Nobody at Confession...Everyone for Eucharist?

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A while ago I went to Confession on Saturday and nobody was there. The next day at Mass…EVERYONE was in line for the Eucharist.

I don’t want to judge, but if I had the slightest feeling of lust or immoral thought, I NEVER take the Eucharist. I refuse to disrespect Jesus like that. Anyone else feel the same?
 
A while ago I went to Confession on Saturday and nobody was there. The next day at Mass…EVERYONE was in line for the Eucharist.

I don’t want to judge, but if I had the slightest feeling of lust or immoral thought, I NEVER take the Eucharist. I refuse to disrespect Jesus like that. Anyone else feel the same?
It is possible that they could’ve gone to Confession at a different time than you were there.

However, we are not to judge. Whether they are in a worthy state to receive is only known by the person and God.
 
A while ago I went to Confession on Saturday and nobody was there. The next day at Mass…EVERYONE was in line for the Eucharist.

I don’t want to judge, but if I had the slightest feeling of lust or immoral thought, I NEVER take the Eucharist. I refuse to disrespect Jesus like that. Anyone else feel the same?
It depends on what church I go to in our area whether I will see others or not. Some of the parishes I go to are packed, while some are completely empty.

As for receiving the Eucharist, that’s something I struggle with. If I went to confession for every single time I had a lustful or immoral thought I might as well just live my life next to the confessional. And I’d probably never be able to receive Jesus if I refrained from receiving it if I hadn’t gone to confession for every single sin.
 
A while ago I went to Confession on Saturday and nobody was there. The next day at Mass…EVERYONE was in line for the Eucharist.

I don’t want to judge, but if I had the slightest feeling of lust or immoral thought, I NEVER take the Eucharist. I refuse to disrespect Jesus like that. Anyone else feel the same?
I’ve sometimes wondered about everybody going up for Communion, especially since I get weird looks if I don’t. When I was growing up it was quite normal for a fair proportion of those at Mass not to receive.

Once our former pastor mentioned no one had shown up for Confession in the past two months and added, “Of course, I’m glad that no one is in a state of mortal sin.”

It’s possible that everybody was going to Confession at another parish, I suppose – there’s one nearby with daily Confession after the noon Mass.
 
I generally go to confession by appointment, so I am there on Saturdays only on rare occasions. I’ve never gone on Saturday and been alone, though. (First Saturdays seem to be the most popular, for obvious reasons.)

Also, while I learned from the Baltimore catechism that one must receive the sacrament once a year, I know of people who think that one must only go once a year if one has committed serious sin–and that list has also been pruned down considerably in their minds from what we learned as kids. My own aunt actually told me, “Oh, nobody goes to confession any more.” That’s so unfortunate.

Still, if one only does what is required and does not commit a serious sin, that would put them at Church over 50 times a year with only one confession. Confession services during Advent and Lent are popular at our parish, too. The local pastors have several services (one per parish per Advent or Lenten season–lots of choices) where there is a group liturgy for examination of conscience, and then there are six or ten or so priests there to hear private confessions. Every time I have gone to one of those services, the lines have been very long.

My pastor is constantly using his homily to invite people to confession. I do not know a priest who would not like more people to come more often, to have a deeper prayer life, and to participate more fully in their parish. Nevertheless, the mere fact that there are not more people there on Saturday does not mean that the people you see receiving Eucharist on Sunday are receiving unworthily. That, we can’t know. The very fact that we wonder about it, though, is not a particularly good sign concerning our own spiritual health. We have to be very careful.
 
If I went to confession for every single time I had a lustful or immoral thought I might as well just live my life next to the confessional. And I’d probably never be able to receive Jesus if I refrained from receiving it if I hadn’t gone to confession for every single sin.
Having a fleeting thought or temptation is no sin. Giving in to the temptation is the sin.
 
A while ago I went to Confession on Saturday and nobody was there. The next day at Mass…EVERYONE was in line for the Eucharist.

I don’t want to judge, but if I had the slightest feeling of lust or immoral thought, I NEVER take the Eucharist. I refuse to disrespect Jesus like that. Anyone else feel the same?
…He has said that the number of Catholics, even the very active and committed ones, who were going to confession began dropping dramatically in the 1960s after the Second Vatican Council.
He attributes that in part to a changing notion of sin, and a tendency to no longer differentiate between mortal sins, which have to be confessed to be forgiven, and venial or lesser ones.
By the 1970s, according to O’Toole, Catholics were deciding for themselves what acts were serious enough to require confession. The greatest impact on that thinking, he said, was the Church’s birth control ban, which prompted many Catholics to start making up their own minds on what was morally right and wrong.
Meanwhile, more and more Catholics were going to Communion, partly due to the relaxing of fasting requirements, and were deciding that they no longer had to go to confession first…
 
A while ago I went to Confession on Saturday and nobody was there. The next day at Mass…EVERYONE was in line for the Eucharist.

I don’t want to judge, but if I had the slightest feeling of lust or immoral thought, I NEVER take the Eucharist. I refuse to disrespect Jesus like that. Anyone else feel the same?
In my parish and in others I’ve been to, not everyone goes up. A few don’t. Also, a slight feeling of lust that you don’t give in to is not a sin. Tempations do not need to be confessed. Since one receives many graces in communion, I wouldn’t skip it, not unless I were unprepared.

Many, many people show up for confession twice a year at the large services in Advent and Lent. This covers their bases, unless they fall into mortal sin rather often. I suspect that some people don’t perceive sins as strongly as people used to, though.
 
A while ago I went to Confession on Saturday and nobody was there. The next day at Mass…EVERYONE was in line for the Eucharist.

I don’t want to judge, but if I had the slightest feeling of lust or immoral thought, I NEVER take the Eucharist. I refuse to disrespect Jesus like that. Anyone else feel the same?
I do feel the same. It pains my heart when I know that someone is receiving the Body and Blood of Christ in a state of mortal sin. I take sacrilege very seriously and would never do it. I have my other faults though… like thinking too much about other people’s faults. :o

But that said… are you sure you might not be a bit scrupulous with yourself? You can’t accidentally have a slight thought of lust. As another poster noted, one either consciously decides to engage in that thought, or one has successfully dismissed the temptation. Frequent confession is good, but the object is developing a healthy conscience and refraining from sin. If you suspect you might be developing an unhealthy sense of unwarranted guilt instead, do consult with a trusted priest.
 
Usually there is a line on Saturdays at my church. Sometimes it is frustratingly long. Usually it is the same people though. The last two times I’ve been, I’ve gone to different parishes.

Still, with 1700 families at our church, I think if most people were going regularly, we would need more than an hour a week reserved for confession. So, chances are most people are putting it off and might be receiving communion when they shouldn’t. I wouldn’t judge individual cases, but I am pretty sure that this is the case because I doubt the people that I see in line each week at confession are the worst sinners at our church.
 
A while ago I went to Confession on Saturday and nobody was there. The next day at Mass…EVERYONE was in line for the Eucharist.

I don’t want to judge, but if I had the slightest feeling of lust or immoral thought, I NEVER take the Eucharist. I refuse to disrespect Jesus like that. Anyone else feel the same?
Wow! I must be member of a parish of hard core sinners or scrupulous people. If you do not get in line at least ten minutes before the official time, you may end up not getting confession. The priests make every effort to stay there until everybody is done; however, they also have to take care of other ministries. Three priests for 4000 families.
 
I find it totally varies from parish to parish. I, for example, have three nearby that have daily or almost daily Reconciliation, usually reasonably well attended when I’ve been. So it doesn’t surprise me that two of the others, which only offer about half an hour a week if that, are only sparsely attended.

Sometimes it also depends on the personality of the priest or priests - some are much less popular as confessors than others, for lots of reasons.
 
This is the one “problem” I have at mass…watching if anyone else is staying in the pew. I now distract myself from looking around & focus on praying to our Lord about the day I can finally receive him.

Just know that people are told they don’t need confession.
Last year, during RCIA we were told most people don’t need confession because they don’t commit murder. Both instructors told the class they go once a year …maybe twice when our church has (I forget the name) but when several priests come in and it’s a special night to confess before Christmas & Easter.

I’m now taking another class offered at our parish.
A Catholic man explained that his wife (noncatholic) who attends classes w/ him told him there is no need to confess to a priest…confess straight to God. Well, the instructor told him that’s true…again w/ the line most people don’t commit the sins necessary to go to confession. Mass covers it when we say, “I confess to almight God…” Then the catholic man said after the explanation he felt like he doesn’t need to go to confession anymore! My mom is coming back to the church after several DECADES away…she attends the class w/ me…she told me she felt like she doesn’t have to go now and she hasn’t. She still receives…even though last Sunday, Father explained reasons NOT to receive. (However, she doesn’t hear well…so maybe she missed what he was saying)

I’m always steaming…if Pope John Paul could go AT LEAST once-a-week, then most folks can make it more than once or twice a year.

OK, I made this long…it’s just something I’ve been working hard not to judge people in our church. (Actually, it’s not the people who go up I focused on it’s if anyone else stayed behind.)
 
I’m always steaming…if Pope John Paul could go AT LEAST once-a-week, then most folks can make it more than once or twice a year.
I think it was Padre Pio who said something like - If you want to be a good catholic, go once a month. If you want to be a saint, go once a week.
 
Not to be blunt, but…MYOB. You don’t know what other parishoners have done or not done in their lives, or what confession they have made or not.

If it’s anyone else’s concern, it’s the priest’s, but not yours.
 
A while ago I went to Confession on Saturday and nobody was there. The next day at Mass…EVERYONE was in line for the Eucharist.

I don’t want to judge, but if I had the slightest feeling of lust or immoral thought, I NEVER take the Eucharist. I refuse to disrespect Jesus like that. Anyone else feel the same?
Just to present a different view of the matter:

When Jesus walked the earth he did not refuse to talk to a woman who had been found committing adultery. He did decline to condemn her. (Though it did appear that he turned his back on the people who were trying to condemn her)

Jesus asked for a cup of water from a woman who had been with at least 5 different men.

He hung out with tax collectors, prostitutes, sinners of all sorts, and when called to answer for that he said “It is the sick that need a doctor.”

I think if a person experiences any healing or comfort by sharing in Christ’s presence in the Eucharist then they should do so. This seems to be as Jesus would have it.

Jim
 
Just to present a different view of the matter:

When Jesus walked the earth he did not refuse to talk to a woman who had been found committing adultery. He did decline to condemn her. (Though it did appear that he turned his back on the people who were trying to condemn her)

Jesus asked for a cup of water from a woman who had been with at least 5 different men.

He hung out with tax collectors, prostitutes, sinners of all sorts, and when called to answer for that he said “It is the sick that need a doctor.”

I think if a person experiences any healing or comfort by sharing in Christ’s presence in the Eucharist then they should do so. This seems to be as Jesus would have it.

Jim
Yes, they are most in need of the Eucharist.

But Christ also said “Go and sin no more”.

We cannot receive the Eucharist, then sin mortally, then come back and receive.

St Paul warns us that we are eating and drinking our own condemnation if we do so.

Peace and God Bless.

p.s We really shouldn’t judge people about them going/not going up to confession. Sometimes, because of my scrupulosity I have not gone up to receive the Eucharist, even though I probably should have. Sometimes, I have had a meal, gone to confession and then stayed for mass. Since I had not kept the communion fast I did not receive. Also, before my “reversion” I would receive the Eucharist without thinking about my sins. For that matter I barely knew what the consecration was about. Some people may not even know what they are receiving. Let’s remove that plank from our own eye first.
 
Not to be blunt, but…MYOB. You don’t know what other parishoners have done or not done in their lives, or what confession they have made or not.

If it’s anyone else’s concern, it’s the priest’s, but not yours.
That it is not completely correct. It is everyone’s concern. We the Church are a community where everybody has the duty to make his best effort to support everyone else to be free from sin and in a state of grace. The Church it is not only a personal (individual) relationship with God. The “koinonia” is based on the community of the Church and we get that directly from the Trinity. When we sin we expose others to sin.

Having said that, there we must be prudent and charitable when we approach the topic, especially because (as you correclty said) we do not always know what people do, and for sure we do not know what it is in their hearts.
 
Y’know, just reading this thread makes me want to go to Confession. 😃

I must be losing my mind! 👍
 
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