Sure, but you can, and probably should, be asking your non-churched friends to fun, entertaining functions that are outside of the actual church service itself. I would do this before ever inviting them to Mass.
I understand Catholic Mass is very different from a Charamistic movement service like the one i am attending right now, we have rock hillsong (but no dancing), pple are worshipping Lord in a joyful manner, at time we have mini concert before the serivce…etc, when service starts, everyone will sit down and listen to serious Gospel. Nobody are allows to fall asleep as our Pastor has a pair of sharp eye, whoever fall asleep or yawn , he/she will be remained to be serious. So it still bolt down on individual church how they operate their service.
Our unchurched friends should be introduced to our Church community first. Then they can see what’s different about us. They can see that, yes, we do have fun, but there is a specific reason for the way we worship the way we do. Once they see this and become interested, they can learn how it’s our faith that makes us different.
In Asia, pple are not as acceptance as America, having to say that for most Asia countries are dominated by either Muslim , Hindus or Buddhist. Christianity is only a small percentage. Let alone pple here does not bother how faith draw us differently from themselve, because we aim American so you cannot compare American mindset and assume that it will work in Asia. The only place where you can say that is in Philippines where majority of them are Catholic (thks to the missionary who have done a great job) but the rest of Asia, Protestantism are more in favor then Catholicism, thus numbers of converts are growing faster.Take for instead my country. There are in total 30 CC, some dated more than >40+ old, members in total for this 30 CC is around 200,000 members, so 200k divided by 40yrs = 5000 per yrs for this 30 CC, if the tradition way is really doing pretty well, i’m sure to say CC will have dominate Christianity in my country and not the other way around. In Asia the largest stand alone church in Korea have more then 700,000 members. Of course this figures cannot compare to the total world population of Catholic, but if a stand alone church can have so many members attending (my church is only around 22,000 after 17yrs, still very small), i’m sure to say that since Catholic who has the fullness of the truth, the holy of all “Eucharist”,it won’t be difficult for an individual parish to have more then 700,000 members after more then 20yrs. If every church are comfortable with their numbers of members, then i pray that their members can put it extra effort to evangelize for Jesus and don’t expect what we think is correct will work. The message is sacred, so does churches where members work together to grow it. Good trees will bear good fruits and harvest, bad trees will be cut off and will not harvest.
They need to see the deep meaning in the way we worship and they will not get that if we just start throw them into Mass like throwing a nonswimmer into the deep end of the pool. Mass is deep; they need to learn to swim first.
Before you wanted someone to have those deep meaning, you first have to win them to your church, that is why i say how the church works will determine the root of it. It took my frez almost 10yrs to move me to a church, because i never believe in Jesus when i was young, for i am a typical Asia who are born into a buddhist family and i always find going to a church a hassle and boring things to do, so as a new believer , i am very sure to speak of the culture practise here
People should not be converted because of the entertainment value they get out of worshiping God. I am in agreement with ElizabethAnne.
This is true, becoz we cannot ask pple to convert when they don’t believe, but my church objective is to win lose soul to church , after that we can start to educate them and whether anot they wanted to go for baptism we leave it to them as we don’t force pple to convert.
As far as having a late night Saturday Christian rock party-type entertainment. I say go for it. Just don’t try to call it a church service. Call it what it is: a party.
It doesn’t matter how we call it, most importantly is our ojective to spear Gospel to others, the burning anixety in us to win lose soul then the luke warm heart that does not produce any result