Hi,
I think I may have misunderstood your first comment.

Explain again reconciliation.
When we Catholics talk about reconciliation, we are talking about a sacrament. This sacrament is also known as penance or confession. Since sacraments are administered licitly only to Catholic members of the Christian faithful by Catholic ministers, non-Catholic Christians cannot receive absolution in the sacrament of reconciliation.
As an aside, I have heard that some non-Catholics go to confession and discuss their sins with the priest. Fr Benedict Groeschel, who lives in NYC, says that he has Jewish people come to confession. There is no problem with the priest listening to their sins; however, he cannot give absolution to non-Catholics. I think this just goes to show how necessary it is for people to talk about their sins. If you don’t have a confessional, where do you go? Many people have replaced the confessional with a bar or a psychologist’s office. Also remember, the priest absolutely cannot repeat what you tell him in confession. This is strictly enforced.
This is what the CC believes about the Sacraments and who can licitly receive them:
vatican.va/archive/ENG1104/__P2T.HTM
Can. 840 The sacraments of the New Testament were instituted by Christ the Lord and entrusted to the Church.
As actions of Christ and the Church, they are signs and means which express and strengthen the faith, render worship to God, and effect the sanctification of humanity and thus contribute in the greatest way to establish, strengthen, and manifest ecclesiastical communion. Accordingly, in the celebration of the sacraments the sacred ministers and the other members of the Christian faithful must use the greatest veneration and necessary diligence.
Can. 842 §1. A person who has not received baptism cannot be admitted validly to the other sacraments.
§2. The sacraments of baptism, confirmation, and the Most Holy Eucharist are interrelated in such a way that they are required for full Christian initiation.
Can. 844 §1. Catholic ministers administer the sacraments licitly to Catholic members of the Christian faithful alone, who likewise receive them licitly from Catholic ministers alone, without prejudice to the prescripts of §§2, 3, and 4 of this canon, and ⇒ can. 861, §2.
THE SACRAMENT OF PENANCE (Reconciliation) (Cann. 959 - 997)
Can. 959 In the sacrament of penance the faithful who confess their sins to a legitimate minister, are sorry for them, and intend to reform themselves obtain from God through the absolution imparted by the same minister forgiveness for the sins they have committed after baptism and, at the same, time are reconciled with the Church which they have wounded by sinning.