Whether to be Eastern Catholic or Orthodox is fundamentally unrelated to how close any church is.

Have you been worshiping in the past in either Church? What leads you to believe you are called to one of these very distinct traditions? Being Catholic or Orthodox is a* life*, not just a faith community.
It sounds like there is an Orthodox Church near by. The Orthodox priest or deacon will be happy to explain to you the process for discerning if Holy Orthodoxy is the path for you.
As far as RCIA, I am an Eastern Catholic and I am a catechist in a Latin parish. Advice? Make contact with the priest or deacon at the Ruthenian Church near you. Ask for his direction about how to proceed.
If you are validly baptized (with water and in the name of the Holy Trinity) and have no impediments (you aren’t for example divorced and remarried) then you can be received into the Catholic Church after an appropriate period of instruction and active participation in the life of the Church, whenever you and the priest deem you are
ready . It would be a challenge to seek to be part of a Church you can almost never worship in, by the description you give. That is for you to explore with the priest or other spiritual father or mother. The Ruthenian priest or deacon can tell you if there is anything in the statutes of the Ruthenian Church that in any way further specifies when a Christian can be received into the Ruthenian Church.
The Ruthenian priest or deacon may be willing to meet with you for catechesis every couple of weeks either there where their parish is, or someplace closer to you. Maybe you could meet by Skype in between. They might have someone who is qualified to be a catechist who lives close to where you are and could meet with you near by.
If you want to be an Eastern Catholic it could be very confusing for other Christian candidates in an RCIA seeking reception into the Latin Church to have you seeking instruction on becoming an Eastern Catholic. And, even in separate sessions apart from those folks coming into the Latin Church, the catechist in the Latin parish is unlikely to be equipt to catechize someone seeking reception into an Eastern Church.
I would ask the Ruthenian priest or deacon for recommendation about where to worship closer to home. He may have suggestions about a specific parish near you.
As a Ruthenian Catholic you would be free to go to Mass at a Latin Church. Again, it would be a challenge to seek to be part of a Eastern Catholic Church you can almost never worship in, by the description you give. However, this is all something for you to work on with the guidance of a spiritual father, or mother.
I assume you looked at
Find-A-Parish re an ECC. You might also look for
an OCF near you, since you’re a college student. You could try for a Newman Catholic Student Center, although in my experience these are not known for being orthodox Catholic groups.