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How effective is natural family planning (NFP)? Any experience? I’m just curious.
Why’s that? What serious reasons?one should only undertake the using of nfp under serious reasons. it would be best in my opinion to ask a good spiritual advisor or priest.
Why’s that? What serious reasons?
audiosancto.org/sermon/20071014-Series-on-Marriage-Part-4-Periodic-Abstinence-and-NFP.htmlIf, then, there are serious motives to space out births, which derive from the physical or psychological conditions of husband and wife, or from external conditions, the Church teaches that it is then licit to take into account the natural rhythms immanent in the generative functions, for the use of marriage in the infecund periods only, and in this way to regulate birth without offending the moral principles which have been recalled earlier.20
From Humanae Vitae (Pope Paul VI)
NO one can tell you what serious reasons are, though. That is for you and your spouse to discern through prayer and with a good spiritual director if need be.
(a) NFP is not contraception.NFP is a contraception that is 99.9% effective, according to their advertising.
I suggest you review Sympto-Thermal Method, Creighton Method, Billings Ovulation Method, and the Marquette Method individually to learn the various fertility signs that each one tracks and the studies on the individual methods regarding effectiveness.How effective is natural family planning (NFP)? Any experience? I’m just curious.
It is important to note that for a reason to be a “just reason” to use NFP to avoid…it must be a “serious reason” …That is why other posters have indicated that one must have a just reason to use NFP in the first place.
The vast majority of people who use NFP use it as a natural contraception. Technically, it seems that even those who use it for “legitimate” reasons (if such even exist) use it as a contraception because they necessarily have an intention to prevent conception. The purpose of their action is to avoid conception.(a) NFP is not contraception.
That is not what makes something a contraceptive.intention to prevent conception. The purpose of their action is to avoid conception.
If you just want anecdotal evidence, for our family it’s been 100% effective for whichever thing we were ready to do - achieve pregnancy or avoid pregnancy.How effective is natural family planning (NFP)? Any experience? I’m just curious.
Whose definition is this exactly? It’s a convenient choice for someone who wants to support NFP, but it doesn’t get to the heart of what contraception is. Contra + coeptus = against the beginning (of life). Anything moral act that works towards this end is a contraception.That is not what makes something a contraceptive.
A contraceptive is a device or action that *alters *a completed act of sexual intercourse to try to render it sterile.
It is impossible to divorce intention from a moral act. The fact that the couple is planning, abstaining only periodically, etc., demonstrates their intention. If someone steals $5 from someone, it’s not a mortal sin. If someone plans to steal $5 from someone everyday for a year, it is a mortal sin. It doesn’t matter that the fruition comes at large gaps. The moral “act” lasts a long period of time. It is no different with NFP. While abstaining in itself isn’t sinful, and a couple can do so for years if they so choose (or even live entirely celibately, as many saints have done in the past), that doesn’t mean that they can do so as it is done within the whole circumstances of the moral act of NFP and with the ill intention. Of course, if they intend not to have children or even if they don’t actually intend (at least virtually) to have children, then they have already corrupted the marital act each time they engage in it because the intention (except for things that are intrinsically evil), usually plays the central role in assessing the moral weight of any act. No to will children in the marital act is to divorce it from its primary end, which is always contrary to natural law.Not having intercourse doesn’t alter the act. There is no act. Every time the couple has intercourse, it is completely unaltered.