You defined “subjective” as relative to the tastes and wants and desires of the person and “objective” as existing outside of the personal. Do mean “personal” to mean all persons or one individual person?
Is the desire for food objective or subjective? Is the desire to be in a relationship with God subjective or objective?
Best,
Leela
What I am saying is that for a theist, God is held to be objectively true. That this is held as a faith statement makes no difference. For the most faithful, God is more real to them than even the rocks and the trees and the sky. God’s values, his commandments for all who love him, hold the same objective reality as God does.
We value matrimony as a sacred union between man and woman, for example, not because we do not find the idea of sex with others to be desirable, but because to the extent that God states what marriage is and isn’t, that value is not based on our own subjective preferences, but on God’s word. The objective reality of a God makes his values foundational. Sex outside of matrimony may seem desirable, reasonable, and even good to us (especially those of us who consider ourselves God’s gift to women

), but it is not our reasoning that takes precedence here. To the extent that we understand God to be as real as the trees and the sky, then we do not act according to our own preferences and will, but to his will be done.
An atheist on the other hand, by definition, has no such foundation to his or her value system. Values are subjective to them. They are fully byproducts of being human, and based in human desires and human institutions. In a word, they are based in human biology.
Without God, what else could they be based in?
What makes one set of values objectively true, and the other only subjective held, is simply the belief in God. When God is deemed to be of the same— or even of a greater reality than even the trees and stars—then his values are as objectively real as he is.
For an atheist, there is no God, and therefore, values almost by definition must be defined as being subjective, subject to our own biology and institutions.
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Now just to further the argument, atheist and theist alike, we are all part and parcel of this same secular, post-Christian society. There is no sharp dividing line between theist and atheist here, for the truisms and beliefs of the greater society enter our minds and become a part of us. We are not immune to each others beliefs any more than we are immune to a flu virus or HIV. We are all exposed and must guard against.
So back to Tillich and ultimate concern, and the existence of nihilism in a society such as ours. We may all have our values in life, but the question is whether or not such values will stand in opposition to the constant barrage of nihilistic forces, which serve to persuade us that our values are more fictional than real, nay, less than fictional even, not even worth the read.
And back to your general question as well, Leela, as to the statistical proof for nihilism; specifically for theists, but more generally, as I am defining it now, in terms of our secular society too.
I would think that the larger proof would not be the example already given of the suicide Islamists. Although this is a powerful example of what is meant by theistic nihilism, the larger proof would be the 50 million slain unborn removed from American human life in the past generation and a half. The statistical proof would be in the birth rates of Canada and the European community plunging well below replacement levels, in the order of 1.6 to 1.8 live births per woman.
In the end, the ultimate concern of for all humans is, well, human life!! The ultimate denial of human value is therefore to actively or even passively choose against perpetuating human life.
That which we value, we magnify, we glorify, we defend, we strive for, we desire to perpetuate.
That which we despise, we annihilate.
The fundamental concern that we can all agree on, whatever our relative position is on God, is that human life itself is at the center of all human value. To the extent that life itself is being denied, a society becomes, by definition, nihilistic.
Ergo, statistically speaking, in terms of the numbers alone, our societies, if not fully nihilistic, are well along the path to that kind of absolute nihilism.