Non-Catholics: Why are you here?

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I disagree, most are here for questions, but can get emotional or upset when some Catholic threads challenge protestant teachings.** Don’t we all get defensive when our faith is challenged?**
As a Protestant with very Catholic leanings, I put up with a lot of broad statements about non-Catholics–like Anglicans not having valid orders, therefore our Eucharist isn’t the body and blood of Jesus. I realize I am a guest here and everyone is entitiled to their own beliefs. Most theologians I know, both Catholic and Protestant, are able to substantiate and convince others that their faith is the correct one.
 
***P.S. I feel like this post kind of sucks, it’s not my best work so to speak ***lol. I didn’t want to get way off topic of the OP so I did not express my opinions as fully as I would have liked. Hopefully you can take that into consideration if you choose to critique my post :o
Indeed, it certainly does!
We pray for you. Carlan
 
I have! (technically, we’ve all been embryos, have we not?) 😉

Being serious though, the major objection to abortion is that it seriously violates the sanctity of life. What God gives is only God’s to take.
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“Surely, not I” I came into being at my baptism;)

According to the abortionists the embryo has no being, thus none of us ever were embryos insofar as embryos can have no identity? That John the Baptist leaped in the womb of his mother when the pregnant Mary drew near is no evidence for them. It’s typical of pickers and choosers. Didn’t like the father, didn’t like the timing?

Very seriously though: I think the false, subliminal logic might go something like this:
pregnancy not wanted, love not involved=holy spirit not involved->holy spirit not involved, evil being produced, ? but, even if this were true, what about baptism’s power to wash away all sins, notably original ? yet still, if the evil is felt in the body due to rape or other strong hatred felt from abuse the child may be perceived as evil, or as a betrayer :
“But woe to that man who betrays the Son of Man! It would be better for him if he had never been born.”
I be interested in knowing what some of the woman think of this verse in this context, it’s the only person in the Bible (?) who Jesus condemns personally and not by category (such as the leaders of the Jews who had him condemned).
 
Why am I here? A few reasons.
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(1) I come from a mixed religious heritage. I was raised (I'm a senior) when there was considerable tension within the family and community because of religion. The main cause back then was that Catholics were not permitted to go into Protestant churches. How many baptisms, confirmations, weddings and funerals were missed because of this rule at that time. This turned me off some at a young age, though I also could not accept the fundamentalism embraced by some of my Protestant kin. 

 (2) Over the years I have developed a strong interest in the ecumenical movement. My favorite Pope was John XXIII. I favored and continue to favor reforms within the church. My main thesis is that we should have a broad Christian community which allows space for more variation of opinion than we have today. For example, if someone cannot believe some doctrines but wanted to be a Catholic, there should be room for that person in the church. Frankly, many Catholics I know are 'heretics' in that they may doubt such basic teachings as transubstantiation, practice artificial birth control, cohabit without benefit of marriage, believe that priests should marry, etc. They remain Catholics because of tradition, family, and admiration for some of the great work done by the church among the poor, in the areas of health and education, and through some of the great saints of the past and today - e. g., Mother Theresa and Fr. Damien.

 (3) As much as I have become somewhat of a Christian freethinker, and treasure my freedom to ponder, weigh, investigate, question, and doubt, I follow different forms of Christianity rather closely. I have particular admiration, for example, for the Quakers and the Salvation Army, but also admire the freedom many mainstream Protestants seem to enjoy in that they disagree amiably with one another. I'm referring here to Methodists, Presbyterians, UCC, Episcopalians, ECLA Lutherans, and others. My difference with Catholicism developed out of my need for just such a freedom. 

 That's enough for now. I enjoy reading and joining in the various discussions here on CAF. I subscribe to Our Sunday Visitor, America, US Catholic and Commonweal, so I do my best to keep well-informed on developments within Catholicism. I guess it's a particular interest of mine. But I also read up on Protestantism, Orthodoxy, Mormonism, Buddhism, Hinduism, Sikhism, Jainism, Islam, Judaism, etc. I taught comparative religions and philosophy in college a long time ago, as my interest goes back many years. My main problem with traditional Catholicism is that it constantly claims to be the 'one true church'. With maybe a million solar systems out there, my guess is that we're all living amid much ignorance and that when we enter the world to come we will realize how little we knew as we made this journey called life here on earth. 

  My views appear to be too conciliatory for many CAF participants. Thank you for tolerating my participation. I do seek to follow the principal teaching of Christ, that we love another. Over the years I have worked and prayed for peace, racial reconciliation, and cooperation among people of faith.

 God bless decent and sincere worshipers, whatever they creeds, colors, cultures or countries. Let us make religion a bridge rather than a barrier.
 
There are of course plenty of misapprehensions and sweeping statements about “Protestantism” around, not least in this forum.
I don’t want to be negative but how is it possible to make sweeping statements about “protestant” theology? Actually there does not seem to me to be any Protestant theology…but there are many versions of theology authored by numerous…maybe legions of individuals who have a few or many adherants. Isn’t this the essence of non Catholic Christianity…you read the Bible and decide for yourself what it seems to be saying to you? Before I was Catholic I sensed that the idea of a Church with leadership, a Catechism and a teaching authority was a turnoff for those who fall under the “protestant” label.
Anyway…would you give a couple of examples of the sweeping statements about protestants that you have heard…here or elsewhere?🤷
 
Frankly, many Catholics I know are ‘heretics’ in that they may doubt such basic teachings as transubstantiation, practice artificial birth control, cohabit without benefit of marriage, believe that priests should marry, etc. They remain Catholics because of tradition, family, and admiration for some of the great work done by the church
Hi Roy5,

The definition of heresy as I have been instructed is in the taking of one aspect of the truth and then making it the whole truth. Jesus performed many miracles, gave many instructions, proclaimed a new commandment, and gave us a great sign of his love. The church and God have taught me that Grace is very important to a peaceful life. A little story. Just the other day I was in church waiting for communion. I saw someone who behaved erratically in the mass, and just struck me as someone who might not be Roman Catholic, but was going to receive communion anyway. At first I got a little ticked off. But then I was able, with the help of the holy spirit, to advocate for that woman. I spontaneously recalled the verse of Jesus where he essentially tells one of the brothers coming to him for intercession on receiving his inheritance “Who appointed me your judge and arbitrator.” Lk12:14. So immediately I felt my anger abate and Grace reviewed, now this is before receipt of the Host. Now, figuratively this may be an example of love for the woman in an unidentified form; but more likely it was another aspect of the truth. Nevertheless the recollection I call prompted by the holy spirit here, was instrumental in saving me a lot of grief and took my faith to a higher level. Was I, in following my heart’s understanding of the teaching of Christ, a heretic? If, however, I were to go about teaching that the church is wrong and must be condemned for refusing to offer explicit sign of word to non Catholics where such involves receipt of communion, that would be heresy because I have no panacea for outward separation of churches.

As for your well understood comment on the Roman Catholic Church’s insistence that it is the one and true church–I might advocate for them (whomever espouses the doctrine publicly): There is only one church insofar as there is only one Christ. Claim(s) to be the one? Consider Jn 21:22 in its figurative sense. For me, at the moment I am aware of Grace in my life, it is then that I can state most confidently that I belong to the one true church.
 
Thank you, non-Catholics for joining us here. I think you give us alot to think about and sometimes help us refine our spiritual arguments.

Welcome!

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I, like many others it seems, came here to learn about Catholicism.

As I have mentioned in the past, a person can read up on subjects such as Catholicism, but to get the real feeling, flavor, and passion, you really need to interact with those who hold the beliefs dear.

I have found there are some who are much more conservative than others here, Catholics and otherwise.

But in reading many of the discussions, I think I have been able to get a better grasp of Catholic beliefs, and what Catholic practices are and what they are about.

I am, of course, still learning.

Oh, and this forum is a lot more active, and fun, than the Muslim forum I also interact with. 😃

Peace,

Seeker
 
Dear Roy,

Thank you for your thoughtful and nicely composed response. I too, am lucky enough to come from a mixed family. My father was Irish Catholic and my mother was Jewish - oy! I love being a Catholic and having children who love Our Lord. I also love being the mother of a dear, Jewish young woman.

I would like to explain that while you might love to see a series of “reforms” in the Catholic Church, there is a place for that. It is called the Reformation and they are called “Protestants”. Many non-Catholics do not understand that we do not vote on the implementation of doctrine we favor - the Catholic Church is NOT a democratic institution, and it is not intended to be. No one is forced to become or stay a Catholic. But it is interesting to note that the more conservative orders are the ones attracting holy, young and older priests. When I watch what the Episcopalians are going through with their churchs’ shifting doctrines, I feel very sorry for them as it must be VERY confusing.

I apologize if I sound flippant . . . it is just that Catholics and conservative Christians are often not tolerated very well by those who profess “tolerance”.

God Bless You!
 
I’ve just joined two minutes ago. To understand the Catholic faith better, I thought participating in a forum would be eye-opening. Being raised Baptist, it has never once been important for me to know anything about the Catholic church. Recently that changed. My husband of three years expressed a passionate desire for me to convert to Catholicism. At first, I vehemently refused to discuss the matter. My faith is personal and cannot be controlled by him. Later today I realized I don’t even know what I’m fighting against. So I found a local church. I found this forum to educate myself so I don’t feel like a total alien when I visit the church. Things we do for love…
 
I am Jewish, and married to a woman who has rediscovered her Catholicism. I found her Parish to be a fascinating place, filled with everything from thought provoking preaching to gracious fellowship, to approachable priests. I though I should learn more about her faith, and stumbled upon your website this evening. Much of what found under the rubric of relgion on the web seems to be poorly done, yet this the website looks like a solid breath of fresh air. 🙂
 
I am Jewish, and married to a woman who has rediscovered her Catholicism. I found her Parish to be a fascinating place, filled with everything from thought provoking preaching to gracious fellowship, to approachable priests. I though I should learn more about her faith, and stumbled upon your website this evening. Much of what found under the rubric of relgion on the web seems to be poorly done, yet this the website looks like a solid breath of fresh air. 🙂
Thank you Subtropocal, it is indeed refreshing for us to have so many come to visit with your open mindedness. 🙂 Peace, Carlan
 
I have always had a special place in my heart for Catholicism. It appeared that it is a more “in the trenches” Christianity. Very appealing.

I am engaged to a lapsed Catholic whose entire family is Catholic. We are having a baby. I want to learn about his family’s faith. I love them and respect them.

I recently joined an Episcopal church I’ve been visiting for about 10 years. (Catholic with a small “c.”) My youngest child decided to get baptised recently. I had considered converting to Catholicism but I feel more comfortable in my church. I’m just not at the point I can get behind certain things, like not attending my friends’ same-sex weddings or indigent people not being helped in getting birth control. I respect these rules; I pray about it but do not believe in them. I do enjoy going to our local Catholic church.

I’m pretty traditional and conservative at heart. In my opinion it is a good thing there are so many denominations. Some folks love to worship loudly and with contemporary music. Some of use like liturgy and quiet. I think whatever draws you closer to God. I personally feel that I need more structure and moral guidance. I was raised by a Pagan/Wiccan who was very… liberal. I was exposed to a lot a child should never know about. That’s probably why now I shy away from more… um… less traditional people.

For example, I finally met my guy’s friends and his son’s mother. I hate to say I can be judgmental; it’s something I’m working on. At any rate, these are people who have all slept together. His ex and many of his friends are/were strippers. They are vulgar and (admittedly) “lazy” folks. This is why my guy doesn’t see them anymore. He’s at a place he wants to make a different set of friends [see my thread, "A Good Friend is Hard to Find!’ 😉 ]. These are no people I wants around my children, or me for that matter! I was raised around that type of environment and it sends me into another dimension. I like quiet and no drama. Several of his female acquaintances have let me know they are bisexual and would be interested in me!!

So… what the heck does this have to do with this thread??? Um, this is what I struggle with and what draws me closer to God. When the world tells me I’m “too nice” or “up on a moral high horse,” I don’t have a healthy family to fall back on. I need this fellowship of Christ to support me and lift me up. I want to be a great, godly mom and wife. That’s not where I come from. I come from a long line of divorced ladies who would fit in on the Jerry Springer show. I need a spiritual family to model better for me.

That, my friends, is the short answer of why I joined this website! :o

Have a lovely week!

Cara
 
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Yes. I'm well aware that Catholicism is not a democratic institution, and presume that this is a major part of my problem with it.

To begin with, it continues the trappings and trimmings of an earlier time. When I see all the cardinals processing, in their ancient robes and without a single female, I am troubled. I undestand the power of tradition but also feel the need to make adjustments to the age we live in.

 I also have a freedom-loving mind. I mean by this that I enjoy pondering and weighing and contemplating theology and other aspects of faith, and I really can't believe that God would want to deny us that freedom and insist upon conformity. The Lord provided us with a brain which has produced marvelous progress over the centuries (and continues to do so). I have come to the point (once I was a 'strict believer') that humankind has only tiny insight into the mysteries of the universe and of this adventure we call life. With perhaps a million solar systems out there in space, I look to God with overwhelming awe, but also with enormous humility. It troubles me that any one faith community - whether Christian, Muslim or whatever - claims to have a monopoly on essential spiritual truth and that everyone else is wrong ('heretical') to a lesser or greater degree.  Personally, I leave such judgements up to God. My guess is that we're all like cats trying to explain a piano to other cats.

  My main concern is promoting the gospel of love, working in unison with others to achieve reconciliation, mutual respect, and peace. My commitment to 'true doctrines' and 'true churches' pale in comparison. They have caused so much prejudice and pain and even ridiculous wars of religion over the years. Religion should build bridges and not barriers.
 
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Yes. I'm well aware that Catholicism is not a democratic institution, and presume that this is a major part of my problem with it.

To begin with, it continues the trappings and trimmings of an earlier time. When I see all the cardinals processing, in their ancient robes and without a single female, I am troubled. I undestand the power of tradition but also feel the need to make adjustments to the age we live in.

 I also have a freedom-loving mind. I mean by this that I enjoy pondering and weighing and contemplating theology and other aspects of faith, and I really can't believe that God would want to deny us that freedom and insist upon conformity. The Lord provided us with a brain which has produced marvelous progress over the centuries (and continues to do so). I have come to the point (once I was a 'strict believer') that humankind has only tiny insight into the mysteries of the universe and of this adventure we call life. With perhaps a million solar systems out there in space, I look to God with overwhelming awe, but also with enormous humility. It troubles me that any one faith community - whether Christian, Muslim or whatever - claims to have a monopoly on essential spiritual truth and that everyone else is wrong ('heretical') to a lesser or greater degree.  Personally, I leave such judgements up to God. My guess is that we're all like cats trying to explain a piano to other cats.

  My main concern is promoting the gospel of love, working in unison with others to achieve reconciliation, mutual respect, and peace. My commitment to 'true doctrines' and 'true churches' pale in comparison. They have caused so much prejudice and pain and even ridiculous wars of religion over the years. Religion should build bridges and not barriers.
Good post! 👍
 
Dear Roy,

I appreciate your cogent response! You are very thoughtful to be “troubled” that women are excluded from clerical rites - - except that most of us (female Catholics) are not. We have our role in the Church, whether we are called to the religious life or are wives and mothers. If we stay home to raise our families or work outside, we must trust that God has placed us where He wants us to be. I find our roles are complementary to the roles of others.

It is interesting that something many people depend on is the constancy of our faith. A dear friend who is an Episcopalian is at her whits end about the positions her church has taken.

God Bless!
 
P.S. Roy,

I was interrupted and wanted to add, that of course, God gave us brains and reason to dissect problems, come up with solutions BUT most of all, to serve Him.

I have always wondered why so many smart people did not believe in God - - my dad explained that too many of them believed their own reviews! Ha! A virulent atheist I know is blessed with an amazing intelligence. I babysat him many years ago when I was a teenager and he purports to disbelieve in a god - - but all of his writing is aimed at what he see, research outcomes OR the evil of weak sinners in many denominations.

I have finally concluded that his assignment of the evil of some “religious” decrees to the religion itself, rather than to the human sinner.

This may not make much sense - I apologize.

Have a great day!
 
I’ve noticed that there are a lot of non-Catholics here, and many of them seem to just want to argue with Church teachings. I can’t help but think they’re here to convert us.

However, I know that not all the non-Catholics are like that–I just can’t figure out why else they spend their time on a Catholic message board. So I thought I’d ask.

What brings you, as a non-Catholic, to Catholic Answers Forums?
I was a catholic for the past 3 1/2 years or so but the more I thought about it I found myself in theological, moral and political dissention with the religion and the religious. I am here to give alternate points of view. if you go through threads you will see the same thing over and over i.e. is abortion a sin and for a few hundred posts its all yes,yes,yes. I’m here as the voice of open minded free thinking. come join me in the darkside question things you think are true and prove them wrong evolve your mind.
 
I was a catholic for the past 3 1/2 years or so but the more I thought about it I found myself in theological, moral and political dissention with the religion and the religious. I am here to give alternate points of view. if you go through threads you will see the same thing over and over i.e. is abortion a sin and for a few hundred posts its all yes,yes,yes. **I’m here as the voice of open minded free thinking. come join me in the darkside question things you think are true and prove them wrong evolve your mind./**QUOTE]

As I stated in the “Woody Allen/Bill Graham” thread…some of your insights sound quite Gnostic.🙂

One of the beliefs of some Gnostic sects was that “satan” was truly the “light bringer”…he sought to free Adam and Eve from the influence of the “God of the Blind” by having them open their eyes with knowledge…some Gnostics held that God’s assertion to Adam and Even that on the day they eat of the forbidden fruit…true knowledge of their nature…they would “die”…the Gnostics pointed out…they didn’t die after all…“Lucifer” is then seen as a good influence in seeking to assit in the “salvation”…of Adam and Eve from the entrapment God had placed them…

Just a few random thoughts a few of your comments brought to life…those few comments of yours I have read…I’ve enjoyed…as it pushed me down a road of tangents of Christian thought that had similar formation in those first few centuries of the common era.
 
My post was poorly worded. I mean I have reconsidered in the time frame since joining this forum, not necessarily because of the forum. Is that clearer?
 
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