Now, I enjoy weighing and pondering and even doubting, without feeling guilty or fear of heresy or whatnot. Catholicism really doesn't tolerate that. Millions of Catholic people do because they weigh and ponder and doubt, too, but the official position of the church is to accept what the church says - period! That troubles me. I am troubled by narrow-mindedness in such areas where the truth is so complex. With maybe 100 millions galaxies out there, we need humility. Churches may preach humility but often reflect arrogance.
(2**) Along the same line, Catholicism can seem rather legalistic**. What is mean is that there is only one way, say, to perform a Mass - the same everywhere in every church every Sunday morning. Granted, this has the advantage of conformity, but I rather like the idea that worship patterns aren't set in stone, that you don't have to read specific scriptures every Sunday in every church. I am rather impressed by the notion that there should be latitude for the spirit of God to work. If the pastor feels inspired to speak on a different text, do it. Otherwise this can seem likes a liturgical legalism. Is it all that different from the legalism Pharisees practiced and Christ spoke against?
I've had to choose between Catholicism and Protestantism with both traditions represented in my heritage. I have leaned toward what some would call liberal (mainline)Protestantism, the sort that appreciates other faiths, that seeks to put the teachings of Christ into practice, that is less concerned with doctrines and liturgy and more with loving God and one another, that is disturbed when too much emphasis is placed upon ancient traditions and even some beliefs that were relevant or believable 2000 years ago but no longer are today, etc. Evangelical Protestantism tends to have the same basic problem as Catholicism. There is only one way and that is their way.
Personally, I expect to greet plenty of Hindus and Muslims, Jews and Sikhs, yes, animists and perhaps even atheists in heaven. I'm happy to leave that up to God. We are saved by God's grace and not by doctrines, piety or by affiliation with any one faith.
God bless people of every creed, color, culture and country. Religion should be a bridge and not a barrier. After all, we're all children of the same God. If Catholicism would 'loosen up' I would find it more attractive. I know that few CAFers will agree with me, but I've shared my sentiment.