No Catholic Church nearby

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You really need to brush up on you history. The lack of Catholics in the south has nothing to do with what you imply. First the majority of settlers that came to the American South were Catholics. Spanish priests were serving soldiers on what eventually became known as Parris Island, South Carolina, and Jesuits were working to convert Algonquian Indians along what was then called the “Ajacán Peninsula,” between the James and the York Rivers that empty into the Chesapeake Bay. Eventually however the Catholic became outnumbered by the English settlers and after the Calvert familys conversion to Anglicanism in order to retain the charter to Maryland Catholism declines further because to be English is to be Protestant. When the English first settled the Protestants made more of an effort to convert people then the Catholics. Later on as Catholics immigrated from countries like Poland, Ireland, Italy etc. they usually immigrated into Ellis Isle. Once in the United States the typically settles with others if there “kind” due to lack of finances and knowledge of culture. Also both Catholics and Protestant leaders did not like there congregations fraternizing with one another. The rabid anti-Catholicism of Protestant leaders like Parker, Beecher, Buchard, and Blanschard, but also to the religious and ethnic parochialism that was encouraged by Catholic leaders like Archbishop Hughes of New York and Archbishop Kenrick of Philadelphia. While it is true that Protestants did not want Catholics threatening their supposedly free and liberal society, it is also true that many Catholic clergy did not want their parishioners fraternizing too closely with dangerously individualistic Protestants.
 
I am curious as to what part of the South you live. I am not doubting what you say, but Catholic churches are not that rare in most parts of the South. I have been around Arkansas, Louisianna, Alabama, and I would be surprised to find any place in those states that are over an hour away from the nearest church.
God bless, I really feel for you in your situation.
 
I’m from that region - it has nothing to do with economic decline. There just aren’t many Catholics in eastern NC and it’s historically been that way. South Carolina has a higher Catholic population than NC does.

And they are anti-Catholic in eastern NC. I lived there with a Catholic father. Trust me.

Why the word of people who have lived there or who live there now is refuted throughout this thread is beyond me. We know what we’re talking about.

@tafan - she is in Hyde County. The closest Church to her is almost two hours away in what we call “little” Washington. Trust those of us from there - Catholic churches are not abundant there. They’re very Pentecostal and Baptist in that region.
 
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There are some Catholic Churches but they are not as abundant as they are in bigger areas. Even when I lived in other places I still had to drive at least 30 minuets to church. We also have a priest shortage. Father Roger at one of our old parishes was responsible for two parishes. After our Mass he had to leave and go directly to another. He was from Africa and spoke four languages but he could be difficult to understand. We did not have Catholic schools past elementary and I had to drive my son to another parish for faith formation when he was in pre-k because he was the only child and I mean the only one.
 
Go shopping or sometype of play thing(park, amusement thing, have to be creative here) for your son then attend the saturday vigil(a half day weekly trip).

EDIT; read some more, looks like food lion is more than halfway toward the Mother of Mercy in Washington. I imagine that is where you grocery shop…combine trips and bring a cooler?
 
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Population estimates, July 1, 2017,
Hyde County, NC 5,363

2000, there were 583 people living in town

Other places I’ve lived in NC
2000, there were 2,351 people
2000, there were 999 people
2010 population was 1,520
2013 census estimates, there were 112,067
2000, there were 66,715 people

Can you guess the two places we had no problems finding a church?

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I can imagine. Living rurally inevitably comes with long journeys for all sorts of things.
 
We were like kids in a candy store when we moved into town and could actually order pizza delivery!
 
I will add my two cents (against my better judgment.) It seems the OP and her family need one quality car. That should be their first goal. Living in the middle of nowhere does usually result in increased transportation costs. From my map studies it seems the OP lives in a lovely but isolated place. So going to a Catholic Church is always going to be an issue.

My mother lives in a retirement community about a mile and half from a Catholic Church and her Catholic associates have serious problems attending Mass. They either attend the community’s Protestant service or skip it entirely. Also I knew an interfaith family that had their children attend a Baptist church and a Catholic church at the same time and I also knew a German family that attended a Presbyterian church while in the States and reverted back to the Catholic church when they went back to Germany. So Catholics do things like this.

My concern is if the OP’s family regularly attends, say, a Methodist church that they will in a few years become Methodists. Also the OP might consider asking the parish priest what they should do instead of us CAF-perts.

I will keep the OP in my prayers.
 
My in laws live rurally, there used to be a Catholic priest who travelled to the village to provide a mass at the local CofE church but then he became too infirm to do the journey. Many of this congregation now attend the CofE services and in this case everyone is pretty understanding and respectful.

Obviously these folk are older and well established in their faith, its very different to someone trying to raise a child Catholic.
 
Hopefully you can make it a weekly outing to drive the hour and a quarter to
make it to Sunday Mass! And, I am sure that parish can help you by suggesting children’s books about the faith that you can read and instruct your son.

The Mass is the source and summit of our Catholic faith!
 
Ask the priest of your nearest parish for advice. Watch Mass on EWTN and search for age-appropriate religious ed programs on YT. I would not attend Protestant services until your son is more grounded in the faith. It’s very easy to become confused, and anti-Catholic comments seem to pop up with some regularity from the pulpit and he will experience some considerable social pressure to “get saved.”
 
A lot easier said than done when she doesn’t have a functioning car.
 
I’ve left a couple of messages with the parish in Little Washington. My Texas phone number won’t necessarily make them willing to return my call, though.

OP - have you attempted to call them?
 
I am not doubting the OP, I was just curious as to the exact location.
 
I was an Evangelical Protestant for many years in the States and we spent a good part of our time trying to “save” Catholics. Quite a few Evangelical Protestants have no problem with Catholics and consider them fellow Christians but not all. So I am uneasy for the OP’s son.

I have also come across on this forum Catholics who went Protestant or were thinking about it because the Protestant church had better programs.

I am not about to attend a Protestant Church regularly again because of my negative experiences with them but that is a different topic.
 
Yeah, I know that. And the person who asked would have known that if they read the thread.

My point was that no one should be asking for specifics.
 
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