augustine, who also approved of infertile sex in case of martial debt, which was still seen as excess and venial fault.

The procreation IS the sole purpose, while others are tolerated.
In fact, he says explicitly that it is the “first” and “primary” end which indicates other ends as well. That in itself contradicts your original assertion that the Church has taught universally from its beginning to the mid-1800s
that sex was solely for procreation.
Take into account, he speaks of procreation as primary end of marriage, not of marital intercourse. This is the usual misinterpretation. Marriage and marital sexuality are not the same thing. Marriage, for stoic, has blessings of procreation, mutual aid and sacrament. But sexuality has only procreation end, while it’s unity is mainly in “helping in the burden of lust”.
The main idea is that St. Francis is saying that even when you know you can’t conceive, the marital act is still holy provided it be done in a certain way. That is the reason I posted the quote. It is clearly against your idea that sex is for procreation only.
Once again, sex is only for procreation, while other uses are simply tolerated. They are practiced against the nature of sexuality, but their practice doesn’t change the sacredness of act.
YIf, however, you are now establishing that he taught otherwise, you would be contradicting your original premise. And if that is the case with couples where the woman happens to be barren, why is it not also the case where neither of the person in the couple are barren?
You got me wrong. Sex for procreation and sex for marital debt are two separate cases. First is without fault. Second is venial sin, because it is done to satisfy lust, which according to Augustine didn’t exist prior to Fall of man.

Augustine said sex for procreation is the only natural way of doing it, while the other case is merely tolerated. This is why barren couple can have sex- their act is wrong, but tolerated.

Case of a couple which is not sterile… they can have sex on infertile day if they simply can’t control themselves. And since you can’t chart days you will lose control, the use of technique would literally be “how to have infertile sex between two fertile people”.
Clearly in the case of a couple where the woman is either pregnant or sterile, having intercourse is without chance of generation and deliberate (they are fully aware that generation cannot result). But both St. Thomas and St. Francis say that it is not sinful in those cases. Neither of them adds a conditional clause that the couple must be “lacking in control” (I’m not sure what you mean exactly). That is something of your invention. :confused:
By lack of control, I meant what Augustine said about marital debt. If one spouse can’t control his desire, he can preform an act with the other- **no matter the fertility.
**. There is venial fault, however.

The bold part is important. Act with sterile woman is fine if you simply have the moment of weakness. But having sex on the day of infertility because conception is not expected is not the same case. Such act is not done because of weakness, but of desire to have unprocreative sex.

The final answer is that St. Thomas and St. Francis simply tolerate sex between sterile partners. But to them, a woman in infertile period is not sterile, since *infertility *is part of fertile circle. To have sex on infertile day because of marital debt is tolerated. To have sex on purpose because of infertility, is an attempt to ejaculate without chance of generation.
 
I am going to end this discussion on essences and accidents because I want to focus on the crux of the matter at hand here: whether or not St. Francis and St. Thomas (who lived before the 1800s) taught that sex was for procreation only and whether they taught that sex during times when one knows one is infertile is sinful (these are things that you claimed were taught at the start of our discussion). I think it’s time to focus only on what is actually written and put to an end to speculations on what the writers might have believed (which are useless).
I agree, as long as we don’t cherrypick.

If St. Francis in chapter on sex stresses how Augustine said material things are to be practiced because of their use, and not because of the enjoyment they provide… and if the only moral use of Augustine in sex is procreation… then you don’t need St. Francis talking about infertile period to conclude his view on NFP.
 
However, in Augustine’s view, the procreation is easily distinguished as the only natural use of intercourse, while enjoyment is simply present. It is not even secondary end.
But the point is that the quote that he takes from St. Augustine is not talking about procreation specifically, but worldly things in general. It is St. Francis who takes it and applies it to sexuality specifically. Therefore, St. Augustine’s idea about worldly things must be taken and applied to sexuality, his personal views regarding sexuality notwithstanding, since the quote is not about sexuality.
This is that tricky part of the discussion. If I am right, and Church mainstream taught up to 1800s that sex should be practiced only for procreation, it will be difficult to explain how Magisterium “works”. I mean, bishops of today would probably have a hard time explaining how this teaching fits in their theology of hierarchy.
I am probably with you on this one that a lot of people in the Church did teach that sex is only for procreation (I can’t be certain). However, not all held the view and it was not considered a matter doctrine. If it had been, it is doubtful that the bishop would have petitioned the Holy See on the matter to begin with.
So far I offered two quotes of St. Francis which suggest his belief was indeed so. Thomas, as I have stated long ago, is somewhat on his own on certain things.
And to one of them, I responded that even if one intended to procreate every time they had intercourse, they could still be having sex excessively. On the other hand, a couple that does not intend to procreate every time may not be having intercourse as much. Essentially what I’m saying is that one can be having intercourse excessively regardless of intent. It is difficult to know what St. Francis meant by excess without a mean to compare.
But this is following Augustine, who also approved of infertile sex in case of martial debt, which was still seen as excess and venial fault.
The procreation IS the sole purpose, while others are tolerated.
But the idea here is that St. Francis is saying that it’s NOT a sin. Hence he says that, “In these occurrences corporal commerce does not cease to be just and holy, provided the rules of generation are followed.” Whereas St. Augustine would say as you have said that that would be a case of venial sin.
Take into account, he speaks of procreation as primary end of marriage, not of marital intercourse. This is the usual misinterpretation. Marriage and marital sexuality are not the same thing. Marriage, for stoic, has blessings of procreation, mutual aid and sacrament. But sexuality has only procreation end, while it’s unity is mainly in “helping in the burden of lust”.
St. Francis was not as influenced by stoicism as St. Augustine was. It should also be understood that in this context the purposes of marriage and the marital act are seen to be synonymous. If you read through the paragraph, he makes no distinction.
Once again, sex is only for procreation, while other uses are simply tolerated. They are practiced against the nature of sexuality, but their practice doesn’t change the sacredness of act.
But for St. Francis sex is not only for procreation (I’ve been trying to say that this whole time :p). In the same chapter St. Francis uses the example of eating and food to express his idea of sex. Here is what he says:
"1. Eating is directed to the preservation of life. Eating, simply for the nourishment and preservation of life, is good, holy and recommended. So too acts required for the generation children and the multiplication of persons in marriage are good and very holy, since this is the principal purpose of marriage. *[Here he establishes the procreative purpose of intercourse, which we both agree on. I don’t need to say much about it.]
  1. To eat not only for preserving life but also for promoting fellowship and sociability, which we must have for one another, is something very just and honest. In the same way, the mutual and lawful satisfaction of the husband and the wife in marriage is called marital duty (1 Cor. 7:3) by St.Paul. But it is so great a duty that he does not wish one of them to abstain from it without the free and voluntary consent of the other, not even for the sake of the exercise of devotion (1 Cor. 7:5). It made me give the advice mentioned in the chapter on Holy Communion on this subject. (153) How much less, then, can they abstain from it for a whimsical show of virtue or due to anger and contempt! "** [Here, on the other hand, he establishes the unitive* purpose of intercourse. And in just the same way as with eating, he says that marital intercourse is for promoting fellowship and sociability between the two married persons. He even go so far as to call it very just and honest. That hardly sounds like something being merely permitted]
You got me wrong. Sex for procreation and sex for marital debt are two separate cases. First is without fault. Second is venial sin, because it is done to satisfy lust, which according to Augustine didn’t exist prior to Fall of man.
Understood now. But as shown above, for St. Francis de Sales that is not the case. He even goes so far as to say it is very just and honest. St. Francis sees this satisfaction as so important that there are few excuses for denying ones partner it.
 
Augustine said sex for procreation is the only natural way of doing it, while the other case is merely tolerated. This is why barren couple can have sex- their act is wrong, but tolerated.
Thank you for clarifying. But I hope you can now see that while it is wrong for St. Augustine, but not so for St. Thomas and St. Francis. And I would really pay attention to the former, a studious follower of St. Augustine. If the point of contention was indeed a matter of doctrine, St. Thomas surely would not have departed from it.
Case of a couple which is not sterile… they can have sex on infertile day if they simply can’t control themselves. And since you can’t chart days you will lose control, the use of technique would literally be “how to have infertile sex between two fertile people”.
I have established a response of this above.
By lack of control, I meant what Augustine said about marital debt. If one spouse can’t control his desire, he can preform an act with the other- **no matter the fertility.
**. There is venial fault, however.
Thank you for clarifying. But you are transferring St. Augustine’s opinions to St. Francis de Sales and St. Thomas Aquinas who I have said no such thing. In fact, the quote above from St. Francis shows an opposing view on the matter. To St. Francis, the rendering of the marital debt is such a lawful obligation that neither anger or even a desire for virtue can release a person from it.
The bold part is important. Act with sterile woman is fine if you simply have the moment of weakness. But having sex on the day of infertility because conception is not expected is not the same case. Such act is not done because of weakness, but of desire to have unprocreative sex.
The final answer is that St. Thomas and St. Francis simply tolerate sex between sterile partners. But to them, a woman in infertile period is not sterile, since *infertility *is part of fertile circle. To have sex on infertile day because of marital debt is tolerated. To have sex on purpose because of infertility, is an attempt to ejaculate without chance of generation.
But I have tried to establish otherwise. St. Thomas in his Summa Contra Gentiles says that intercourse between two barren persons is NOT a sin. In his Summa Theologica he says that it is lawful for two infertile persons to have marriage. That is more than mere toleration. On the other hand, I hope that the quote from St. Francis above will show that he is no mere Augustinian on the matter. His attitude is quite different, as must have been quite a few theologians.
 
I agree, as long as we don’t cherrypick.

If St. Francis in chapter on sex stresses how Augustine said material things are to be practiced because of their use, and not because of the enjoyment they provide… and if the only moral use of Augustine in sex is procreation… then you don’t need St. Francis talking about infertile period to conclude his view on NFP.
I agree. No cherrypicking.

That said, St. Francis’ idea of the purposes of marital intercourse is something in dispute right now. Of course, no one is saying that having intercourse merely for pleasure is ever right. Such a purpose would reduce the partakers to sexual objects. However, intercourse does have pleasure and to say that someone should not enjoy it is asking for the impossible, much like in my comparison with video games. But yes, I do agree that intercourse merely for pleasure is wrong. However, if there are other uses for intercourse (a unitive purpose for example), then saying then it is still incorrect to say that having intercourse without a procreative intent is merely for pleasure. I am sure many married couples would disagree with you and with the quote above, it seems St. Francis does, too.
 
Warrior1979, #821
God provided us many things. One of those things is the ability to masturbate. According to your reasoning, that would be acceptable, otherwise God wouldn’t know what he was doing.
Farcical – we can murder, as Cain did to Abel – what an oxymoronic choice. Ever heard of the Fall and Original Sin? The natural law still exists, from the beginning. Ever heard of do good and avoid evil?
Do you really believe God provided women with an infertile period so that pregnancy can be avoided? Even the Church doesn’t believe that.
As the Church teaches precisely that the infertile period may be used for serious reasons, even solely if justified, it is essential to know what the Church actually teaches.

Post # 390:
The first time Rome spoke on the matter was as long ago as 1853, Pope Pius IX, when the Sacred Penitentiary answered a dubium (a formal request for an official clarification) submitted by the Bishop of Amiens, France. He asked, “Should those spouses be reprehended who make use of marriage only on those days when (in the opinion of some doctors) conception is impossible?”
The reply was, “After mature examination, we have decided that such spouses should not be disturbed [or disquieted], provided they do nothing that impedes generation.” (Non esse inquietandos illos de quibus in precibus, dummodo nihil agant per quod conceptio impediatur”).
[cmri.org/03-nfp.htm]](http://www.cmri.org/03-nfp.htm])
 
Chrono13,

So would you also say that in Church history or tradition it was not sinful to remove the unitive aspect of sex as long as the procreate aspect was there?
 
LaSainte, #814
Would this make condoms the more moral choice of the three? It would if the concern is actually to prevent the death/miscarriage/abortion of embryos.
#815 If it were much simpler, much less restrictive and much more effective for the average user, I think the Church would start to have a real problem with it and maybe come out and say that while we can chart mucous, we cannot use OPKS or other scientific tools to predict ovulation. Just speculation on my part though.
Useless speculation against the natural law, which the infallible doctrine against contraception upholds.
Chrono13, #810
Fathers believed offspring was the only (not main) purpose of sex in marriage.
It would be difficult to prove that “natural law” of the past is the one we use today in defending our ethics.
False.
It is Christ’s Catholic Church through Her Sacred Scriptures, especially in Genesis 38, with God killing Onan, St Paul in his Epistles to the Ephesians, the Colossians and to Titus, Her Fathers and Doctors, Her Tradition and Her Magisterium which has raised marriage to the height of a sacrament from the beginning and protected the sanctity of the marital union from the errors of the Manicheans, the Stoics, from abortion and contraception and every other perversion of reason and faith.

St Augustine’s opposition to the Stoics is clear:
“The system of Pelagius can today be better understood than heretofore. Pelagius doubtless denied original sin, and the immortality and integrity of Adam; in a word, the whole supernatural order. But the parent idea of his system, which was of stoic origin, was nothing else than the complete ‘emancipation’ of human liberty with regard to God, and its limitless power for good and for evil. It depended on man to attain by himself, without the grace of God, a stoic impeccability and even insensibility, or the absolute control of his passions."
newadvent.org/cathen/02091a.htm

To get a realistic understanding of St Augustine, to counter the speculation, the excerpts below are from a study by a priest of the Opus Dei Prelature, a judge of the Roman Rota (the High Court of the Church), who was teaching at the Roman University of the Holy Cross.

SAINT AUGUSTINE AND CONJUGAL SEXUALITY
By Monsignor Cormac Burke

churchinhistory.org/pages/booklets/augustine.htm

“Augustine is conscious not only of the procreative ordering of marriage, but also of its unitive value.

“It may well be that earlier in the twentieth century Christians needed to shake off a certain Puritanism in sexual matters, although it should be said that this was a particularly Protestant problem. In any case, it is scarcely the problem facing us today.

“In this context, it is interesting to recall how Augustine had first to defend marriage and sexuality against the Manichean tendency to treat them with contempt or hatred, and later had to continue to defend them against the Pelagian tendency to treat them as if there were nothing delicate or problematic about them.

“Insofar as Puritanism or Jansenism contained some semi-Manichean elements, we have moved away from them. Augustine’s firmly held, middle-of-the-road position can warn us of the dangers coming from a neo-Pelagianism, with its false suggestion that nothing is wrong with sex, that there is nothing needing control in sex.”
 
Farcical – we can murder, as Cain did to Abel – what an oxymoronic choice. Ever heard of the Fall and Original Sin? The natural law still exists, from the beginning. Ever heard of do good and avoid evil?
So it has nothing to do with God provided as you claimed, but rather what man does with it.
As the Church teaches precisely that the infertile period may be used for serious reasons, even solely if justified, it is essential to know what the Church actually teaches.
So it wasn’t provided to avoid having children as you implied, and can be only used for serious reasons.

I also noted that you carefully avoided the other part of the conversation…so did the doctor that provided the data. The truth sometimes hurts, especially when it leads to conclusions we are uncomfortable with. I doubt you’ll address it, but rather repeat the Church’s position on NFP (which doesn’t address the issue). Hence the issue doesn’t go away.
 
So is the position most of you are taking here that because NFP is condoned by the Church, an increase in miscarriages/abortions is acceptable, even if another method of ABC results in fewer miscarriages?

My mom has a friend who had many, many miscarriages due to an incompetent cervix and other conditions. She was eventually able to carry 4 children to term, and did not want any more for various reasons, including the fact that she could not afford to be on total bed rest for he last 4 months of her pregnancies with 4 children to take care of. So for her, NFP, with its resulting 15% increased chance of miscarriages if it failed is completely acceptable and condoms or sterilization is not, correct?

So what we are saying is that the METHOD, not the results or chances of miscarriages/abortions is of utmost importance re: NFP, correct?

Then why even bother using the “pill as an abortaficient” argument anyway? Clearly it doesn’t make a difference as long as the method is Church approved, right?

Is there a threshold at which point loss of life would ever justify use of ABC? The mother’s life is not enough, and now we see that loss of embryonic life is not the concern here either. So again, it’s not about saving lives (be it of he mother or the unborn), it’s the same old “semen in the vagina with no obstructions” argument.

I’m sorry, but I just don’t get it.
 
So is the position most of you are taking here that because NFP is condoned by the Church, an increase in miscarriages/abortions is acceptable, even if another method of ABC results in fewer miscarriages?
As near as I can tell, this is not the position of most.

As correlation does not imply causation, the miscarriage data is a red herring designed to deflect the truth.
My mom has a friend who had many, many miscarriages due to an incompetent cervix and other conditions. She was eventually able to carry 4 children to term, and did not want any more for various reasons, including the fact that she could not afford to be on total bed rest for he last 4 months of her pregnancies with 4 children to take care of. So for her, NFP, with its resulting 15% increased chance of miscarriages if it failed is completely acceptable and condoms or sterilization is not, correct?

So what we are saying is that the METHOD, not the results or chances of miscarriages/abortions is of utmost importance re: NFP, correct?
Only because one method is consistent with God’s design of the human, man and women, and the other is not. What is of the utmost importance is Truth.
Then why even bother using the “pill as an abortaficient” argument anyway?
Because it is one more piece of evidence support the immorality of ABC.
Clearly it doesn’t make a difference as long as the method is Church approved, right?

Is there a threshold at which point loss of life would ever justify use of ABC?
Who engages in non-fertile intercouse with the intent to create miscarriages? Since ABC is immoral it can never be justified. (“the ends do not justify the means”)
The mother’s life is not enough, and now we see that loss of embryonic life is not the concern here either. So again, it’s not about saving lives (be it of he mother or the unborn), it’s the same old “semen in the vagina with no obstructions” argument.
Why is this not a valid argument?
I’m sorry, but I just don’t get it.
Plenty of information has been provided for you the “get it”. You may not like it, or agree with it, but it has been explained.
 
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