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Methinks i presume way to much. I disagree. One must always presume the most beneficial to the individual, not the easiest for the presumptor. Thus, when meeting a couple I presume a valid marriage, when one ask for a divorce I presume a possibility of an invalid marriage, when one is too young or uneducated a priest may, for pastoral reasons, preside at a wedding having doubts about the validity. Always presume in favor of God’s Mercy not in favor of your judgeship.I’m not sure what you mean by that. The Church grants permission for mixed marriages and dispensations for marriages with non-baptized and for marriages outside the Church. In all those cases the marriages are presumed valid.
Put another way…Always presume the person to whom you are speaking was forgiven by God before you started the conversation, even if you saw what you thought was a sin or evidence of something you consider sinful.