And this is a problem with your definition of “the Church”–one of the major reasons I am not a member of your Communion. You define “the Church” as this centralized hierarchy that issues pronouncements. I understand “the Church” to be a concrete, visible body of people throughout space and time. And when the particular local community representing “the Church” in my space and time tells me I’m welcome to receive a blessing (or even, in some parishes, to receive communion), I as a non-Catholic am going to take that to be what “the Catholic Church” is telling me at this particular point in space and time.
Edwin