NFP and contraception

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The Church has no teaching that an overt intention to conceive must be present in order to engage in the marital embrace. It teaches that each time we *choose *to engage in the marital embrace, it must be in conformity to the way God designed it-- which is fully unitive and fully procreative, in an objective manner. This would translate to an unaltered, completed act of intercourse.
I have to admit…I just don’t get it. There are plenty of circumstances where the act is objectively not procreative. Cut-and-dry examples would be 80-year-old couples, a woman with ovaries/uterus removed to cancer, etc. I don’t understand how something can be objective procreative and objective not procreative at the same time.
 
I have to admit…I just don’t get it. There are plenty of circumstances where the act is objectively not procreative. Cut-and-dry examples would be 80-year-old couples, a woman with ovaries/uterus removed to cancer, etc. I don’t understand how something can be objective procreative and objective not procreative at the same time.
The act is always objectively procreative. Level of fertility is not a deciding factor. The act must be OPEN to life, it doesn’t require life to be created.
 
I have to admit…I just don’t get it. There are plenty of circumstances where the act is objectively not procreative. Cut-and-dry examples would be 80-year-old couples, a woman with ovaries/uterus removed to cancer, etc. I don’t understand how something can be objective procreative and objective not procreative at the same time.
The problem with this position is that “infertile” and non-procreative are not the same.
The unaltered sex act is always procreative, whether fertile or not.
 
I have to admit…I just don’t get it. There are plenty of circumstances where the act is objectively not procreative. Cut-and-dry examples would be 80-year-old couples, a woman with ovaries/uterus removed to cancer, etc. I don’t understand how something can be objective procreative and objective not procreative at the same time.
It is objectively procreative it is a completed act of vaginal intercourse. That is how God designed intercourse.

It is subjectively infertile if the person engaging in the act is infertile to disease, defect, injury, or natural cycle in life.
 
It is subjectively infertile if the person engaging in the act is infertile to disease, defect, injury, or natural cycle in life.
I don’t follow how permanent infertility is subjective.
 
I have to admit…I just don’t get it. There are plenty of circumstances where the act is objectively not procreative. Cut-and-dry examples would be 80-year-old couples, a woman with ovaries/uterus removed to cancer, etc. I don’t understand how something can be objective procreative and objective not procreative at the same time.
It’s simple.

We are not to thwart God’s design for the marital act. Period.
 
Haven’t you contradicted yourself by saying that “Emissions are never allowed without the chance of procreation”, and then saying that emissions during intercourse on days where there is no chance of procreation is acceptable… because it’s natural?

Which is it? Natural or chance of procreation?
I don’t think so.I said even on those safe days there is a chance.However its considered an unnatural act to have emission at anytime other than in the act of intercourse.
 
This is not the basis of the Church’s teaching that contraception is intrinsically evil. It has nothing to do with sperm emmissions or “wasting” them.

What the Church does teach is that each act of intercourse, to be properly ordered, must be *objectively *both unitive and procreative. This means it is ordered to both, and these elements cannot be separated. Contracepted acts and other types of acts that are not completed acts of vaginal intercourse render the act objectively disordered.
Do you remember the bible saying"its better to put your seed in the belly of a whore than spill it on the ground"?it was clearly implying that your seed is not to be wasted.This verse along with others have led to the agreement that it is unnatural to have emission outside of intercourse.Contraception is no different.Its a waste of seed.
 
Muze,

I understand how this confuses you. I think it should. I find it rediculous to think that someone can call it “objective” when the INTENT is to prevent pregnancy. Sure, it’s possible, but the fact is that people are using it as a way to NOT GET pregnant. That is no longer objectively open to life. We just can’t have it both ways. I know this is contrary to current Church teaching, but I believe it to be true. I also know this will draw fire. Fire away.

In the end, Muze, you have to reconcile your actions with what you know/believe God wants. I suggest some further research and talking to your parish priest if you have one. I did, and unfortunately, after ten years of conflict within myself, came to the conclusion that the current teaching is hypocritical. I have my beliefs as to why, but they aren’t in question here. Good luck.
 
It’s simple.

We are not to thwart God’s design for the marital act. Period.
An marital act between permanently infertile couples is not procreative…period. Arguing that an act between such as couple is both unitive and procreative is nonsensical.

A martial act between fertile couples, with full knowledge that they are doing so during an infertile period with the intent to avoid having children, is ordered toward not being procreative…period.

I personally find the details justifying NFP extremely disconcerting. IMHO, it should be argued in a natural law context, with the contradictory and/or nonsensical details left out.
 
Muze,

I understand how this confuses you. I think it should. I find it rediculous to think that someone can call it “objective” when the INTENT is to prevent pregnancy. Sure, it’s possible, but the fact is that people are using it as a way to NOT GET pregnant.
One must also take in mind that NFP’s intent in instrumental sense is destruction of semen. The whole idea is to take the sperm out of woman’s body before it can do it’s role in the natural process.
 
An marital act between permanently infertile couples is not procreative…period. Arguing that an act between such as couple is both unitive and procreative is nonsensical.

A martial act between fertile couples, with full knowledge that they are doing so during an infertile period with the intent to avoid having children, is ordered toward not being procreative…period.

I personally find the details justifying NFP extremely disconcerting. IMHO, it should be argued in a natural law context, with the contradictory and/or nonsensical details left out.
So couples must only be intimate during fertile periods/ or be ignorant of when fertile periods are?

What about a couple trying to conceive should they abstain on non fertile days because procreation cannot take place?
 
An marital act between permanently infertile couples is not procreative…period. Arguing that an act between such as couple is both unitive and procreative is nonsensical.
I really have found the terminology “unitive and procreative” to have too many technicalities. Couples must not thwart God’s design for sex.
A martial act between fertile couples, with full knowledge that they are doing so during an infertile period with the intent to avoid having children, is ordered toward not being procreative…period.
Don’t know many nfp’ers do ya?
I personally find the details justifying NFP extremely disconcerting.
Me too. It is defended so rigorously that Catholics often times give the impression that it is justifiable in any way a couple wants to use it.

Just in case it hasn’t been mentioned on this thread, Catholics should use nfp only for grave reasons.
 
I really have found the terminology “unitive and procreative” to have too many technicalities. Couples must not thwart God’s design for sex.

Don’t know many nfp’ers do ya?

Me too. It is defended so rigorously that Catholics often times give the impression that it is justifiable in any way a couple wants to use it.

Just in case it hasn’t been mentioned on this thread, Catholics should use nfp only for grave reasons.
I’d dare to say that we have changed in practice what was concluded in Church documents. Several reasons for that.

First, it takes some time for NFP to work. You need a lot of time to recognize symptoms of fertile circle, since every woman is different. This makes it difficult to apply NFP in case of immediate need. For example, if pair becomes jobless, it will take several months before they can rely on NFP.

Second, theological approach of Church shows opens more questions then answers. For example, if NFP is in accordance with nature and God’s will, there are no reasons to promote it only for grave reasons.
 
An marital act between permanently infertile couples is not procreative…period. Arguing that an act between such as couple is both unitive and procreative is nonsensical.
What makes a marital act between permanently infertile couples non-procreative? The ACT is still procreative even if the bodies are defective and can’t produce.
 
The ACT is still procreative even if the bodies are defective and can’t produce.
The act may be natural and ordered the way God intended it, but it is objectively and absolutely NOT procreative in nature. If one can’t beget/conceive, they can’t procreate.
 
The act may be natural and ordered the way God intended it, but it is objectively and absolutely NOT procreative in nature. If one can’t beget/conceive, they can’t procreate.
Why are you changing the meaning of proceative?

Procreative, with respect to Catholic moral teaching, is not the same as infertile.

Until you make this distinction your are committing the logical fallacy of equivocation and your claim is invalid.
 
Why are you changing the meaning of proceative?

Procreative, with respect to Catholic moral teaching, is not the same as infertile.

Until you make this distinction your are committing the logical fallacy of equivocation and your claim is invalid.
Every definition I’ve ever seen for “procreation” is along the line of “to beget and conceive,” “to reproduce,” etc.

Never have I seen a definition of “procreation” including the impossibility of reproducing.
 
You’re assuming that procreation is only the making of a baby. One infertile couple i know does more procreating than many families with ten kids. Being ordered to giving life is much bigger than just biology.

"First, it takes some time for NFP to work. You need a lot of time to recognize symptoms of fertile circle [sic], since every woman is different. This makes it difficult to apply NFP in case of immediate need. For example, if pair becomes jobless, it will take several months before they can rely on NFP.

That’s not actually true. Do you have any real-life experience with NFP? Several months is waaaay off. One complete cycle could be plenty, especially if the couple is checking temps, because then you know for sure when the woman has ovulated, and she will then be infertile at least until her period starts.
 
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