Perhaps suggesting your non-catholic friends walk up to receive a blessing from the priest would be an idea.
On this forum, I have read many times that going up to receive a blessing at Communion is not proper and should be discouraged in the Roman Catholic Church.
So sorry you’ve been mis-lead regarding receving a Blessing in the Catholic Church. … What’s the harm?
This is a doctrinal and pastoral issue.
here’s a link to the response I received from the Congregation for Divine Worship and the Discipline of the Sacraments when I asked about the matter of blessings given during the Communion procession.
Here are the five observations that were made by the Congregation on the matter:
1. The
liturgical blessing of the Holy Mass is properly given to each and to all at the conclusion of the Mass, just a few moments subsequent to the distribution of Holy Communion.
- Lay people, within the context of Holy Mass, are unable to confer blessings. These blessings, rather, are the competence of the priest (cf. Ecclesia de Mysterio, Notitiae 34 (15 Aug. 1997), art. 6, § 2; Canon 1169, § 2; and Roman Ritual De Benedictionibus (1985), n. 18).
- Furthermore, the laying on of a hand or hands — which has its own sacramental significance, inappropriate here — by those distributing Holy Communion, in substitution for its reception, is to be explicitly discouraged.
- The Apostolic Exhortation Familiaris Consortio n. 84, “forbids any pastor, for whatever reason to pretext even of a pastoral nature, to perform ceremonies of any kind for divorced people who remarry”. To be feared is that any form of blessing in substitution for communion would give the impression that the divorced and remarried have been returned, in some sense, to the status of Catholics in good standing.
- In a similar way, for others who are not to be admitted to Holy Communion in accord with the norm of law, the Church’s discipline has already made clear that they should not approach Holy Communion nor receive a blessing. This would include non-Catholics and those envisaged in can. 915 (i.e., those under the penalty of excommunication or interdict, and others who obstinately persist in manifest grave sin).
#5 is very clear: the Church’s present discipline is that non-Catholics are not to approach the sacrament, nor to enter the procession to receive a blessing.
A few general comments:
A blessing is not a substitute or replacement for receiving the Body, Blood, Soul, and Divinity of our Lord Jesus Christ in the Most Holy Eucharist.
The Communion procession
is for Communion, not for other blessings, advice, etc. If you wish to receive a blessing from a priest because you cannot receive Communion, you should approach him outside the Mass. And if you are asking for such a blessing, you should consider
why it is you are asking for such a blessing, and to what end. Is it simply a formality, a “substitute” for Holy Communion? Or is it an expression of your desire to enter into full communion with the Catholic Church, so as to be able to approach the altar and receive Jesus present in the sacrament?
Regardless of what non-Catholics think of the Eucharist, know this: when you receive Holy Communion in a Catholic church, no matter what you think you are doing or receiving,
you are receiving the Body, Blood, Soul, and Divinity of our Lord and Savior. You are not receiving bread or wine. If you receive this blessed gift unworthily, you are adding sin to sin. Furthermore, this is not just a “meal” or “banquet”. This is
the Marriage Supper of the Lamb under the veil of a sacrament; this is the
consumption of a sacrificial offering. Catholic doctrine is that
the Eucharist is a true sacrifice (the same sacrifice numerically as that of Christ on the cross, with only the manner of the offering being different: the Eucharist is unbloody) offered to God.
Let me repeat:
the Eucharist is a sacrifice; receiving Holy Communion is partaking in a sacrificial meal. As St. Paul asked, “Do you not know that those who are employed in the temple service get their food from the temple, and those who serve at the altar share in the sacrificial offerings?” (1 Cor 9:13; cf. 1 Cor 10:16-21) You are partaking in
a sacrificial offering at an altar. If, as some Protestants believe, the Mass is a satanic pagan corruption of true worship of God, then the Eucharist would be offered “to demons and not to God,” and anyone who receives Holy Communion at Mass is partaking of the “table of demons,” and what did St. Paul say about that? “You cannot drink the cup of the Lord and the cup of demons. You cannot partake of the table of the Lord and the table of demons.” (1 Cor 10:21)
Non-Catholics, please consider this: regardless of whether the Catholic doctrine on the Eucharist is true (
and I believe that it is), Catholics
believe they are offering a sacrifice to God and are then partaking of that offering. If they are right, and you want to receive it too,
why aren’t you Catholic?! And if they are wrong, and it is a pagan offering and a fellowship with demons,
why would you want to receive it?!