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LittleDeb
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Thank you!! The fact that mine are all over the board is what makes me rare in many ways (20-40 days). The more common types are actually more like LaSainte’s grandmother. From what was described, and from what I know about the topic, she likely would ovulate on day 7, have a 7 day luteal phase, bleed unnoticed and then cycle again within the same month. Without a long time to build up a uterine lining, it can be a very faint shedding. It looks like pink mucous actually. Her grandmother would have had the same amount of fertile time during each calendar month as a normal cycle, but it would be divided into two cycles. Obviously calendar rhythm wouldn’t work, but STM would be very effective. That method would be valuable in determining ovulation had likely occurred, by the raised temp, and that menses was occurring, due to the dropped temp. I am curious and hope she shares her grandmother’s age. I am wondering which method she attempted. The time period would give clues.Dear LittleDeb,
I appreciate your wisdom and hope to follow your lead and to avoid these types of debates in the future. It seems to be an exercise in futility, as one can cite sources until one is blue in the face, but if the heart is not inclined toward the beauty and truth found in our Catholic faith, well then…
In any case, I am sorry to hear about your losses. I didn’t know that you could have a luteal phase that is only 3 days. That would be a sign of very low progesterone, indeed. It’s good to be alive in a time when there are a few good doctors who are able to investigate and treat our female medical issues. Anyway, I hope to be as blessed as you with 2 children some day.
God bless you.
She was very blessed to have an adequate luteal phase to carry those babies to term. On some level, calling it a “hyper-fertility” is accurate in some ways, just not the way it sometimes is presented by some medical journals… She could ovulate quickly, and had a fairly short luteal phase if she was actually ovulating twice in a month. I am interested in seeing the study out of Canada to find out if they ultrasounded for ovulation and temped for menses. If either is missing, their findings of a “double ovulation” would be inconclusive, at best, even to prove two cycles in a month. To prove the theory that they are in the same cycle and in opposite ovaries, they would have to ultrasound each ovary, in each subject, every week, or even more frequently. It is more likely that the study drew conclusions that were not necessarily evidenced. I am open to being wrong. But in my experience, secular science is still waaaay behind in this area.
Thank you for your kind words. It is difficult when you know you miscarried, but don’t have the little “pee on a stick” to prove it. To add to it, our culture really isn’t that sympathetic to early miscarriage since the rumor spreads about the common occurrence of miscarriage. I am so thankful for NFP. I knew my (living) daughter was there the very next day. Not because my chart told me, but because I am now tuned to the changes in my body due to NFP. God has his reasons for giving me this particular cross to bear. I thank Him for this burden because it has brought me closer to Him. Why He did it this particular way, I don’t know. Someday, I might finally understand!!
Prayers for your journey. Yours is harder than mine. Having been totally infertile and now being on the other side, I can honestly say, my crippling physical pain is minor compared to the daily burden of infertility. Infertility aches to the depths of your heart.
